Parenthood thread

[dry_county]

bro, what happen?
You have conflict with your wife?
what heated discussion is about?

Conflict about our kids….

 

[Lchlch]

Conflict about our kids….

bro, try to give and take.
Just take one step back.

 

[dry_county]

bro, you may try soft approach with your daughter?

My approach with my dotter is always soft approach….

 

[Spike]

I just asked my dotter to change her tuition timing from Friday to Sunday cos I come home early on Friday and I don’t like someone else at home at that time. And she got upset.

How long has she been having tuition on Fridays?

 

[dry_county]

Be Patience... Be more Careful, Her Rebel Period, Listen and understand her... more caring give more

Love.... is what she need the attention. Trust all my friends feed back to me one. U too take Care......

All kids will need to go throughout this period... only see parent how it handle..... Good Luck.

Thanks kor kor….heng my wife is very attached to my dotter….im the outsider in the family….

 

[Spike]

My approach with my dotter is always soft approach….

Hmmm.. my eldest daughter is 15. Honestly, no problem with behavior but her results aren't great..

 

[Jude Raphael]

I just asked my dotter to change her tuition timing from Friday to Sunday cos I come home early on Friday and I don’t like someone else at home at that time. And she got upset.

Hmm, probably she had other plans lined up and I assume that she has been planning her own schedule? At the end of the day, parents being adults are expected to be more accommodating ba..没有办法的。。

 

[Kaylin]

Thanks zeh zeh….that’s very enlightening….im thankful i have an amazing wife. But she’s stuck in the middle cos she loves my kids and me. So I have nowhere to rant….

no prob, this kinda dilemma everyone will hv one, its natural to want yr efforts to be appreciated & reciprocated but not everytime things will go according to ur wish. so u gotta ask yrself what happens when ppl dont appreciate? will u continue doing? will u scale back? can u just do ur part as a responsibility of a parent and dont care abt the rest? always need to ask yrself alot of qns. this is how we become more resilient coz 人生就是跟自己和解。

 

[Spike]

Thanks kor kor….heng my wife is very attached to my dotter….im the outsider in the family….

Cos she is the eldest?

 

[dry_county]

try to work things out with your wife.

Thanks kor kor. No problem with my wife. We have known each other for 30+ years…. We are faithful to each other. The problem is the kids….

 

[dry_county]

all these while, the dine-outs w/ your wifey
how it even came to this

but kids as they grows up, u will start to see a change in them
either for the good or otherwise

Thanks kor kor….the photos are still real. My wife and I still love each other very much. It’s the kids that is the problem.

 

[dry_county]

bro, try to give and take.
Just take one step back.

Thanks kor kor for the advice. I cool down liao….

 

[dry_county]

How long has she been having tuition on Fridays?

Maybe around 1-2 months? Previously her tuition was on Sunday….

 

[Spike]

Maybe around 1-2 months? Previously her tuition was on Sunday….

Why did she change from Sunday to Friday in the first place?

 

[sickoflife]

When I look back, I realized that I’ve been an effing ******** to my parents when I was young. But my parents never gave up on me. That made me really grateful to them and I always remind myself to be patient with my children as well

 

[dry_county]

Hmmm.. my eldest daughter is 15. Honestly, no problem with behavior but her results aren't great..

To be honest bro. I care more about character than grades.

 

[Spike]

Thanks kor kor. No problem with my wife. We have known each other for 30+ years…. We are faithful to each other. The problem is the kids….

Actually the problem is with the handling of kids. Not the kids. That's where the disagreement lies.

 

[dry_county]

Hmm, probably she had other plans lined up and I assume that she has been planning her own schedule? At the end of the day, parents being adults are expected to be more accommodating ba..没有办法的。。

She said she wants to have a free day on Sunday. But she needs to think about her parents’ preference isn’t it?

 

[Lchlch]

Thanks kor kor for the advice. I cool down liao….

yes find a time where you are calm, and so is your wife and comes with a agreement, but you must give and forget.

 

[vee4044]

Thanks kor kor….heng my wife is very attached to my dotter….im the outsider in the family….

Time to show concern .... She Need at this period... Trust me. Normally Dotter close to daddy One ma...