My ex partner (now separated), when we just got married (2 yrs back), suddenly said she wants to work overseas in the next few years. I always know she wants to retire overseas but not overseas posting suddenly. Then she asked me if i will go with her. We work in MNCs, so if want, sure can find posting overseas, but pay is another issue.
I raised my concerns that i am not keen to go in the next few years cause both my parents are unhealthy, 1 was closed to 80, the other 70, so probably need to wait till they passed away first. (8 months later my dad really passed on).
But when i brought up this point, instant quarrel alr. And is those kind of very bad quarrel.
Sometimes i really dont understand woman, the mind keep changing here and there. Maybe her amdk boss influenced her that she shld see the world. In fact, she was the one who told me if want to have kids, need to have it in the next few years cause she wants to have kids before 35.
I would say if no liability, guy needs to follow and go there find job. If not, sure end up divorce also.
