Emptiness in the heart...

[Notbbfa]

That's not what I meant but you are entitled to that option if it's what you desired.

Since you assumed that's what I desire, I'll assume "gayness" is indeed what you meant.

 

[yokine3a]

I think his emptiness is unfulfilling happiness/satisfaction than empty of desires


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Then change it to empty of desires, we control our mind, not the other way round.

 

[coyote]

Since you assumed that's what I desire, I'll assume "gayness" is indeed what you meant.

Please read my reply again.

 

[Notbbfa]

Please my reply again.

Pls read your reply yourself before posting.

 

[PaprikaSG]

Nothing can make me feel "emptiness" except my bank account.

 

[PaprikaSG]

no motivation, nothing to look forward in life lor just like me

CDC voucher coming.

 

[tootired]

Then change it to empty of desires, we control our mind, not the other way round.

not easy for many, earthly desires strong hold us is beyond trying to control our mind. it comes from beyond just simply learning and understanding, the heart need to die first. most of the time need to experience terrible upset, lost, shock, near miss or incident to look past our earthly mindset and embrace the other side. To me it is a slow and opportunity process, cannot be forced or through hard work.


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[PaprikaSG]

seems like have more of such threads due to surge in singles, really jialat

 

[batuchka]

i dun usually give life advice on the internet but my 2 cents:
perhaps you need to fill the emptiness by taking up a vice or 3? suggestions include womanizing, compulsive gambling and chronic alcoholism. you can also unleash the Kewl xoxo trident i.e #YOLO #FOMO and #CarpeDiem in life choices ya

 

[Spike]

We gain some, we lose some. Your decision to go solo since your partner passed on might have saw you becoming more lonely, but you won some respect by us EDMWers because of your fidelity.

My eldest uncle, when his wife passed on at the age 48, straightaway went to buy 4D and found another girlfriend to accompany him. It upset his children because to them, they had only one mother and they expected their father my uncle to be at least devoted to his wife for a while before choosing to remarry.

They ie my cousins opposed violently when my uncle decided to bring his girlfriend home, in the end both parties relented by agreeing to let my uncle have his girlfriend while they paid their respects to their mother his late wife during Qing Ming.

Life no swee swee one lah, give and take lor. Have a good evening.

I cannot understand why he waited for the wife to pass away before buying 4D?

 

[plaingrain]

I cannot understand why he waited for the wife to pass away before buying 4D?

To him when his wife passed on it was as good as striking lottery. The family spent a lot of money to treat his wife's cancer, and they were going broke, so when his wife passed on, it's a lot of money saved and he wanted to recoup his losses from hospitalisation bills.

 

[Shion]

Nothing wrong with you. It a very very common phenomenon to do with our mind and body. I don't even need to say it, you already knew what's missing from your life. It starts with g... Your feeling will not go away until you address the root of this issue. The choice as usual, is always in your hands.

我自卑。

 

[Spike]

To him when his wife passed on it was as good as striking lottery. The family spent a lot of money to treat his wife's cancer, and they were going broke, so when his wife passed on, it's a lot of money saved and he wanted to recoup his losses from hospitalisation bills.

I imagine the children would have been extremely unhappy to hear such reasoning from their dad.

 

[Insatiable_creat]

Go pak game loh. Can save the world.

 

[IAmChiobu12M]

You and @IAmChiobu12M should get together to share each other sorrows.

No thanks idw to keep loop no end emo. Is ok to emo new things not ok to emo same thing. Eventually there needs to be a stop.

 

[plaingrain]

I imagine the children would have been extremely unhappy to hear such reasoning from their dad.

That's why I respect Brother @Lchlch , even after his spouse passed on all these months he still thinks of her deeply. I think he deserves my commendation though it's also suffering on his part to be that attached to his spouse. Like I say, no right or wrong la, different people sees things differently. It's not for me to fault my eldest uncle too, for him money is more important than marriage, when his wife was around he was very henpecked, so when she passed on it turned out to be liberating for him instead. 30 years have since passed and he is still with his new found girlfriend. The children my cousins still are disagreeable with him marrying his second partner, but this girlfriend has had the privilege of living with him for more than 30 years since his first wife passed on.

You look at Ho Ching lor, she may not be as pretty as Wong Ming Yang, but she has the fortune of enjoying a ripe old age with LHL all these years. Who am I to judge why things happen the way they do in life?

Ok time for dinner, talk to you guys another time. I'm not God, I'm not in charge of this world and why and how people make certain decisions.

 

[yokine3a]

not easy for many, earthly desires strong hold us is beyond trying to control our mind. it comes from beyond just simply learning and understanding, the heart need to die first. most of the time need to experience terrible upset, lost, shock, near miss or incident to look past our earthly mindset and embrace the other side. To me it is a slow and opportunity process, cannot be forced or through hard work.


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If it is easy, we would have many buddha by now

No need force or hard work, just discipline n wisdom. In buddhism, we called it 戒 定 慧, aka 持戒 入定 智慧

 

[euro2012]

Just returned to SG after taking a short trip away from work in SG...

Previously I felt abit lonely, now I feel emptiness...

What is wrong with me these days seriously...

go get a partner , by hook or by crook ..

 

[Spike]

go get a partner , by hook or by crook ..

Reporting you to police now!!

 

[coyote]

我自卑。

Don't feel like that. There are always reasons chiobu choose a normal person. Those handsome man goes with chiobu are usually in the movies, they are not real. Ask your friends to introduce female friends to you.