30s-50s chitchat club

[pepsitwist]

One thing I learnt is that it’s ok to be sad n down. We don’t have to min max our life and live “optimally” all the time.

these few years has been rough for me too. Both financially n emotionally

Erm. Like not enough for sealion??

 

[yukirin92]

Over the last couple of years 1 flen out of a group of 5 including moi has been distancing himself from the group, either not replying or saying busy every time someone suggests to meet up.

Moi thinks is because career wise he feels he has slipped from being maybe middle of the pack to last, while the others have all pulled ahead. Guess there is nothing much that can be done other than to let the feller go

 

[MajiMax]

Yeah. It’s perfectly normal to have rough days. I just feel horribly heavy till the chest aches.

Have consider in seeing a professional counsellor?

https://counsel.org.sg/

 

[pepsitwist]

Over the last couple of years 1 flen out of a group of 5 including moi has been distancing himself from the group, either not replying or saying busy every time someone suggests to meet up.

Moi thinks is because career wise he feels he has slipped from being maybe middle of the pack to last, while the others have all pulled ahead. Guess there is nothing much that can be done other than to let the feller go

Friends also so competitive de ah?

 

[harbinger255]

Over the last couple of years 1 flen out of a group of 5 including moi has been distancing himself from the group, either not replying or saying busy every time someone suggests to meet up.

Moi thinks is because career wise he feels he has slipped from being maybe middle of the pack to last, while the others have all pulled ahead. Guess there is nothing much that can be done other than to let the feller go

What do you guys usually talk about when catching up....?

 

[aceminer]

Erm. Like not enough for sealion??

That one was trolling. But I got retrenched n I raged quit. 2 separate jobs

 

[aceminer]

What do you guys usually talk about when catching up....?

Maybe buy which GCB or which condo. Then change which merc

 

[Lss]

Maybe buy which GCB or which condo. Then change which merc

ppl in their 30s probably think merc is lao kok kok brand bah

 

[yukirin92]

Friends also so competitive de ah?

What do you guys usually talk about when catching up....?

Mostly just tcss lor, sometimes talk about job/pay and dating on apps

Moi think the flen jin salty when the guy who used to be doing worst in his job in terms of pay and hours (working for a sweatshop back then), suddenly turned his fortunes around and hopped job twice for big celery bump. Which sent the salty flen down to the bottom lor.

Back then sweatshop flen would complain a lot about how his job sucked, so maybe was a huge slap in the face for salty flen to see sweatshop flen leapfrog him

 

[Lss]

Mostly just tcss lor, sometimes talk about job/pay and dating on apps

Moi think the flen jin salty when the guy who used to be doing worst in his job in terms of pay and hours (working for a sweatshop back then), suddenly turned his fortunes around and hopped job twice for big celery bump. Which sent the salty flen down to the bottom lor.

Back then sweatshop flen would complain a lot about how his job sucked, so maybe was a huge slap in the face for salty flen to see sweatshop flen leapfrog him

in that case i think its good riddance.


cannot keep salty ppl around de. need to keep those who will be happy for you.

 

[Milo-Dino]

What do you guys usually talk about when catching up....?

Sounds like toxic meet up....

 

[Milo-Dino]

Mostly just tcss lor, sometimes talk about job/pay and dating on apps

Moi think the flen jin salty when the guy who used to be doing worst in his job in terms of pay and hours (working for a sweatshop back then), suddenly turned his fortunes around and hopped job twice for big celery bump. Which sent the salty flen down to the bottom lor.

Back then sweatshop flen would complain a lot about how his job sucked, so maybe was a huge slap in the face for salty flen to see sweatshop flen leapfrog him

Talk job and pay sure got pple with inferiority complex.

Should just avoid talking abt all these if possible

 

[highsulphur]

What do you guys usually talk about when catching up....?

Trump, car, cpf, holidays, job and our memories of school days together

 

[Lss]

Talk job and pay sure got pple with inferiority complex.

Should just avoid talking abt all these if possible

inferiority complex is one thing but being green eyed is another.

 

[aceminer]

Talk job and pay sure got pple with inferiority complex.

Should just avoid talking abt all these if possible

Sounds like a e penis competition

 

[Velton]

Be around, be with positive people, else ownself will also get affected.

 

[Lss]

Trump, car, cpf, holidays, job and our memories of school days together

somehow i feel the friendship even from secondary school days has changed somewhat.

cant help the feeling that there is some hidden objective.

ASK wedding everyone went. but regular dude one less than 1 hand.

 

[harbinger255]

Mostly just tcss lor, sometimes talk about job/pay and dating on apps

Moi think the flen jin salty when the guy who used to be doing worst in his job in terms of pay and hours (working for a sweatshop back then), suddenly turned his fortunes around and hopped job twice for big celery bump. Which sent the salty flen down to the bottom lor.

Back then sweatshop flen would complain a lot about how his job sucked, so maybe was a huge slap in the face for salty flen to see sweatshop flen leapfrog him

hrmmmm me and friends never talk about pay during meet ups... unless there is an offer on the table within the group

 

[highsulphur]

somehow i feel the friendship even from secondary school days has changed somewhat.

cant help the feeling that there is some hidden objective.

My closer friends are from my eca in sec schools. People I see doing activities together when I retire

 

[yukirin92]

Talk job and pay sure got pple with inferiority complex.

Should just avoid talking abt all these if possible

Moi see it as information exchange lor. Having information is always a positive, how people choose to act on the information is up to them.

For example sweatshop flen might not have realised he could be earning more while doing less if it wasn't brought up