Imo, you seems to be in between your mind now and your friend is poisoning you about Rolex. My advise is to cool down and think again. You mention you like Rolex for now? That doesn't sound like a good idea to drop afew thousand on it. Why don't you take a step back and think for awhile before considering again. As for Rolex being spoilt.. It depends on your fate too.. No one can guarantee you won't get a lemon watch. I recall someone was saying that his explorer lume wasn't done to his expectation?
This brand will be here for god knows how long. No hurry to buy it now. Granted the price will increase every year. Which your salary and spending power will too. So just take a step back and think again
Its your group of friends. Do what u want together, if your friend has one and if u can afford it, just get it. We are just sharing our views, ultimately its still your choice. I rather you buy a rolex then waste it on branded t-shirts etc... Buying pre-own as mentioned by another guy, u buy on the seller reputation. This thread is about appreciating watches, sharing your reviews and though process.
I got no comment on buying a rolex but just do it within your means. Buy a watch that represent you now. Its not all about the brand, its about how the watch look on you, what it represent. The value of the watch and your job/lifestyle must be in tune.