After looking through a couple of posts, I guessed we got to embrace what's society is like: to get judged and comments.
However, most of the bros here are victims of your own folly or circumstance. personally for me, being a victim of my own circumstance has made me grind through numerous situations rather than resorting to the loanshark and even further humbled myself and ego.
I really pray for the best now because what I'm doing is not a long term situation, and me finally dawn upon the idea that my parents are aging and finally having an understanding girlfriend wakes my idea so badly that me wanting myself out of this situation.
Good luck guys and I hope everyone here is sincere in exiting your situation for a better future.