Personally prefer wax polish. Even if not aiming for mirror shine, wax polish gives a better shine than cream after brushing off. And the water repellant property is valuable. I tend to get water stains on cream-polished shoes. The flip side (for my routine at least) is having to do a renovateur clean/nourish before applying wax whereas i will apply cream directly w/o going thru reno 1st.
I can fully understand how u feel or perhaps i cant, because my collection is a tiny fraction of yours n i already f**k it lol.
That said, i feel it is good to have a couple (for u, maybe a dozen.. Heh) of dress oxfords that u tend to go to when u suit up, to have that mirror shine. Lifts up the whole outfit!