My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[Mr Totoro 38]

Were you seriously expecting a reply?

Sighssss

somebody really mmmmmm….

 

[Jude Raphael]

I brought a girl to raffles place for our first date. We had lunch at a chinese restaurant but I asked to split the bill instead of me paying everything. She said ok and she paynow me right on the spot.

After we finished eating I had to go to the toilet so she waited for me outside. 5 mins later after I came out I couldnt find her so I checked my phone and she said that she had to leave because of an emergency.

how should I continue from here? Do I still have chance for second date?

I think that any person in the same situation should simply refrain from posting on a public forum to seek validation and suggestions on the next course of action. As you can see, there are different views and opinions from other members. As the saying from our sergeant goes, "you think, I thought, who confirms?"

Again, this is another chance for people to bash others when we do not know the other party involved.

 

[Mephist0pheLes]

But she never block me leh

U r really terrible at social cue.

She leaving without a word while u went toilet is alr clear as day that it is over liao.

 

[Jaylim123]

U r really terrible at social cue.

She leaving without a word while u went toilet is alr clear as day that it is over liao.

在我最需要妳的时候， 没有说一句话就走

 

[Jaylim123]

Ok she replied me liao, she say “I check my schedule”, means what???

 

[K20A]

Why not? Not interested also can reply as dont want to meet what

小弟弟，google the meaning of "ghosting".

 

[alex22]

After 500 posts, whats the conclusion

 

[Beatrush_10]

Ok she replied me liao, she say “I check my schedule”, means what???

Wait for her reply? if there is no further reply from her, i believe you should know the answer liao.

 

[Big Chicken]

在我最需要妳的时候， 没有说一句话就走

Beta male spotted.

 

[Big Chicken]

After 500 posts, whats the conclusion

TS gian png and tee kee.

 

[Big Chicken]

U r really terrible at social cue.

She leaving without a word while u went toilet is alr clear as day that it is over liao.

Best part is he went to pangsai, so he could have been gone for at least 30 minutes.

 

[Mr Totoro 38]

U r really terrible at social cue.

She leaving without a word while u went toilet is alr clear as day that it is over liao.

yessss...

she already give you "Face" by not saying you are so stingy right in front of u....

 

[Big Chicken]

Don't stop him please. The stupidity is very entertaining

Imagine after a very bad first meeting, he tops it off by saying he need to go pangsai - right after she just had lunch.

 

[Monstruo^]

TS izzit also v hard to ask u folk out moolah do charity kind of person

$10 meal also bky liao you expect charity

 

[Monstruo^]

Wah! This kind of csb thread can get over 500 replies and counting..


CheerS!!!

If not, you no chance to do cute cute AI illustration

 

[Big Chicken]

$10 meal also bky liao you expect charity

Worst is $10 bky but he expects her to fall in love with him.

 

[Monstruo^]

Cos we all kaypoh kia

But I thought zehzeh ish bochup de?

 

[Sumimasen]

The ger so nice with high EQ still entertain him to check simi schedule...

 

[Hello_Kitty]

After 500 posts, whats the conclusion

the girl initiated to reply and they become a couple and live happily ever after

 

[Monstruo^]

Worst is $10 bky but he expects her to fall in love with him.

I think his expectation too high liao. Or he wants everything to be cheaper chioer better faster. Lim Swee Say’s fault lah haiz.

Like not willing to part with $10 meal with 7/10 girl
Then ok with $12 meal with 8/10 girl
Add $2 for 1 more star rating.

Also like fresh grad they expect first job to be perfect with $8000 or $10000 salary.