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XiaoChilli

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Yes not another thread by the small chilli.

Nowadays it has progressed into office bullying.

- Scapegoating of me to push the blame to me when there is a mistake. Origin of mistake was a person who input wrong price but they gang up to make it seem as though its the person (me) who perform the second last step cause the mistake.

-Snide remarks made about me when customers call the office.

-Non-coverage of my work while Im away on leave

-Not handing over properly the things she is supposed to guide me on. Which more blame will be shifted to me later on.

Of couse you can say find another job, quit your job, but the thing is... if hiring company were to call my company.. this frigging auntie who dare to make snide remarks abt me when customer call confirm will make snide remarks when they call.

So how? Wait until she retire, lah?
 

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Yes not another thread by the small chilli.

Nowadays it has progressed into office bullying.

- Scapegoating of me to push the blame to me when there is a mistake. Origin of mistake was a person who input wrong price but they gang up to make it seem as though its the person (me) who perform the second last step cause the mistake.

-Snide remarks made about me when customers call the office.

-Non-coverage of my work while Im away on leave

-Not handing over properly the things she is supposed to guide me on. Which more blame will be shifted to me later on.

Of couse you can say find another job, quit your job, but the thing is... if hiring company were to call my company.. this frigging auntie who dare to make snide remarks abt me when customer call confirm will make snide remarks when they call.

So how? Wait until she retire, lah?
Not all jobs nor levels need for reference bah. just try u never know
 

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Yes not another thread by the small chilli.

Nowadays it has progressed into office bullying.

- Scapegoating of me to push the blame to me when there is a mistake. Origin of mistake was a person who input wrong price but they gang up to make it seem as though its the person (me) who perform the second last step cause the mistake.

-Snide remarks made about me when customers call the office.

-Non-coverage of my work while Im away on leave

-Not handing over properly the things she is supposed to guide me on. Which more blame will be shifted to me later on.

Of couse you can say find another job, quit your job, but the thing is... if hiring company were to call my company.. this frigging auntie who dare to make snide remarks abt me when customer call confirm will make snide remarks when they call.

So how? Wait until she retire, lah?
You can start by recording meetings... just find any convenient excuse. Covering officer should be assigned by your supervisor, make it official in black and white.
 

XiaoChilli

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sis, do not bully back.
they bully you is they are sucking away your bad luck towards them and giving their good luck to you.
Stay put.
Do a doc for your own , the process, the steps...
Do not get angry with such toxic useless colleagues.
Hope she got her karma.. :(
 

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Yes not another thread by the small chilli.

Nowadays it has progressed into office bullying.

- Scapegoating of me to push the blame to me when there is a mistake. Origin of mistake was a person who input wrong price but they gang up to make it seem as though its the person (me) who perform the second last step cause the mistake.

-Snide remarks made about me when customers call the office.

-Non-coverage of my work while Im away on leave

-Not handing over properly the things she is supposed to guide me on. Which more blame will be shifted to me later on.

Of couse you can say find another job, quit your job, but the thing is... if hiring company were to call my company.. this frigging auntie who dare to make snide remarks abt me when customer call confirm will make snide remarks when they call.

So how? Wait until she retire, lah?
the auntie not your manager right?

why not u talk to your manager about the issues u face?
 

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She is my manager.
ok then u are fxxked.

sorry cannot help u liao

ppl leave a company usually cos of the manager

throughout my whole working life, i find female managers the worst and they are micro managers.

1st one - A bit boh chup but that's fine
2nd one - Every year see her go give birth, then rated me badly for my bonus
3rd one - Super micro manager, on leave liao still disturb me on my leave days (overseas)
4th and final one - The only best female manager I ever had, very steady but very demanding, but as long as u met her expectations, she is ok and dun disturb u

overall still prefer a guy manager, usually wun give u problems.
 

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Hope she got her karma.. :(
sis, try not have such thoughts.
Cos it will hit back to you one day.
instead, just concentrate on your work.
talk less to those toxic evil colleagues.
one day, they will get their karma.
they plant evil seeds, evil seeds will grow evil flowers for them to consume.
 

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ok then u are fxxked.

sorry cannot help u liao

ppl leave a company usually cos of the manager

throughout my whole working life, i find female managers the worst and they are micro managers.

1st one - A bit boh chup but that's fine
2nd one - Every year see her go give birth, then rated me badly for my bonus
3rd one - Super micro manager, on leave liao still disturb me on my leave days (overseas)
4th and final one - The only best female manager I ever had, very steady but very demanding, but as long as u met her expectations, she is ok and dun disturb u
my ex coy is also due to manager.
toxic until I suffer near depression.
 

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Leaving due to charlie bravo is normal. Many 睁着眼睛说瞎话 around. Just say you felt stagnated and wanted to learn new stuff in another environment loh. Then start to sell yourself. The rest just leave to fate loh…

After you leave, moi can take over.. :frown:
 

XiaoChilli

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Ts office life is very dramatic. Can collaborate with Netflix and make into a 10 episodes drama.:crazy:
I no kidding or exaggerate.. is really like this.
U guys must be having good time to think this is dramatic..
The 10 episode drama no one will watch because its like mean girls.. unless one like to watch ppl suffer
 

XiaoChilli

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Leaving due to charlie bravo is normal. Many 睁着眼睛说瞎话 around. Just say you felt stagnated and wanted to learn new stuff in another environment loh. Then start to sell yourself. The rest just leave to fate loh…

After you leave, moi can take over.. :frown:
U dealing with a lao charlie bravo. Be very careful of this charlie bravo. Why would you want to take over
 

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I no kidding or exaggerate.. is really like this.
U guys must be having good time to think this is dramatic..
The 10 episode drama no one will watch because its like mean girls.. unless one like to watch ppl suffer
u should do a tiktok skit , who knows this mini skit video earns you good money then u can quit.
 
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