Loan Shark Harassment and how to stop it - Part 2

[green72]

CCTV is only going to be installed tomorrow.

Good to know. CCTV serves as a detterent and to capture evidence if runners sent to harass.

But importantly we have our Police Force. That is an important fact. I dare say nothing will happen to you or your family becoz we live in Singapore. I understand in your time of distress u might hv forgotten this fact.

I can't say the same for other countries.

 

[n2nq_beanie]

Good to know. CCTV serves as a detterent and to capture evidence if runners sent to harass.

But importantly we have our Police Force. That is an important fact. I dare say nothing will happen to you or your family becoz we live in Singapore. I understand in your time of distress u might hv forgotten this fact.

I can't say the same for other countries.

Well he post something online liao.

 

[green72]

Well he post something online liao.

Close or suspend ALL your social media accounts

One of their tactics is to name and shame you. Don't surrender, it's your life. FIGHT!

Whatever hv happened just moved on. Continue your mission to ghost him.

 

[green72]

Well he post something online liao.

And continue to report including this to your IO. Who knows if they able to track his ip address.

 

[unknown1245]

Hello, after 3 months, they called my mother and told her that i owed money to them.

Furthermore, they whatsapped her, showing pictures of my family and threatened that if they dont get money they will use my details go borrow more money. What should i do?

 

[green72]

Hello, after 3 months, they called my mother and told her that i owed money to them.

Furthermore, they whatsapped her, showing pictures of my family and threatened that if they dont get money they will use my details go borrow more money. What should i do?

Make a police report. Close ur social media accounts. That's where they got the photos probably.

Change hp nbr or block their calls and msg. I guess u nvr changed nbr, how come still can contact u after 3mths?

Normally after ghosting them, they will not be able to contact u if u changed nbr and open new socmed accts. Haven't u?

None contact me after 5 years oredi, u see wat I mean?

 

[learningmylesson]

Remember, don't reply, don't pay, don't read.

Yup, i won't. So far no news from him till date & still praying hard all this goes away soon!

 

[n2nq_beanie]

Yup, i won't. So far no news from him till date & still praying hard all this goes away soon!

May I know how long has it been for u?

 

[soyabeana]

Make a police report. Close ur social media accounts. That's where they got the photos probably.

Change hp nbr or block their calls and msg. I guess u nvr changed nbr, how come still can contact u after 3mths?

Normally after ghosting them, they will not be able to contact u if u changed nbr and open new socmed accts. Haven't u?

None contact me after 5 years oredi, u see wat I mean?

He changed his number already from his previous post back in December 2024. But I am guessing, he didnt change his NOK phone numbers hence the harassment got directed to his mother instead.

But I am curious, they can suddenly contact you after 3 months of ghosting? I thought that it would be all over after a period of time.

I am already at my 5th month of ghosting.

 

[SIM37_]

I've gotten the courage to call him. My dad say he did call and was shouting vulgarities. My dad shouted vulgarities back and put down the hp. And he didn't call again. I guess not so bad. My HR is also aware of my situation. I do have mental diagnosis, when I found this forum it did help quite a bit, although my IO sounds like the guy, i did my verification with the division itself.

Learn from your dad, and really farrrq them updside down if they ever talk to you.

Whats worse tell me? Him knowing it vs u needlessly paying them

Glad you're here right now.

Remember they don't have the ballsacks to go disturb you, they can only "remotely" sound fierce/intimidating thats all. If you accidentally pick up their call just say yes you can have your money back at cantoment police complex its at the counter, if they have the JI to go take it, its there.

Then kup their call and say f**k u to their LAN j**o bin!

Just remember, Don't read, Don't reply, Don't pay.

 

[soyabeana]

Hello, after 3 months, they called my mother and told her that i owed money to them.

Furthermore, they whatsapped her, showing pictures of my family and threatened that if they dont get money they will use my details go borrow more money. What should i do?

Can I check with you, back before or even now, did you deactivate your social media?

 

[soyabeana]

Yup, i won't. So far no news from him till date & still praying hard all this goes away soon!

Haha, I can tell you're completely calm now and feeling better than before.

