Read the book -
The trader’s pendulum : the 10 habits of highly successful traders
A well written book and should help you figure out where you are going wrong. Once you correct those mistakes, you should see positive results. In fact the book talks about two amateur traders and their initial struggles followed by eventual success. Your case seems to be similar to the guy in the story.
equally interesting would be how many people read the book and what % became successful traders as a result.... , but I guess if you don't read/study anything and go and trade, your likelihood of success if even lower.
i also kind of accept that even if I read that book, I won't be a good trader. A man's got to know his own limitations

