This year really 犯太岁

Jian19

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Taoism.
My dad passed away for over 100 days liao. Not yet 1 year, but at least half a year.

We never celebrate CNY this year. We will skip celebration for 1 year. The taisui thing I have no idea that’s why I ask you all. Scared I do sth wrong mah. I went to a temple a few weeks ago though and I prayed to many different deities and that was also after the 100 days thingy.
If your elderly at home never give special instructions than I think over 100 days should be okay liao.

But CNY celebration see how , some family will go like 3 years no celebration.
 

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If your elderly at home never give special instructions than I think over 100 days should be okay liao.

But CNY celebration see how , some family will go like 3 years no celebration.
Later I ask my mom. Because you say cannot, so I was surprised 😂 because I didn’t know mah. :(

Yeah man. 3 years so long. The 3 years no celebration applies to families who are very traditional de. They will not celebrate for 3 years, some even wear a type of clothing for 3 years.

Then nowadays can fast track to 1 year of no celebration if the family ish ok with it. And even fast track to wearing red after 100 days instead of 1 year.
 

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If got do funeral and u involved bukeyi go temple one
I recently saw before cny got few funeral at my nearby block:(

Got 1 born in year 1982 due to heart attack stayed in yishun died on 19 feb 2026 happened saw on the tiktok:(
 

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Think this kind of thing wax and wane, own self need aware. If too many not so happy events, felt bothered, then maybe don't do anything major that day. Go home rest, don't go out roam too much. So as to avoid more not so happy events that affect one's mood. But if not too bothered by it, then ok everything as per normal lor.
 
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