Actually staying with in-laws or parents can have its merits too. For one, it's easier on child minding if you have kids. And once in a while can go out with spouse for date night? And if they cook, lagi best! 
I dont have the luck or life that you guys deserve. My wife and i only plan to get this EC becos her parents can stay with us and rent out their condo.
I thought i can give in to stay with parents sacrificing my own time / space but till now, i am not sure if i can do that for 5-10 years time.
No luck at HDB too. FML