Teenagers ….

[vvsian]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

 

[Evil_Boss]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

Don’t think it gets better. Ask ur kid 21 move out

 

[vvsian]

Don’t think it gets better. Ask ur kid 21 move out

What makes you say so?

 

[charsiewfan]

Are you super present or absent during his childhood?

 

[Ambergris]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

It will definitely get better,
especially after they are married,
with kids and/or dogs
then they will sweet talk to you
in taking care of their kids,
or dogs,
while they go for a holiday.

 

[Evil_Boss]

What makes you say so?

at 21 he’ll be an adult going to party and making even more friends. Now he don’t hiew u u think a young adult he will?

 

[Ruizenbarn]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

Is normal. Kids usually have no wisdom nor appreciation, unless you get lucky.

It only gets better after 30 when they wise up. Before that, all they think about is themselves and partying and playing game.

No surefix way, as circumstances always differ. But can explore going family outings to Sentosa or something.

When he is in BMT, give him full support like fetch him home, wash his clothes, buy him food on weekends when he book out. Most kids become more open and appreciative to their families during BMT if you fully support them during that period.

 

[lowsesbbfa]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

Chiu chose to have a child. Nobody forced chiu.

 

[vvsian]

Are you super present or absent during his childhood?

wont say super present but loved his childhood and we did lots of things together. He was the opposite of today.. very sunny happy boy always calling me to look at things and do things together… after puberty like different person

 

[Squeezer]

Its normal. But it gets better, especially when they enlisted.

When I was a boy i think I was like that too.

 

[anthonygreenisreal]

ask them to start paying rent once they hit 18 years of age

 

[cheryl81]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

maybe tat how the current teenagers are currently?
sometimes it really make me think y did i give birth to tis char siew.
as much as i do not want to describe him as a char siew.
he just annoyed me so much sometimes. but sometimes can be sweet too.

this char siew is 15 yr old.

 

[Ruizenbarn]

For me, I only wisened up when I was watching my parents die in all kinds of ways in my dreams every night for 3 years...

 

[weiwuxian]

TS probably will need to get him out of his room before he turns full on Hikikomori .
Possible to find common interest or topic to engage him? Or plan weekly outings with him to the parks, beach, hiking, etc?

 

[vvsian]

TS probably will need to get him out of his room before he turns full on Hikikomori .
Possible to find common interest or topic to engage him? Or plan weekly outings with him to the parks, beach, hiking, etc?

no use.. any suggestions also will get one word answer -“no”

 

[buttbERry]

teenagers are like that

 

[kreja]

I’m talking about mine ..probably apply more to boys than girls
Ever since entered puberty, always one word answer, very little appreciation or joy for anything…hardly comes out of room… default mode is disinterest and disrespect.
Years of this can really wear one down. I am beginning to understand why Angmohs like their kids to move out after turning 18.
Does it ever get better?

I get shouted at every time i try to point out their mistakes haha. They'll figure out eventually. Didnt we all go thru that.

 

[vvsian]

teenagers are like that

Maybe it’s nature’s intention for them to behave in this way to irritate their parents so much that parents boot them out and they can become independent. Or else forever won’t grow up

 

[Jason_Dmax]

Teenagers nowadays think old people are irrelevant….

Need to ask them to go out and survive themselves, maybe will come back more appreciative

 

[yewlun]

Its normal. But it gets better, especially when they enlisted.

When I was a boy i think I was like that too.

At least not a girl... if girls need worry tio xian by boy and get pregnant