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Pretty women = can find everywhere .
Pretty female doctor = rare.
Pretty female doctor with a good attitude = rarer.
Pretty female doctor with a good family background, and good attitude = rarest
物以稀为贵。

I'm sure the guy has his own problems, and concerns.
Wonder what that guy does for work/interest.

Is he accomplished himself? Love is a funny thing. There is "too good or perfect" also.
 

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Wonder what that guy does for work/interest.

Is he accomplished himself? Love is a funny thing. There is "too good or perfect" also.
Likely in the family business, and being groomed to take over some subsidiary or main business someday..

For all we know, there could be another woman he liked but was told to give up by the family matriarch because of incompatibility.

Anyway, no need to speculate.. its between the both of them. I just felt tempted to add my piece. :s13:
 

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Likely in the family business, and being groomed to take over some subsidiary or main business someday..

For all we know, there could be another woman he liked but was told to give up by the family matriarch because of incompatibility.

Anyway, no need to speculate.. its between the both of them. I just felt tempted to add my piece. :s13:
Yeah speculation on the type of world that we see in movies and TV shows. 🤣
 

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For UHNW old wealthy families, it can be real. They might not care who u date, they care who u marry. :o
Oh it is very real. I know some of these people personally. In the end also end up divorce. Then marry who they want after parents realized the child cannot keep living the life they planned for them without feeling unhappy.
 

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For UHNW old wealthy families, it can be real. They might not care who u date, they care who u marry. :o
The thing with some of these old wealth families especially Asian is the elder is worried that the spouse will squander the wealth or is not worthy of inheriting it, or married for money then divorced and took money in the settlement etc

Some will make plans to create legal contracts so that the spouse doesn't have access to the money.

It is how rich people become rich and stay rich.
 

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Pretty women = can find everywhere .
Pretty female doctor = rare.
Pretty female doctor with a good attitude = rarer.
Pretty female doctor with a good family background, and good attitude = rarest
物以稀为贵。

I'm sure the guy has his own problems, and concerns.

I agree, except that doctors tend to come from good backgrounds. That part is expected. WD isn’t the first doctor I know to come from a medical family.
 
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Oh it is very real. I know some of these people personally. In the end also end up divorce. Then marry who they want after parents realized the child cannot keep living the life they planned for them without feeling unhappy.

At some point, you’re just gambling with your children’s lives. It’s pretty indefensible. No matter how much money you have, you have only one life to live/give. Marrying into unimaginable wealth is pointless if you spend the rest of your life regretting it.

It’s the Poor Little Rich Girl syndrome. I used to wonder how the stereotype could be valid. Then I realised it was quite simple. People who are busy making money have less time for parenting. It’s a fixed pie.
 
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my humble take is rich family or not, it's more of whether wd is happy with the bf, like does she look fwd to him visit every weekend or does it feel like a chore.

parents are one thing, they may want the best for you or best for themselves, we won't know that & it's hard to guess also

end of the day if wd marry him, she has to see him day in day out, so focus on that is more important than the secondary politics stuffs.
 
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my humble take is rich family or not, it's more of whether wd is happy with the bf, like does she look fwd to him visit every weekend or does it feel like a chore.

parents are one thing, they may want the best for you or best for themselves, we won't know that & it's hard to guess also

end of the day if wd marry him, she has to see him day in day out, so focus so focusing on that is more important than the secondary politics stuffs.
He is already visiting her regularly and she seems good with that. Don't hear any bad stories or rants.

I'd say all is good just that she doesn't like the fact he is someone her parents want her to be with by design and not someone she met by chance.

Just speculating of course. Hope she is happy that's all. Look at the positives.
 

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He is already visiting her regularly and she seems good with that. Don't hear any bad stories or rants.

I'd say all is good just that she doesn't like the fact he is someone her parents want her to be with by design and not someone she met by chance.

Just speculating of course. Hope she is happy that's all. Look at the positives.
Hers is a light touch. She’s just biding her time. A happy marriage is best, being single comes next. An unhappy relationship is the worst, especially if kids are involved.
 

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Hers is a light touch. She’s just biding her time. A happy marriage is best, being single comes next. An unhappy relationship is the worst, especially if kids are involved.

Another thing that came to mind is that if she found someone she liked and loved on her own, whether that person would meet the approval of her parents. So the bar is set very high for these people.

Sad in a way.
 

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Another thing that came to mind is that if she found someone she liked and loved on her own, whether that person would meet the approval of her parents. So the bar is set very high for these people.

Sad in a way.
Love isn’t difficult enough on its own. Let’s make it more complicated! 😛
 

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To be honest, many of the new houses built in the past 10 years are of very poor quality.
My life is pretty good here. I work long hours, but at least I am fairly compensated for overtime, which is a luxury that many of my counterparts in Singapore or other developed countries do not enjoy.
The only thing that is annoying is the tax, but there is no perfect country I guess.
I would love to but the salary in Sydney is too low; it is way higher in Perth.

And the housing prices here are still quite cheap. So Perth is kind of the "goldilocks" region in regards to salary and housing prices.
Nah I bought my own place last year. But I am looking out for an investment property at a good price.
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