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If the kid is ang moh it will be obvious you're the lightbulb getting 1+1. If she says not going have another kid also means she only thinks about herself and not you. And nothing wrong with that because if she has a kid with you for sure you will dote your blood more and she knows that. So long story short she f up her own life by making the wrong choice before.
 

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have u tried co-habiting rather than developing a relationship

u both can live under the same roof but not need to be lovey or whatever. pretty much like joint singles scheme

don't share any resources, everybody sticks to their own

if it doesn't work, it just doesn't work.
 

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Pls don't think it is nothing wrong being a paedophile. Research has shown is sick and you will go jail.
Stop it.


Doing more to keep child sex offenders from making same mistake​

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Corrective training is usually imposed on repeat offenders. PHOTO ILLUSTRATION: ST FILE
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Jean Iau

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SINGAPORE - For a number of years, former primary school teacher Chock Soon Seng taught Chinese to primary and secondary school students as a freelance tutor.
But he had a dark secret - the 43-year-old was convicted twice for sexually abusing boys.
He was jailed for 10 months in 2010, when as a primary school teacher, he tried to persuade two 13-year-old boys to let him watch them perform a sexual act. In 2014, he was sentenced to three years' jail for offences that included sexually abusing a 14-year-old boy and threatening to put his naked pictures online.

The tutor struck again, abusing two underage boys, and in April this year, he was sentenced to six strokes of the cane and eight years of corrective training for four counts of sexual penetration.
Corrective training is usually imposed on repeat offenders, without the usual one-third remission for good behaviour.
The case is the latest to throw light on the sentencing and rehabilitation regimes of sexual offenders who target children, and comes amid a report in January that showed 2,798 victims below 16, and 1,000 victims between 16 and 20 years old, were sexually assaulted from 2017 to 2019.


People who have committed serious offences, which include serious sexual offences against children, are required to undergo the mandatory supervision and aftercare support under the Mandatory Aftercare Scheme upon their release. Implemented in 2014, conditions include counselling sessions, curfews and electronic monitoring or tagging.

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Prior to the regime, some offenders could have been released without being subject to additional conditions.
Ms Arvina Manoo, senior psychologist and assistant director of the sexual violence unit at the Psychological and Correctional Rehabilitation Division of Singapore Prison Service, told The Straits Times: "Not all offenders who commit sexual acts against children present with paedophilia or mental health conditions."
While behind bars, people convicted of sexual offences against children may undergo a psychological assessment to determine their risk of reoffending and intervention needs.

The psychological intervention aims to help them address problems with interpersonal relationships, emotional regulation, and negative attitudes that support sexual offending.
They may also be referred to agencies in the community for further counselling and support after their release.
Dr Christopher Cheok, senior consultant and acting chief of the department of forensic psychiatry at the Institute of Mental Health (IMH), said that medication to manage sexual arousal is available to those who display paedophilic tendencies.
"The use of these medications should be discussed with a doctor," he cautioned.
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Ms Arvina said that some key factors that are associated with the sexual abuse of children by adults include social difficulties such as social isolation, loneliness and deviant sexual fantasies.
"Apart from individual factors, situational and environmental factors can also play a key role in sexual offending against children. Proximity or easy access to children can facilitate offending. Other factors may include the development of unhealthy beliefs about children and sex through exposure to child sexual abuse material," she added.
Dr Cheok noted that there is a range of sexual desires. "For example, a person may not be exclusively a paedophile; he may be aroused by either adolescents or adults," he added, noting that most paedophiles are male.
"A paedophile may also just have fantasies regarding pre-pubescent children without assaulting any victims. A sex offender who preys on children, on the other hand, is someone who acted on a victim and who has been caught.
"It is also important to know the level of distress experienced by the person arising from his paedophilic desires, his personal value system and his ability to control himself. For example, would he have access to a potential victim within or outside the family, and if he does, would he be able to resist preying on the child?"
 

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they just assume all divorce the problem are from the woman.
I think most people dont make such judgements. Especially people in long marriages know how hard marriage is. Her comment only reflects on herself. In real life I don’t feel any discrimination for being a single mum, but sometimes I get excessive concern and pity from a handful of people which I don’t like. That’s actually the worst part of being a single mum… nosiness and pity.. but just from a few
 

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Need to pay a lot of money

unless u very rich better dun try

The foster kid part could be a issue

there are ppl do that la...the kid nvr call him dad, just call him uncle as form of respect...

if u can accept that, go ahead
 

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Y she is single mum?

Single sg female already a pain in the ass , u still want a single mum who mostly likely kana dump by her ex
 

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Pls don't think it is nothing wrong being a paedophile. Research has shown is sick and you will go jail.
Stop it.


