Office Bully

[iPod Jack]

Need to see ts pic 1st b4 giving advice...

 

[XiaoChilli]

Nothing to lose at this point already, why stay

Scared to jump into another sheethole

 

[tExtra]

Why would you want to take over

So moi can eventually take over the lao charlie bravo…

 

[Lchlch]

I no kidding or exaggerate.. is really like this.
U guys must be having good time to think this is dramatic..
The 10 episode drama no one will watch because its like mean girls.. unless one like to watch ppl suffer

sis, sometimes it is better to remain quiet and dont talk unnecessary unless work or colleagues come over and talk kock.
As for me, I will not go and talk to colleagues.
I am a very quiet guy but i do my work deligently.

 

[XiaoChilli]

So moi can eventually take over the lao charlie bravo…

I thought u wna fk her lol

 

[XiaoChilli]

sis, sometimes it is better to remain quiet and dont talk unnecessary unless work or colleagues come over and talk kock.
As for me, I will not go and talk to colleagues.
I am a very quiet guy but i do my work deligently.

Diligent bor use when ppl scapegoat me..

 

[tExtra]

I thought u wna ** her lol

咦～ 讨厌～

 

[d3n]

sis, sometimes it is better to remain quiet and dont talk unnecessary unless work or colleagues come over and talk kock.
As for me, I will not go and talk to colleagues.
I am a very quiet guy but i do my work deligently.

actually this will work against you.

they will see u like an outsider / outcast.

for me i used to be like that, now i am not, i always jio everyone to go lunch, quite high profile.... so even if got ppl want to backstab me, someone else will come "warn" me to keep an eye.

 

[Song Bro]

I think can utilise the power of your Birth Element.
Any sort of advice should adhere to your characteristics.

I am Fire, so usually I fight back with facts, devise a system that solve the root cause of the issue.
But I am also vengeful, the solution while beautiful on the surface.
It will create trouble for the aggressors to the point the more they complain,
the more workload they create.

If you are Water, communication becomes the lubrication, whether you want
to shove it hard or soft. You create alliances via relationships. Forge strong bonds which
will either lend a hand when you are down. Or becomes the sword that slashes
adversaries. Usually direct confrontation is not your forte. Strategizing and manipulation is.

If you are wind/Air, you fight with vigor and relentless pursuit.
Enemies find it hard to keep up with your quick thinking and action.
Whichever traps they lay down would be evaded easily.
They might come to a point they fell into the hole they dug.
Worse case scenario: if cant convince, confuse.

If you are Earth, defense is your best bet.
I have an "earthly buddy". What he did was to remain motionless and quiet even when
under extreme accusation. Do you think he is a sheep that suffer in silence? No.
He is only slow to react. But when he charges, the impact might well surpass that of Fire Element ppl.
Ignore the noise. Work on oneself. Slowly craft a strategy for long term. Typically, 笨鸟先飞。

 

[XiaoChilli]

I think can utilise the power of your Birth Element.
Any sort of advice should adhere to your characteristics.

I am Fire, so usually I fight back with facts, devise a system that solve the root cause of the issue.
But I am also vengeful, the solution while beautiful on the surface.
It will create trouble for the aggressors to the point the more they complain,
the more workload they create.

If you are Water, communication becomes the lubrication, whether you want
to shove it hard or soft. You create alliances via relationships. Forge strong bonds which
will either lend a hand when you are down. Or becomes the sword that slashes
adversaries. Usually direct confrontation is not your forte. Strategizing and manipulation is.

If you are wind/Air, you fight with vigor and relentless pursuit.
Enemies find it hard to keep up with your quick thinking and action.
Whichever traps they lay down would be evaded easily.
They might come to a point they fell into the hole they dug.
Worse case scenario: if cant convince, confuse.

If you are Earth, defense is your best bet.
I have an "earthly buddy". What he did was to remain motionless and quiet even when
under extreme accusation. Do you think he is a sheep that suffer in silence? No.
He is only slow to react. But when he charges, the impact might well surpass that of Fire Element ppl.
Ignore the noise. Work on oneself. Slowly craft a strategy for long term. Typically, 笨鸟先飞。

How to know which one is my element?

