Office has this BBFA, poor thing 🥲

[sick_and_tired]

He(36yo) keeps trying to woo this younger 22yo XMM-OL who's clearly out of his league (conventionally)

Everyday buy her her 25% sugar peach oolong BBT.
Ask about her day.
Help do her saikang..print paper and all that
Buy her lots of small cutesy desk thingies
Even the most mundane things he'd be ultra interested and nod nod
He even follow along to the dramas/netflix she watches

I mean its clear she enjoys the constant attention (who wouldn't ) but its also clear to everyone else he's just mega friendzoned orbiter 舔狗

latest purchase is the labubu doll whatever.....1 small keychain $60

How to wake him up?

I see already also 心疼 for him 🫠

Why u want chase girl until so beta

 

[henghengonedragon]

He(36yo) keeps trying to woo this younger 22yo XMM-OL who's clearly out of his league (conventionally)

Everyday buy her her 25% sugar peach oolong BBT.
Ask about her day.
Help do her saikang..print paper and all that
Buy her lots of small cutesy desk thingies
Even the most mundane things he'd be ultra interested and nod nod
He even follow along to the dramas/netflix she watches

I mean its clear she enjoys the constant attention (who wouldn't ) but its also clear to everyone else he's just mega friendzoned orbiter 舔狗

latest purchase is the labubu doll whatever.....1 small keychain $60

How to wake him up?

I see already also 心疼 for him 🫠

Maybe they are "姐妹"。

 

[cheongmanz]

mybfd .

 

[zyklon86]

Bro, why you come here talk about me!

Not like you any better.

 

[JonWeak]

He(36yo) keeps trying to woo this younger 22yo XMM-OL who's clearly out of his league (conventionally)

Everyday buy her her 25% sugar peach oolong BBT.
Ask about her day.
Help do her saikang..print paper and all that
Buy her lots of small cutesy desk thingies
Even the most mundane things he'd be ultra interested and nod nod
He even follow along to the dramas/netflix she watches

I mean its clear she enjoys the constant attention (who wouldn't ) but its also clear to everyone else he's just mega friendzoned orbiter 舔狗

latest purchase is the labubu doll whatever.....1 small keychain $60

How to wake him up?

I see already also 心疼 for him 🫠

TS visit Geylang ish better bah. There so long as gotch money the siambus bobian LLST will boom boom you if notch the OKT will jitao scold them

 

[ceestudent]

Sabo him a bit
Tell him that she is available on weekend. Ask him to book fine dining place, you can become the matchmaker mah.

 

[craybia]

My office also has bbfa. He in early 40s losing hair, dandruff and the clothes have the not properly washed and dried smell. I heard his mother in her 80s still handwashing his clothes.

 

[BlackWing1977]

i know
infatuation overrides all logic....
smitten is like that... any small positive reaction from her will become very magnified in his mind
In this lala-land, the refraction index is so strong, outside words very hard to reach him

I know... it is very bad.... I been there... and the girl is totally non-responsive at all...

 

[BlackWing1977]

Maybe they are "姐妹"。

Did the young xmm reciprocate like buying him back some makan or something.. it is one sided seeing how TS describe it...

 

[tazzycorner]

sorry TS, I feel for you

 

[tazzycorner]

If he don't learn by himself, he will just be another simp for a new girl. Let him crash and burn but offer a beer once you see him picking himself up

unlikely to learn

new girl, new target
rinse and repeat

 

[Brionic]

He(36yo) keeps trying to woo this younger 22yo XMM-OL who's clearly out of his league (conventionally)

Everyday buy her her 25% sugar peach oolong BBT.
Ask about her day.
Help do her saikang..print paper and all that
Buy her lots of small cutesy desk thingies
Even the most mundane things he'd be ultra interested and nod nod
He even follow along to the dramas/netflix she watches

I mean its clear she enjoys the constant attention (who wouldn't ) but its also clear to everyone else he's just mega friendzoned orbiter 舔狗

latest purchase is the labubu doll whatever.....1 small keychain $60

How to wake him up?

I see already also 心疼 for him 🫠

which edmwer is this?

most guys in general do this to the mate they are trying to attract

 

[randomph]

Suggest to TS to show him this edmw thread to wake up his mind

 

[Encouragesome1]

He(36yo) keeps trying to woo this younger 22yo XMM-OL who's clearly out of his league (conventionally)

Everyday buy her her 25% sugar peach oolong BBT.
Ask about her day.
Help do her saikang..print paper and all that
Buy her lots of small cutesy desk thingies
Even the most mundane things he'd be ultra interested and nod nod
He even follow along to the dramas/netflix she watches

I mean its clear she enjoys the constant attention (who wouldn't ) but its also clear to everyone else he's just mega friendzoned orbiter 舔狗

latest purchase is the labubu doll whatever.....1 small keychain $60

How to wake him up?

I see already also 心疼 for him 🫠

Errr my fren telling me got one scary shushu everytime try to saka her and follow her everywhere she feel scared
I think this is one of the classic examples where he thinks he s cute n affectionate
While receiver of his attn is scared n feels uneasy but he can’t get it ? 🫣

 

[Mountainnodew]

He(36yo) keeps trying to woo this younger 22yo XMM-OL who's clearly out of his league (conventionally)

Everyday buy her her 25% sugar peach oolong BBT.
Ask about her day.
Help do her saikang..print paper and all that
Buy her lots of small cutesy desk thingies
Even the most mundane things he'd be ultra interested and nod nod
He even follow along to the dramas/netflix she watches

I mean its clear she enjoys the constant attention (who wouldn't ) but its also clear to everyone else he's just mega friendzoned orbiter 舔狗

latest purchase is the labubu doll whatever.....1 small keychain $60

How to wake him up?

I see already also 心疼 for him 🫠

Can be a good catch, why not consider? I see my friends’ buibui hubbies, treat them well etc fetch them around, cook for them, take care the children, etc. If can everyday splurge on bubble tea or stationery stuff means quite generous.

 

[Encouragesome1]

So will you help him? Or watch behind armchio him from behind? Only this 2 paths to choose. But commonly everyone will just look behind and armchio because we are all selfish.

Bro u don’t uds
Ppl like us passerby tell him e truth but he refused to accept only

girl only tell him pls don’t do this he also don’t want .. we can’t do much just let him be lor

 

[Encouragesome1]

Before soft cushion to landing which is not a fact yet, maybe something can be done to help.

Maybe or most likely he will fail. But if I see him as a friend, I help him the best I can. If he fails, be there.

5.7, 7.5. where the stats came from? MOM? Nothing mentioned about his character.

Who knows? He might be the one.

Is our society fixated on just looks and wealth? Do we look down on those who have none of these?

I'm unrealistic and idealistic. But I think everyone should try their best at what they desire. Fail, reach out to friends and family. Live to fight the next battle.

Not cower in a corner just because of social status, looks.

For me if my fren I ll ask him to talk with her
Ask her f2f what she think of him
And his advances
If she say she dislike or just enjoy attn but nv liked him to be boyfriend then he know the answer alr lor

if he want to 执迷不悟then we passerby can’t do anyth

 

[Lonelyoldman80]

At least he dare to try..got try got chance no try no chance at all

 

[PikaPika33]

is true i am the buibui

 

[Brionic]

Can be a good catch, why not consider? I see my friends’ buibui hubbies, treat them well etc fetch them around, cook for them, take care the children, etc. If can everyday splurge on bubble tea or stationery stuff means quite generous.

usually these men are not bui when they started dating