Totally no common interest, should divorce anot?

[leemonstrap]

But .. ppl alrdy spend few years together... There's this sunk cost fallacy.... They think alrdy spend few years together don't wanna waste so continue spending more years together and bear with it....

yes because of this reason

 

[leemonstrap]

Had dinner at a szechuan restaurant at Lavender today
After ordered, a fat lady, in her 40s, walked in with an angry face, 3 kids tagged behind, age about 5-14
Sat down on a table across mine, and talked loudly to the kids 每次出来吃饭都要被我骂

I told my gf, 应该有好戏看
Sure enough, after about 5min, a man in his 40s, walked in and sat down.
I assume is the father and he probably went to park car.

After the lady had ordered (without talking to her hubby or asked him what he want), she started scolding the kids, and the youngest one cried silently. The man on off talked softly to the 3 kids, not sure what he said but should be comforting them or asking them to listen to the mum, but throughout the dinner, zero communication between the couple.

At one point, she swing her arm and it hit the drink bottle cap, down the floor the bottle cap go. The woman didn give a damn to it, just continued scolding. The man look very embarrassed, took a glance around the restaurant, probably trying to see anyone looking at them, before he stood up to pick up the cap.

when the food came, the man never touch the food, kept his mask on. I assume he doesn like Tiong food. He only took down his mask off once to try one of the dishes when his daughter said its too spicy. After he tried, he put back the mask, and said, 不是很辣， 可以吃.

After dinner, my gf asked me why man can accept a wife who is so unattractive and uncultured, scold non stop in a public place (she only stop when the food was served, and from then on its non stop eating), and based on the nil interaction, probably not much love between the couple .

My reply to her - 你现在知道为什么越来越多新加坡男人找外国女人了咯！
To the poor chap - 人生就一次， 别忍了， 赶紧做个了断吧

if cant stand the wife, why the man still produce 2 more kids with her?

 

[poooooo]

Think with small brain? No common interest still get married. Ownself asking for it.

 

[tripleme]

有乳沟，没代沟。。。。。

 

[m/mink]

Was it an arranged marriage or a one night stand condom fail?
How long did you 2 date before getting married, it's impossible not to know during that stage...

 

[starry_starry_night]

Had dinner at a szechuan restaurant at Lavender today
After ordered, a fat lady, in her 40s, walked in with an angry face, 3 kids tagged behind, age about 5-14
Sat down on a table across mine, and talked loudly to the kids 每次出来吃饭都要被我骂

I told my gf, 应该有好戏看
Sure enough, after about 5min, a man in his 40s, walked in and sat down.
I assume is the father and he probably went to park car.

After the lady had ordered (without talking to her hubby or asked him what he want), she started scolding the kids, and the youngest one cried silently. The man on off talked softly to the 3 kids, not sure what he said but should be comforting them or asking them to listen to the mum, but throughout the dinner, zero communication between the couple.

At one point, she swing her arm and it hit the drink bottle cap, down the floor the bottle cap go. The woman didn give a damn to it, just continued scolding. The man look very embarrassed, took a glance around the restaurant, probably trying to see anyone looking at them, before he stood up to pick up the cap.

when the food came, the man never touch the food, kept his mask on. I assume he doesn like Tiong food. He only took down his mask off once to try one of the dishes when his daughter said its too spicy. After he tried, he put back the mask, and said, 不是很辣， 可以吃.

After dinner, my gf asked me why man can accept a wife who is so unattractive and uncultured, scold non stop in a public place (she only stop when the food was served, and from then on its non stop eating), and based on the nil interaction, probably not much love between the couple .

My reply to her - 你现在知道为什么越来越多新加坡男人找外国女人了咯！
To the poor chap - 人生就一次， 别忍了， 赶紧做个了断吧

Bro your gf is 四川辣妹子 is it?

Who do they vote for can consider common interest?

Why not? Every 5yrs voted to be screwed and kpkb together, repeat cycle every 5yrs.

 

[poooooo]

sinkieby or jhbu, see photo then marry.............problem will come because both can speak Chinese or English. And end up fierce quarrels if not compatible, cannot see eye to eye on many things.

Marry vietbu is the same. See photo or see face one time, then ask agent, how much? $8K? OK, here's the cheque. And then bring her home. But language problem...man cannot speak more than ten words of Vietnamese. Woman can only speak a few sentences of Mandarin...learned from a textbook, and speak like robot. Very formal type of sentences. No quarrels because cannot talk very much between man and woman. Just piak piak or use body language, sign language, today eat what...

Moral of the story.
Language barrier can be a blessing.

Don't speak just piak?

 

[s-ghost]

This one is see photo then straight married ah?

maybe is burn one

 

[qwerty_hippo]

Had dinner at a szechuan restaurant at Lavender today
After ordered, a fat lady, in her 40s, walked in with an angry face, 3 kids tagged behind, age about 5-14
Sat down on a table across mine, and talked loudly to the kids 每次出来吃饭都要被我骂

I told my gf, 应该有好戏看
Sure enough, after about 5min, a man in his 40s, walked in and sat down.
I assume is the father and he probably went to park car.