 

[Lchlch]

Scared to jump into another sheethole

sis, understand how you feel.
I also feel like that...
Its a gamble.
every companies will have toxic colleagues.
the more you jump, the more you gain from experience and the more you know how to handle it.

 

[Lchlch]

Diligent bor use when ppl scapegoat me..

sis, sometime, you need to use AI tools to help you along the way....

 

[Lchlch]

actually this will work against you.

they will see u like an outsider / outcast.

for me i used to be like that, now i am not, i always jio everyone to go lunch, quite high profile.... so even if got ppl want to backstab me, someone else will come "warn" me to keep an eye.

i am more towards quiet person.
I dont want to joi colleagues for lunch, dinner or even team bonding and team building are bs to me.

 

[Song Bro]

How to know which one is my element?

Fire: Aries, Leo, Sagittarius
Water: Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio
Air: Gemini, Libra, Aquarius
Earth: Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo

 

[tExtra]

i am more towards quiet person.
I dont want to joi colleagues for lunch, dinner or even team bonding and team building are bs to me.

人情世故 more or less need one. Else chiu may be rike yanger moi.. 跳进新加坡河也洗不清…

 

[dambio]

Korkor. Teach me how to bully back this auntie. Lol plssss

If they accuse u of anything u did not do or wrongful accusations. Tell them to show u proof. But u urself also must document it d proof to defend urself.

Go mom sue them is d best.

For snide remarks very easy. Since u say lao auntie, means old n at least plumb.

U just shoot back, aiyoooo dunno which old female animal is barking. So old n fat Liao still liddis. Wait get heart attack n up lorry faster!

Sure buay tahan 1.

New hiring office will call ur old office 1? Just explain d situation at ur old place to them 1st. So tat they wun misunderstood or judge u with a bias. When u did nothing wrong.

But really la. Go shoot them at mom n just leave is d best. Mental health most impt.

 

[Lchlch]

人情世故 more or less need one. Else chiu may be rike yanger moi.. 跳进新加坡河也洗不清…

it is okay.
I see open already.
Even now (me ya), i was being accused of things that I never do.
I clarify with them via email.
Expected the toxic to punch me back, but they remain quiet.

 

[Lchlch]

If they accuse u of anything u did not do or wrongful accusations. Tell them to show u proof. But u urself also must document it d proof to defend urself.

Go mom sue them is d best.

For snide remarks very easy. Since u say lao auntie, means old n at least plumb.

U just shoot back, aiyoooo dun dunno which old female animal is barking. So old n fat Liao still liddis. Wait get heart attack n up lorry faster!

Sure buay tahan 1.

New hiring office will call ur old office 1? Just explain d situation at ur old place to them 1st. So tat they wun misunderstood or judge u with a bias. When u did nothing wrong.

once I was accuse of a job that I never do.
I immediately drop a mail and clarify what I do.
of course cc boss too.

 

[dambio]

once I was accuse of a job that I never do.
I immediately drop a mail and clarify what I do.
of course cc boss too.

Cc all d big shots n hr too

 

[Laguna123]

I think can utilise the power of your Birth Element.
Any sort of advice should adhere to your characteristics.

I am Fire, so usually I fight back with facts, devise a system that solve the root cause of the issue.
But I am also vengeful, the solution while beautiful on the surface.
It will create trouble for the aggressors to the point the more they complain,
the more workload they create.

If you are Water, communication becomes the lubrication, whether you want
to shove it hard or soft. You create alliances via relationships. Forge strong bonds which
will either lend a hand when you are down. Or becomes the sword that slashes
adversaries. Usually direct confrontation is not your forte. Strategizing and manipulation is.

If you are wind/Air, you fight with vigor and relentless pursuit.
Enemies find it hard to keep up with your quick thinking and action.
Whichever traps they lay down would be evaded easily.
They might come to a point they fell into the hole they dug.
Worse case scenario: if cant convince, confuse.

If you are Earth, defense is your best bet.
I have an "earthly buddy". What he did was to remain motionless and quiet even when
under extreme accusation. Do you think he is a sheep that suffer in silence? No.
He is only slow to react. But when he charges, the impact might well surpass that of Fire Element ppl.
Ignore the noise. Work on oneself. Slowly craft a strategy for long term. Typically, 笨鸟先飞。

How to know we are fire /water/wind/earth?