How to have confidence?

[Thoreldan]

What is the difference?

Of course got difference. A top researcher in NUS doesn't necessarily mean he is confident around girls.

A high income earner doesn't mean he's confident in taking care of a newborn baby.

 

[BigMonkey]

go gym, train big muscle. confidence will come naturally.

 

[yyysss]

Of course got difference. A top researcher in NUS doesn't necessarily mean he is confident around girls.

A high income earner doesn't mean he's confident in taking care of a newborn baby.

But the way they got the confidence in what they are good at is the same right?

Also top researcher and high income earner naturally has high confidence?

 

[Wendy Hia]

If you have a trophy wife/hubby will you not be confident ?)

 

[Airplane88]

Earning $120k a year is that not alot that give high confidence also.

If Chiu earn 120k per year, Chiu are able to own a condo and car, this may boost your confidence.

 

[Lchlch]

Do not compare with others.
Lead a healthy lifestyle.

 

[Thoreldan]

But the way they got the confidence in what they are good at is the same right?

Also top researcher and high income earner naturally has high confidence?

Already told you confidence is not applied universally.

Having confidence in A does not equate to having confidence in B.

A successful and confident entrepreneur might not have confidence in ensuring a blissful lasting marriage, for example. He/she probably will not want to get married.

A corporate high flyer might not have confidence to pass an upcoming IPPT during in-camp training.

An established doctor might not have the confidence for a driving test which he has failed 3 times previously.

It is so hard to understand ? So which aspect of your life are you lacking confidence in ?

 

[Spike]

Otaku will demonstrate confidence in explaining anime related stuff while gamers can talk games. It really depends on your proficiency level in a given field.

 

[Jeremy1]

In order to have confidence, you need to be able to face a number of setbacks before things can worked out right.

 

[ramlee]

go gym, train big muscle. confidence will come naturally.

but i go gym i see all the fitzai i scared

 

[ramlee]

If you have a trophy wife/hubby will you not be confident ?)

Nooooooooooooooo

i scared wear green hat

 

[Hyruga]

Aiya everyone will work, grow old and die lo. What's there to be confidence about?

Confidence that you will die one day ah?

 

[Hello_Kitty]

there is an app for everything

 

[kimkuan]

I realised money don’t not help in confidence.

I know of someone who is as no confidence when he is earning 20K a year to he earning 120K a year.

what is the secret to have confidence?

you must first love yourself.

 

[Elfblade]

Vote for the whites, so u can hav confidence for the future

I sort of expected this reply to come but it came sooner than I expected.

 

[Elfblade]

you must first love yourself.

This is True, 先学会自爱，信心就会跟随而来。

 

[kimkuan]

This is True, 先学会自爱，信心就会跟随而来。

yes, love yourself, love your body type, love who you are first. then the confidence will slowly build from within.

 

[fly1111]

I realised money don’t not help in confidence.

I know of someone who is as no confidence when he is earning 20K a year to he earning 120K a year.

what is the secret to have confidence?

U need 20k a month plus look like Andy lau

 

[keenklee]

I realised money don’t not help in confidence.

I know of someone who is as no confidence when he is earning 20K a year to he earning 120K a year.

what is the secret to have confidence?

IMHO.
Confidence is to accept who you and what you can do.
However, confidence is easily eroded e.g. haphazardness, over commitment, affectless, etc.
Money and/or experience can help to make oneself better to improve confidence in the future.

P.S. Skillsfuture !

 

[keenklee]

U need 20k a month plus look like Andy lau

IMHO.
Look like Andy Lau maybe the $ will come in.