Emptiness in the heart...

[begintoend]

Find someone to share things wif

Dun need to glorify solo lifestyle.. It's overrated.

Meet someone here to jus tok and coffee and see how it goes.

 

[JohannSu1864]

Better than wallet empty.

 

[NintendoSwitch]

Wait for someone here to tell you find a mate

Mate or mate? Why not both?

 

[Lao_Tiko]

"it is not right for man to sleep alone at night" - Cunfucius

 

[NintendoSwitch]

Sometimes emptiness isn’t too bad
Or do you want Nobita to keep running to you, “Doraemon, please help me! Jit pai hong kan liao!”

Ish there a hokkien ver of Xiao Ding Dang? I will watch just to hear him say that.

 

[coyote]

Just returned to SG after taking a short trip away from work in SG...

Previously I felt abit lonely, now I feel emptiness...

What is wrong with me these days seriously...

Nothing wrong with you. It a very very common phenomenon to do with our mind and body. I don't even need to say it, you already knew what's missing from your life. It starts with g... Your feeling will not go away until you address the root of this issue. The choice as usual, is always in your hands.

 

[Vagrant_Oldman]

when your networth grows, so will your needs bro..

Bro, please advise early 20s or 50s experience companion

 

[Dracky]

B B King sang decades ago, "The thrill is gone, gone from my heart."

Learn some blues music.

 

[Multiversal]

Emptiness is very important in buddhism, very hard to achieve de, congrats.

Is the emptiness a state that is void of all emotions?

You can't be sad anymore but nothing can make you happy either? Even the death of one's mother is shrugged away as, oh well, it's the end of life in one realm, after this, it's another?

Nobody and nothing can make you angry. You reason that all these are temporal. Impermanent. So why get angry over something which is impermanent?

Do you exist like a cold hearted person with no empathy for human suffering? You reason that the man without legs is just reaping his KARMA. If someone is living in a rental HDB flat, well that's KARMA! What had he done in past lives?

And the 35% should shaddap! If people live in Rideout, that's KARMA! You all whine so much for what?

If I reach such a state, I think I am not different from a vacuum cleaner or an EV or rice cooker.

I firmly believe that apart from my physical body, I have a soul and a spirit. When people feel empty, it's because while the physical body has been fed, the spirit is searching for a higher meaning which nothing in this world can satisfy. We are lost, trying to find God.

 

[Lchlch]

"it is not right for man to sleep alone at night" - Cunfucius

I hv been doing this nearly 2 years plus..

 

[Hyruga]

Emptiness is good for you.

Better than worry or depression.

 

[plaingrain]

I hv been doing this nearly 2 years plus..

We gain some, we lose some. Your decision to go solo since your partner passed on might have saw you becoming more lonely, but you won some respect by us EDMWers because of your fidelity.

My eldest uncle, when his wife passed on at the age 48, straightaway went to buy 4D and found another girlfriend to accompany him. It upset his children because to them, they had only one mother and they expected their father my uncle to be at least devoted to his wife for a while before choosing to remarry.

They ie my cousins opposed violently when my uncle decided to bring his girlfriend home, in the end both parties relented by agreeing to let my uncle have his girlfriend while they paid their respects to their mother his late wife during Qing Ming.

Life no swee swee one lah, give and take lor. Have a good evening.

 

[Full_Cream_Milk]

Better than emptiness in the brain.

 

[Notbbfa]

Nothing wrong with you. It a very very common phenomenon to do with our mind and body. I don't even need to say it, you already knew what's missing from your life. It starts with g... Your feeling will not go away until you address the root of this issue. The choice as usual, is always in your hands.

In b4 "gayness"

 

[Lchlch]

We gain some, we lose some. Your decision to go solo since your partner passed on might have saw you becoming more lonely, but you won some respect by us EDMWers because of your fidelity.

My eldest uncle, when his wife passed on at the age 48, straightaway went to buy 4D and found another girlfriend to accompany him. It upset his children because to them, they had only one mother and they expected their father my uncle to be at least devoted to his wife for a while before choosing to remarry.

They ie my cousins opposed violently when my uncle decided to bring his girlfriend home, in the end both parties relented by agreeing to let my uncle have his girlfriend while they paid their respects to their mother his late wife during Qing Ming.

Life no swee swee one lah, give and take lor. Have a good evening.

Yeah n thanks bro.
My colleague ever asked me why not find a partner?
I can't. Cos I am still looking at the street hoping to see my wife again.

 

[coyote]

In b4 "gayness"

That's not what I meant but you are entitled to that option if it's what you desired.

 

[tootired]

Emptiness is very important in buddhism, very hard to achieve de, congrats.

I think his emptiness is unfulfilling happiness/satisfaction than empty of desires


Read HWZ Forum Rules!

 

[Travis_Touchdown]

revert to mrclubbie and you will find peace

oredi wan him to revert back mani times he dunch wan...

 

[Travis_Touchdown]

currently finding. considering to resign first also.

ijjit chiu go jb then find things there cheap sho chiu think chiu gotch enuff can resign riaoz?? @tan kuku

 

[plaingrain]

Yeah n thanks bro.
My colleague ever asked me why not find a partner?
I can't. Cos I am still looking at the street hoping to see my wife again.

No right or wrong la, if the time is ripe you might meet a new partner. Lee Hsien Loong agreed to remarry after His first wife passed on, these are arrangements in our secular world that is imperfect for all of us but change is the only constant in life. For you, what I can suggest is that attachment is suffering. Letting go is the eventual outcome that the Buddha taught us. But we all are ordinary beings, if we are still clinging on to some hope, it's easier said than done when someone tells us to "just let go and you'll be free".

I'm just an ordinary being, so I still cling, maybe one day I might let go, but so far the time isn't right yet so I still cling. Attachment is a suffering that I chose to take up. It's a personal choice.