Singles Thread 2023

[Spike]

remember to tarbao back for your family also

Of cos, plus one set each for my buddies in 155 club.

 

[doratch]

We prefer the guy takes initiative but we can Tk turns to bear e cost
Eg if he buys a
Then later girl can buy b like that
Most males our age group will oblige .

The older ppl tend to alws want to pay .. my uncles , most cousins n some bros told me this is their pride and ego to be able to blanja someone they care about or someone they care to impress or Tk care of , so don try to fight too much with them .

But like one of the bros say , he considers everyone equal n stranger so he rather not force himself to pay first unwillingly , he rather he half half w girl .
If I know someone resent.. yea then I much rather I pay my share (or even both I bear ) n be gone than make someone felt taken disadvantage by me .




If i m girl I rather he paisei than angry me for not bearing my own meal cost

Ok... next time, I dun blanja liao... I need to act as if I am in my 20s... if not, can't find xxrs... 🥹

 

[Encouragesome1]

U can blanja me. I no pride de.

When I tk my cpf or go upstairs, I ll sure let u know ok

 

[Bui Kia]

can buy 1 ..for pang sai ....shld be comfortable

 

[Spike]

When I tk my cpf or go upstairs, I ll sure let u know ok

Wait for u to take cpf to blanja, maybe I up lorry first.

 

[Bui Kia]

We prefer the guy takes initiative but we can Tk turns to bear e cost
Eg if he buys a
Then later girl can buy b like that
Most males our age group will oblige .

if guy buy a .... then expect girl to buy bcdefghijk etc... how ?
if girl never buy bcdefghijk , guy told her he buy a before ...how will the girl feel ? will faint on spot ?

 

[foo9883]

@foo9883 Have you ever wondered if the girls want to see how you react to those requests? They might also be thinking that they are glad that they dodged a bullet, like you.

Why not meet the girl first and see for yourself?

not keen in these "let's test the guy" games by her tbh

like i mentioned i always treat, but if her mentality is "guys should treat" i think the thinking is a no-no for me.

 

[Encouragesome1]

quite truth also ... but don't apply to everyone .
sometime too generous , ppls also take advantage of you and expect you to pay as usual
but they never think of treating back etc

This kind of ppl cheat me 2-5 times only la
Beyond that is I let them eat one de la , don calculate sometimes
吃亏就是占便宜 2-5 meals know someone character n some ways of thought , ok ba

got some older ppls worse ... very calculative...every single cents they count 一毛不拔 etc ....

@foo9883 MTL ... faster secure your date

 

[doratch]

Don’t think too much, no hidden meaning, I saw redredwine say enjoy tio hiam so I say come in to see forum machoist since enjoy tio hiam

@RedRedWine only hiamed ppl deh...

 

[Bui Kia]

Of cos, plus one set each for my buddies in 155 club.

Steady u never forget your 兄弟
But is pay by the girl not you leh

 

[Bui Kia]

not keen in these "let's test the guy" games by her tbh

like i mentioned i always treat, but if her mentality is "guys should treat" i think the thinking is a no-no for me.

your head like 菜头
Anyway u mention always ..is the same ger or different ger ? from dating apps ?

 

[Spike]

Steady u never forget your 兄弟
But is pay by the girl not you leh

Ai yo. They don't need to know the details. Only need to know that I didn't forget their shares.

 

[Bui Kia]

This kind of ppl cheat me 2-5 times only la
Beyond that is I let them eat one de la , don calculate sometimes
吃亏就是占便宜 2-5 meals know someone character n some ways of thought , ok ba

@Bowser Jr maybe we can tarbao for family or friend for 2-5 times ...

 

[Encouragesome1]

not keen in these "let's test the guy" games by her tbh

I also don like other ppl test me kind of feeling

like i mentioned i always treat, but if her mentality is "guys should treat" i think the thinking is a no-no for me.

I think guys shd initiate still prevails for most of us because we know if a guy don like a girl , they ll nv initiate

even if it’s going out jus to drink a cup of kopi or Jiak zuikueh tgt ?

I think @xiaosinsinful got mentioned something along this line but I forgot his exact words alr ..
something like if guy didn’t like girl , she do what also he don like her de , right

 

[Spike]

@Bowser Jr maybe we can tarbao for family or friend for 2-5 times ...

Hopefully, 5 instead of 2. Must tarbao gao gao.

 

[Encouragesome1]

@Bowser Jr maybe we can tarbao for family or friend for 2-5 times ...

Can la .. if u rsvp for enuf portions aunty will mk it for u

 

[Encouragesome1]

if guy buy a .... then expect girl to buy bcdefghijk etc... how ?
if girl never buy bcdefghijk , guy told her he buy a before ...how will the girl feel ? will faint on spot ?

Girl might roll eyes and jus buy b for him and kthanksbye him soon depending on how much she liked him

 

[Bui Kia]

Can la .. if u rsvp for enuf portions aunty will mk it for u

steady swee

 

[Encouragesome1]

If no cake.. she confirm will find trouble with me. 200%.

In e End what new cake she liked that u learnt ?

 

[Bui Kia]

Girl might roll eyes and jus buy b for him and kthanksbye him soon depending on how much she liked him

most ger reply this reaction like 翻白眼
do u think that ger will still like him for giving this impression ?