Emptiness in the heart...

tan kuku

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Whether we are defeated by our environment or whether we possess the strength necessary to clear a path through whatever difficulties our environment may present, is an important ingredient in achieving happiness.

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Nothing wrong with you. It a very very common phenomenon to do with our mind and body. I don't even need to say it, you already knew what's missing from your life. It starts with g... Your feeling will not go away until you address the root of this issue. The choice as usual, is always in your hands.
G for g-string
 

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emotions exist only in your mind
when you are under pressure, it's in your mind
when you feel good, it's in your mind
when you feel bad, it's in your mind
after you are gone, you no longer have a mind

if you can help it, do make someone else happy
that's what relationships are for. to have an effect on others. hopefully a positive effect
 

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Emptiness can filled up by a gf as a companion, not necessarily as spouse, just live in gf. If cannot get along, can break up. If can get along well, you fill her up and she eats you up, no more emptiness liao...
 

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I got a theory,
Is it due to the brain health that causes the bad feelings or is the circumstances and thoughts that caused the bad feelings?

It could be both, but recently I realised it's more towards brain health. A healthier brain makes u feel less lonely/empty and easier for you to switch mental state.

So I suggest to you not to think too much and take care of your health. Sleep better, exercises, eat well and hang out with good vibes people.
 

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Just returned to SG after taking a short trip away from work in SG...

Previously I felt abit lonely, now I feel emptiness...

What is wrong with me these days seriously...
what is the diff between yr loneliness and emptiness feeling?
isnt lonelinness = emptiness in the standard layman term?

buddhism emptiness is another level altogether
 

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help you summarize:

Greed has no limits. :(

If human beings have no greed, we would still be in stone age living in caves... please be thankful many people of our past generations were greedy for a better life, so they invented brick houses, air cons, car, computers, mobile phones and made our life's easier, more comfortable and better.
 
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Don't feel like that. There are always reasons chiobu choose a normal person. Those handsome man goes with chiobu are usually in the movies, they are not real. Ask your friends to introduce female friends to you.

也没什么朋友
 

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what is the diff between yr loneliness and emptiness feeling?
isnt lonelinness = emptiness in the standard layman term?

buddhism emptiness is another level altogether

i feel demotivated, unmotivated, demoralized
 
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