Doing more to keep child sex offenders from making same mistake​

hzchild140821b.jpg

Corrective training is usually imposed on repeat offenders. PHOTO ILLUSTRATION: ST FILE
jean_iau_0.png

Jean Iau

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15 AUG 2021, 5:00 AM SGT

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SINGAPORE - For a number of years, former primary school teacher Chock Soon Seng taught Chinese to primary and secondary school students as a freelance tutor.
But he had a dark secret - the 43-year-old was convicted twice for sexually abusing boys.
He was jailed for 10 months in 2010, when as a primary school teacher, he tried to persuade two 13-year-old boys to let him watch them perform a sexual act. In 2014, he was sentenced to three years' jail for offences that included sexually abusing a 14-year-old boy and threatening to put his naked pictures online.

The tutor struck again, abusing two underage boys, and in April this year, he was sentenced to six strokes of the cane and eight years of corrective training for four counts of sexual penetration.
Corrective training is usually imposed on repeat offenders, without the usual one-third remission for good behaviour.
The case is the latest to throw light on the sentencing and rehabilitation regimes of sexual offenders who target children, and comes amid a report in January that showed 2,798 victims below 16, and 1,000 victims between 16 and 20 years old, were sexually assaulted from 2017 to 2019.


People who have committed serious offences, which include serious sexual offences against children, are required to undergo the mandatory supervision and aftercare support under the Mandatory Aftercare Scheme upon their release. Implemented in 2014, conditions include counselling sessions, curfews and electronic monitoring or tagging.

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Prior to the regime, some offenders could have been released without being subject to additional conditions.
Ms Arvina Manoo, senior psychologist and assistant director of the sexual violence unit at the Psychological and Correctional Rehabilitation Division of Singapore Prison Service, told The Straits Times: "Not all offenders who commit sexual acts against children present with paedophilia or mental health conditions."
While behind bars, people convicted of sexual offences against children may undergo a psychological assessment to determine their risk of reoffending and intervention needs.

The psychological intervention aims to help them address problems with interpersonal relationships, emotional regulation, and negative attitudes that support sexual offending.
They may also be referred to agencies in the community for further counselling and support after their release.
Dr Christopher Cheok, senior consultant and acting chief of the department of forensic psychiatry at the Institute of Mental Health (IMH), said that medication to manage sexual arousal is available to those who display paedophilic tendencies.
"The use of these medications should be discussed with a doctor," he cautioned.
MORE ON THIS TOPIC
Screening systems in different countries for those who work with children
Child molester gets preventive detention for reoffending 10 months after prison release
Ms Arvina said that some key factors that are associated with the sexual abuse of children by adults include social difficulties such as social isolation, loneliness and deviant sexual fantasies.
"Apart from individual factors, situational and environmental factors can also play a key role in sexual offending against children. Proximity or easy access to children can facilitate offending. Other factors may include the development of unhealthy beliefs about children and sex through exposure to child sexual abuse material," she added.
Dr Cheok noted that there is a range of sexual desires. "For example, a person may not be exclusively a paedophile; he may be aroused by either adolescents or adults," he added, noting that most paedophiles are male.
"A paedophile may also just have fantasies regarding pre-pubescent children without assaulting any victims. A sex offender who preys on children, on the other hand, is someone who acted on a victim and who has been caught.
"It is also important to know the level of distress experienced by the person arising from his paedophilic desires, his personal value system and his ability to control himself. For example, would he have access to a potential victim within or outside the family, and if he does, would he be able to resist preying on the child?"

Taiwan got one case. 60 years old with 16. Got married many years. And I am only taking about 15 years difference.

Jay chou met his wife when she was 17

Elvis Presley was 25 and met 14 year old wife

Not saying it is norm but it is not wrong.
 

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Taiwan got one case. 60 years old with 16. Got married many years. And I am only taking about 15 years difference.

Jay chou met his wife when she was 17

Elvis Presley was 25 and met 14 year old wife

Not saying it is norm but it is not wrong.
When u say things that is not the norm to society, u shld expect such responses lol

There is no right or wrong in this world.

Imo I dun understand and I probably won't do it but I understand ppl has different thinking.

U happy can liaoz.
 

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I think most people dont make such judgements. Especially people in long marriages know how hard marriage is. Her comment only reflects on herself. In real life I don’t feel any discrimination for being a single mum, but sometimes I get excessive concern and pity from a handful of people which I don’t like. That’s actually the worst part of being a single mum… nosiness and pity.. but just from a few
It takes some character to be a single mum when they have a choice.

For such ppl, usually they are brave n strong enough to face others. Obviously they do have some pride.

But if some become single mum because of no choices type, chances are they want to rely on someone. And there is where all such judgement comes in.
 

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Actually is ok, depends on how old. A financially independent milf who's son is going army, that type of age can eat if she still looks good at 40 ish. Which is normal for PRC to still look good at that age.
 

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When u say things that is not the norm to society, u shld expect such responses lol

There is no right or wrong in this world.

Imo I dun understand and I probably won't do it but I understand ppl has different thinking.

U happy can liaoz.
@zohn1999 is telling u to tackle both the mother and young daughter. What nonsense.
 
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