And after waiting for weeks, if a surprise visitor shows up, it won't catch you off guard. By then, you'll know exactly what to do!

 

[n2nq_beanie]

Learn from your dad, and really farrrq them updside down if they ever talk to you.

Whats worse tell me? Him knowing it vs u needlessly paying them

Glad you're here right now.

Remember they don't have the ballsacks to go disturb you, they can only "remotely" sound fierce/intimidating thats all. If you accidentally pick up their call just say yes you can have your money back at cantoment police complex its at the counter, if they have the JI to go take it, its there.

Then kup their call and say f**k u to their LAN j**o bin!

Just remember, Don't read, Don't reply, Don't pay.

2nd day of ghosting them and changed my no. Harassment started immediately i ghosted them, they didn't wait for a few days.

It was bad I would say, kids got scared couldn't sleep. Family, colleagues and friends have been very supportive. Another day today.

 

[green72]

2nd day of ghosting them and changed my no. Harassment started immediately i ghosted them, they didn't wait for a few days.

It was bad I would say, kids got scared couldn't sleep. Family, colleagues and friends have been very supportive. Another day today.

Remember to rest, physically and mentally. Refuel too. U need to show ur kids the strength not to give in to those parasites.

Yes, 1 day at a time. Enjoy every moment until it ends. Without family and friends support we too would crumble to the stress.
Just sandbox negative comments you hear from aquaintances.

Enjoy the silence.

 

[learningmylesson]

Haha, I can tell you're completely calm now and feeling better than before.

And after waiting for weeks, if a surprise visitor shows up, it won't catch you off guard. By then, you'll know exactly what to do!

Heh, yes abit calm now..but still on my toes!

 

[Babablacksheeps]

Hello, after 3 months, they called my mother and told her that i owed money to them.

Furthermore, they whatsapped her, showing pictures of my family and threatened that if they dont get money they will use my details go borrow more money. What should i do?

Close all social media and change all family members FB to locked profile

 

[Babablacksheeps]

2nd day of ghosting them and changed my no. Harassment started immediately i ghosted them, they didn't wait for a few days.

It was bad I would say, kids got scared couldn't sleep. Family, colleagues and friends have been very supportive. Another day today.

Mine too. Harassment start the same day after the victim ghost them.

Don't worry, after a few more times , even your kids will ignore too. Speaking from my real life experience. Just keep them in room and let them engross into gadget even if youre a strict no gadget parents. Use the time to sip some water, calm yourself while calling 999. Cause mine has been constantly knocking loudly and trying to locate the kids voice but sadly, my toddler engross in gadget will cut off from the reality.

 

[Babablacksheeps]

2nd day of ghosting them and changed my no. Harassment started immediately i ghosted them, they didn't wait for a few days.

It was bad I would say, kids got scared couldn't sleep. Family, colleagues and friends have been very supportive. Another day today.

Mine too. Harassment start the same day after the victim ghost them.

Just keep them in room and let them engross into gadget even if youre a strict no gadget parents. Use the time to sip some water, calm yourself while calling 999. Cause mine has been constantly knocking loudly and trying to locate the kids voice but sadly, my toddler engross in gadget will cut off from the reality.

Just ignore them

 

[n2nq_beanie]

Yah kids have been in the room. But i think my kids are old enough that they would open the door for any people outside. So with the cctv installed I teach them to on the app first to see who is outside the door before opening. And only my helper is allowed to open the door and not them.

Its getting crazier nowadays with their harassment tactic.

 

[Ikamika]

Hello guys, today is my 1 month mark after ghosting the UML, and so far I didn’t receive any visiting for them,just threat after ghosting them. I’ve been living my life as per normal again and I’m so happy to be back on track! I told myself if 1 day they suddenly come up to my house I won’t be bother cuz for what we scared? Singapore is very safe and there’s cctv around just report to spf confirm few days will kena. And lastly I want to thank everyone in this forum for the advice that have been put up here, it really helps me a lot during me hell days and I just glad I found this forum. Hope everyone that going thru the same thing can look up to this forum and follow their advice, I can assure will get out from this problem sooner or later. Don’t be scared, live your life and be confident!! Jiayous!!