[Depressed] Tired, need help.

[IAmChiobu12M]

Emotionally and mentally jaded.

From work and from people.

I always give my all and I get back shxt. Or I'm always being misunderstood. Or always end up in bad places.

I'm really tired. At this point maybe really should call it end. I've done all the hard work. But...kept giving 2nd chance to new opportunities, new people, new stuff, new experiences and many say is "day one or one day" . But seems to still stuck at day one on loop.

 

[bigdingdongbell]

Life is just going through the motion. Don’t compare too much or envy other people too much. Then half your problems will go away.

from your past posts, noticed you compare about money and success quite a lot. you are only early 30s with few hundred k, which is already above many people. You have a job as well, healthy without disabilities. You can’t control your family, but you can take steps ringfence what they can or cannot do to you.

And did I mention avoid comparing people with better or wealthier backgrounds, better jobs, more money etc. just go through the motion of your own life, not others

 

[herzberg]

This ish why neh gib 100%, gib 50% will do so won't be disappointed

 

[Can Or Not]

Need to rest early… drink tonic… see TCM to 补一下…

 

[yildun]

I'm really tired. At this point maybe really should call it end.

What kind of help do you need? Green SOS banner?

 

[keenklee]

Emotionally and mentally jaded.

From work and from people.

I always give my all and I get back shxt. Or I'm always being misunderstood. Or always end up in bad places.

I'm really tired. At this point maybe really should call it end. I've done all the hard work. But...kept giving 2nd chance to new opportunities, new people, new stuff, new experiences and many say is "day one or one day" . But seems to still stuck at day one on loop.

IMHO.
1. Ultraman or woman - Find a nice place, wear something you like, lie down and soak up the sun.
2. Contact sport - MMA or boxing, beat someone up.

You start new work ? Reframe your boundaries.

 

[keewee0415]

替人打工不用卖命.

自己出来创业才玩命.

Remember the moral of 西游记? 孙悟空 was so satki in the beginning of the story because he was establishing his own empire. Later part when he accompany his 师父 to 西天 like suddenly ability nerfed and have to go look for reinforcements every time they got in trouble.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

Life is just going through the motion. Don’t compare too much or envy other people too much. Then half your problems will go away.

from your past posts, noticed you compare about money and success quite a lot. you are only early 30s with few hundred k, which is already above many people. You have a job as well, healthy without disabilities. You can’t control your family, but you can take steps ringfence what they can or cannot do to you.

And did I mention avoid comparing people with better or wealthier backgrounds, better jobs, more money etc. just go through the motion of your own life, not others

Caz I know I deserve more with my capacity but I'm just not as lucky as some. I dare say luck is the most important things. Not saying competency is not and effort is not.

But with the right luck even you mf, you also can fly.

Anw is not just job that I'm jaded. I'm jaded with life. Like I keep trying and trying and I get back all sorts of nonsense.

I don't have stamina to see through the rest of what's upcoming for me already. I thought I have it all planned out.

 

[Atilas]

No stress a meal of omakase cannot relieve. If it doesn't relieve the stress, then have two meals.

 

[Fightfat]

能者多捞
美女多愁

just relax

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

No stress a meal of omakase cannot relieve. If it doesn't relieve the stress, then have two meals.

Anw saying of omakase, I'm invited by 1 of the restaurant to review.

 

[punkist]

Life is just going through the motion. Don’t compare too much or envy other people too much. Then half your problems will go away.

from your past posts, noticed you compare about money and success quite a lot. you are only early 30s with few hundred k, which is already above many people. You have a job as well, healthy without disabilities. You can’t control your family, but you can take steps ringfence what they can or cannot do to you.

And did I mention avoid comparing people with better or wealthier backgrounds, better jobs, more money etc. just go through the motion of your own life, not others

Wah piang, early 30s few hundred k liao, I was still living paycheck to paycheck

 

[myopenid]

You need to get laіd

 

[elevate]

Always giv bare minimum to work.
Give more to fam n friends.
Give all to self

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

能者多捞
美女多愁

just relax

And I'm 能者美女 so 又劳又愁

 

[Shion]

ts, dont worry, u r not alone
i am also feeling miserable over work related issues currently

 

[yeenfei]

Caz I know I deserve more with my capacity but I'm just not as lucky as some. I dare say luck is the most important things. Not saying competency is not and effort is not.

But with the right luck even you mf, you also can fly.

Anw is not just job that I'm jaded. I'm jaded with life. Like I keep trying and trying and I get back all sorts of nonsense.

I don't have stamina to see through the rest of what's upcoming for me already. I thought I have it all planned out.

it's normal that efforts doesn't guarantee payoff. I'm going to be blunt here as I think you needed harsh words to wake up: stop whining

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

You need to get laіd

You are not wrong

 

[Atilas]

Anw saying of omakase, I'm invited by 1 of the restaurant to review.

Please share your FR after your meal.

 

[ManOfTheHour]

Need to start living smart