Singles Thread 2023

[Encouragesome1]

Haha wat u say very 有道理. like I buy her gift. She like wanna repay back. I say why not dinner. I feel like she just wanna repay back like no cheng yi. Probably I would just ask her give me red packet can liao

I think if I want her to think i m weird I can jokingly say gift me angpow .. but really weird unless it’s abt new year or elderly bday or wedding or baby shower

U can jus say don need repay but if u free we can eat tgt
The way u say it matters too though it means same thing

since u alr said it, jus go dinner as frens . Maybe X months or year later she prefer u when she no longer stuck someone in her heart ?

 

[Encouragesome1]

Well.. a guy's job is to make the girl fall in love ma.

Fun, dependable, reliable etc are all about how she feels about him. No need to show thick wallet, go expensive places or jump out onto the road to help her block runaway car de la.

Its like u drive a rented atas car or live in a rented condo.. people will make assumptions.

Thus, is it , u agree w e bros saying : guys choose e girls n do so by attracting her ? N she doesn’t get to choose first in that sense ?

 

[saiyan2005]

I think if I want her to think i m weird I can jokingly say gift me angpow .. but really weird unless it’s abt new year or elderly bday or wedding or baby shower

U can jus say don need repay but if u free we can eat tgt
The way u say it matters too though it means same thing

since u alr said it, jus go dinner as frens . Maybe X months or year later she prefer u when she no longer stuck someone in her heart ?

Aiyah with her character she just wanna repay one. She just doesn't owe me anything. I don't know. Is very long in the future also

 

[Spike]

Thus, is it , u agree w e bros saying : guys choose e girls n do so by attracting her ? N she doesn’t get to choose first in that sense ?

If the girl doesn't know ur existence, hiw to choose u?

 

[Encouragesome1]

Aiyah with her character she just wanna repay one. She just doesn't owe me anything. I don't know. Is very long in the future also

If she so geygao n so insist u jus say nx time Christmas blanja me one biscuit or
One teh Ping some Random small thg like that la .. then it means u gift her is not for “return” of anyth

I once gave a fren I liked this offer to eat tgt : to thank u him , he don want . So I said I ll grab something else I think u ll like

i bought chocolates n cookies for him n his colleagues so he got face n don need eat with me n I alr thank u him back in this way

 

[Encouragesome1]

I don't know. Is very long in the future also

Nvm long days ahead means anyth can change

 

[saiyan2005]

If she so geygao n so insist u jus say nx time Christmas blanja me one biscuit or
One teh Ping some Random small thg like that la .. then it means u gift her is not for “return” of anyth

I once gave a fren I liked this offer to eat tgt : to thank u him , he don want . So I said I ll grab something else I think u ll like

i bought chocolates n cookies for him n his colleagues so he got face n don need eat with me n I alr thank u him back in this way

U like him but he doesn't like u? Anyway she planning to resign in late August next year so is ok

 

[Bui Kia]

Aiyah with her character she just wanna repay one. She just doesn't owe me anything. I don't know. Is very long in the future also

If she so geygao n so insist u jus say nx time Christmas blanja me one biscuit or
One teh Ping some Random small thg like that la .. then it means u gift her is not for “return” of anyth

I once gave a fren I liked this offer to eat tgt : to thank u him , he don want . So I said I ll grab something else I think u ll like

i bought chocolates n cookies for him n his colleagues so he got face n don need eat with me n I alr thank u him back in this way

actually this is not about repaying or owing anything
just feel this ger do not wish to mislead or let the person to have 幻想 by treating her anything
or perhaps in her own circle of friends , she also do that ...

 

[evilrion]

for me ...also dun have due to budget costing
never tio pok and enjoy clearing leaving should be bless

never tio pok can liao...

 

[Bui Kia]

never tio pok can liao...

yalor ... if tio pok
had to go sell durian or peng satay liao
for retirement life

 

[Encouragesome1]

U like him but he doesn't like u?

Yea

Anyway she planning to resign in late August next year so is ok

 

[Spike]

Aiyah with her character she just wanna repay one. She just doesn't owe me anything. I don't know. Is very long in the future also

Just jio her to play go kart at mbs and eat dinner there..

No need to think too much.

 

[saiyan2005]

Just jio her to play go kart at mbs and eat dinner there..

No need to think too much.

Haha she busy with outside stuff. Mbs got go kart?

 

[Wstc333]

Haha ya i know. Very sian to start over.

Why sian. U shd look forward to a better one

 

[ClassyNFabulous]

What next yr? @kleong had booked a table at Hai Tien Lo tomorrow liao. Nv invite u meh?

sure bohzzzz he dun even knw ish ji lo wat level de worzzzz

still can reach destination?

 

[saiyan2005]

Why sian. U shd look forward to a better one

Haha true also. But dating app usually swipe till very sianz.

 

[Spike]

sure bohzzzz he dun even knw ish ji lo wat level de worzzzz

still can reach destination?

What say u???.U see my ex chairman no up?

 

[Solojaywalker]

How u move on? Like not seeing or contacting the person?

Personally, just do chiur own things And week(s) later chiu will realise oh I'm fine again and proceed to swipe again, eberything ish easier to (move on) becus notch in r/s.

But if it's r/s then maybe will take year(s) as per my very own experiences, ptsd combined with other factors.

 

[Wstc333]

never try you never know
no pain no gain

U asking him to try on u?

 

[Spike]

Haha true also. But dating app usually swipe till very sianz.

Go pub know then. Can pick?

@Bui Kia 大哥，need you to teach xd here.