After the lady had ordered (without talking to her hubby or asked him what he want), she started scolding the kids, and the youngest one cried silently. The man on off talked softly to the 3 kids, not sure what he said but should be comforting them or asking them to listen to the mum, but throughout the dinner, zero communication between the couple.

At one point, she swing her arm and it hit the drink bottle cap, down the floor the bottle cap go. The woman didn give a damn to it, just continued scolding. The man look very embarrassed, took a glance around the restaurant, probably trying to see anyone looking at them, before he stood up to pick up the cap.

when the food came, the man never touch the food, kept his mask on. I assume he doesn like Tiong food. He only took down his mask off once to try one of the dishes when his daughter said its too spicy. After he tried, he put back the mask, and said, 不是很辣， 可以吃.

After dinner, my gf asked me why man can accept a wife who is so unattractive and uncultured, scold non stop in a public place (she only stop when the food was served, and from then on its non stop eating), and based on the nil interaction, probably not much love between the couple .

My reply to her - 你现在知道为什么越来越多新加坡男人找外国女人了咯！
To the poor chap - 人生就一次， 别忍了， 赶紧做个了断吧

Wife could be decent looking.
Shape go haywire after giving birth and princess self entities characters starts to surface.

husband has no choice but to stay on.
he could be selfish and divorce. But the alimony and fees could be hefty for him.

no choice but to suck it up

 

[lovemyself123]

need what kind of common interests

 

[opteron]

women's charter

alimony

split asset

don’t be silly

Women's Charter cannot understand or read? don't be moronic. LOL

 

[*Sisyphus*]

There r 1 billion and one things to do in this world cannot even find one common one??? Maybe go look at ants and trace their route ... Maybe u 2 got this kind of odd common interest.

 

[Taro Pie]

no kids buay song just divorce


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[Laneige]

Had dinner at a szechuan restaurant at Lavender today
After ordered, a fat lady, in her 40s, walked in with an angry face, 3 kids tagged behind, age about 5-14
Sat down on a table across mine, and talked loudly to the kids 每次出来吃饭都要被我骂

I told my gf, 应该有好戏看
Sure enough, after about 5min, a man in his 40s, walked in and sat down.
I assume is the father and he probably went to park car.

After the lady had ordered (without talking to her hubby or asked him what he want), she started scolding the kids, and the youngest one cried silently. The man on off talked softly to the 3 kids, not sure what he said but should be comforting them or asking them to listen to the mum, but throughout the dinner, zero communication between the couple.

At one point, she swing her arm and it hit the drink bottle cap, down the floor the bottle cap go. The woman didn give a damn to it, just continued scolding. The man look very embarrassed, took a glance around the restaurant, probably trying to see anyone looking at them, before he stood up to pick up the cap.

when the food came, the man never touch the food, kept his mask on. I assume he doesn like Tiong food. He only took down his mask off once to try one of the dishes when his daughter said its too spicy. After he tried, he put back the mask, and said, 不是很辣， 可以吃.

After dinner, my gf asked me why man can accept a wife who is so unattractive and uncultured, scold non stop in a public place (she only stop when the food was served, and from then on its non stop eating), and based on the nil interaction, probably not much love between the couple .

My reply to her - 你现在知道为什么越来越多新加坡男人找外国女人了咯！
To the poor chap - 人生就一次， 别忍了， 赶紧做个了断吧

U only see what u see n think what u think
Behind closed doors no one knows why she’s so mad
Sometimes ppl Shld learn to let go
Those that bor chap simply be bor chap while those angry mind over issues
Then they blame the other one why no response etc
One side wants more
Another side don’t want to do anything
Then vicious cycle
Kids will or will not appreciate the situation
Only when they grow up then see how they think n if they will change their pov
The intentions however from both parties Shld b from a gd perspective
Unfortunately execution issues

 

[roy.silver]

my friend asking. married less than a year

moi suggest seek lawyers advice nao to protect assets

if divorce confirmed or papers served by ts partner, seek consensual divorce and paid by ts

else standby $10k++ riao

- dealing with partner bs
- statutory declarations
- police reports like verbal abuse or medical reports like mental anguish or any injury etc
- personal protection orders caused by above
- etc

 

[ExcuseRMJ]

as long as the sex is good. can tahan the rest bah

 

[𝙆𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙧]

my friend asking. married less than a year

divorce. then remarry a new girl.

the same problem will come back


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[qhong61]

my friend asking. married less than a year

Don't find excuse.

 

[fishbuff]

Not sure about now but last time if we ever mentioned about divorce, pastor will come immediately to counsel and prevent the couples from divorcing. Alot of church couples stayed together because of religious beliefs even they hated each other

 

[mige16]

is TS, I mean, are your friend gay?