Totally no common interest, should divorce anot?

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Mind sharing how they stayed together only for their beliefs? How can they even see eye to eye?
usually they root for the greater "good". despite what the bible said about women to be submissive, the wives these days only cherry pick the bible passage to suit their agenda; "husband, love their wives" is always mentioned by them but when it comes to submission, everyone conveniently ignored it.

but seriously speaking, there is too much "noise" in SG and people cannot correlate their relationship properly. If it only when you are thrown into a dire situation that you can see whether your wife can live up to the expectation or not. Most of my church's friends wives are loyal to their husbands
 

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usually they root for the greater "good". despite what the bible said about women to be submissive, the wives these days only cherry pick the bible passage to suit their agenda; "husband, love their wives" is always mentioned by them but when it comes to submission, everyone conveniently ignored it.

but seriously speaking, there is too much "noise" in SG and people cannot correlate their relationship properly. If it only when you are thrown into a dire situation that you can see whether your wife can live up to the expectation or not. Most of my church's friends wives are loyal to their husbands
Why are these wives loyal to their husbands? Is it due to what the bible say, or is it due to them really choose to be loyal to their husbands, or other reasons that I didn’t think of?
 

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Why are these wives loyal to their husbands? Is it due to what the bible say, or is it due to them really choose to be loyal to their husbands, or other reasons that I didn’t think of?
these are boomers. they are more faithful to both their religion and husbands. without the church's pastor intervention, my friend's marriage would end up in divorce due to his job lost and inability to secure another high paying job.
 

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since when married couple need common interest

if the sex is good, just carry on
 

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Had dinner at a szechuan restaurant at Lavender today
After ordered, a fat lady, in her 40s, walked in with an angry face, 3 kids tagged behind, age about 5-14
Sat down on a table across mine, and talked loudly to the kids 每次出来吃饭都要被我骂

I told my gf, 应该有好戏看
Sure enough, after about 5min, a man in his 40s, walked in and sat down.
I assume is the father and he probably went to park car.

After the lady had ordered (without talking to her hubby or asked him what he want), she started scolding the kids, and the youngest one cried silently. The man on off talked softly to the 3 kids, not sure what he said but should be comforting them or asking them to listen to the mum, but throughout the dinner, zero communication between the couple.

At one point, she swing her arm and it hit the drink bottle cap, down the floor the bottle cap go. The woman didn give a damn to it, just continued scolding. The man look very embarrassed, took a glance around the restaurant, probably trying to see anyone looking at them, before he stood up to pick up the cap.

when the food came, the man never touch the food, kept his mask on. I assume he doesn like Tiong food. He only took down his mask off once to try one of the dishes when his daughter said its too spicy. After he tried, he put back the mask, and said, 不是很辣, 可以吃.

After dinner, my gf asked me why man can accept a wife who is so unattractive and uncultured, scold non stop in a public place (she only stop when the food was served, and from then on its non stop eating), and based on the nil interaction, probably not much love between the couple .

My reply to her - 你现在知道为什么越来越多新加坡男人找外国女人了咯!
To the poor chap - 人生就一次, 别忍了, 赶紧做个了断吧
Beta cuck syndrome:frown:
 

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Not sure about now but last time if we ever mentioned about divorce, pastor will come immediately to counsel and prevent the couples from divorcing. Alot of church couples stayed together because of religious beliefs even they hated each other
Thought before marriage will have counselling too?
they said they wed or union in name of god?
why will divorce one
 

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Thought before marriage will have counselling too?
they said they wed or union in name of god?
why will divorce one
aiya, simi pre-marriage counselling... all about bible and our responsibility to god etc..
simi obey god, church elder and authority... in the end when fights start, all these will be forgotten.
 

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Why want produce more kids to save a marriage?

Troubled marriage is already very siong for both husband and wife ... adding kids will make it worst. Plus the kids will also suffer.
 

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aiya, simi pre-marriage counselling... all about bible and our responsibility to god etc..
simi obey god, church elder and authority... in the end when fights start, all these will be forgotten.
Then never abt the communication between the two couples?
I mean they face each other probably more than face god in term of disputes
 

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Then never abt the communication between the two couples?
I mean they face each other probably more than face god in term of disputes
nice to have but when shiat hit the fan, everyone fall back to their true self
 

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u think u have to surrender 50% after less than a year of marriage? you are the moron

Chiu think divorce can end so fast. Women are not simple.

Under the WC, the sole reason for divorce to be granted is the “irretrievable breakdown of the marriage”. This has to be proved by one or more of the following 5 facts:
a. Adultery
b. Unreasonable behaviour
c. Desertion
d. Separation of 3 years with consent
e. Separation of 4 years without consent

MORONIC scum spotted. LOL.
 

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get ready to surrender half your assets.
Chiu think divorce can end so fast. Women are not simple.

Under the WC, the sole reason for divorce to be granted is the “irretrievable breakdown of the marriage”. This has to be proved by one or more of the following 5 facts:
a. Adultery
b. Unreasonable behaviour
c. Desertion
d. Separation of 3 years with consent
e. Separation of 4 years without consent

MORONIC scum spotted. LOL.

Lol. Keep showing your ignorance. What the woman can claim is based on factors such as financial obligations (kids), age of both parties, contributions made by each party.

Marriage broke down under one year, what judge will award 50%? Keep it up, let others laugh at ur stupidity
 
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