No funeral

[qhong61]

Don't mind me sharing, you see most of the negative and illogical comments are from those have not start or no intention to start a family.

Read mummynew comments, that's something sensible.

Maybe they talking abt their own wake and funeral?

 

[qhong61]

Just don't hold lo.

Funeral refers to cremation

 

[coyote]

Maybe they talking abt their own wake and funeral?

I think they never put any deep thoughts into the meaning of funerals or wakes. In due time, they shall and I think they will think different from what they said now...

 

[qhong61]

I think they never put any deep thoughts into the meaning of funerals or wakes. In due time, they shall and I think they will think different from what they said now...

They don't have children.
No choice.

 

[Lchlch]

Maybe they talking abt their own wake and funeral?

bro, when it really hits a person, the thinking will be completely different.

 

[qhong61]

bro, when it really hits a person, the thinking will be completely different.

No kids then how?
Who arranging?

 

[Lchlch]

No kids then how?
Who arranging?

No kids then how?
Who arranging?

Maybe siblings around or cousins.....
if supposing really left alone ya, usually some funeral parlour will pay everything for the dead person , one road good walk to Western PureLand.

 

[qhong61]

Maybe siblings around or cousins.....
if supposing really left alone ya, usually some funeral parlour will pay everything for the dead person , one road good walk to Western PureLand.

Think most probably decomposed at home.
By the time found already left skeleton.

 

[Lchlch]

Think most probably decomposed at home.
By the time found already left skeleton.

yes bro, we read few cases like that.
but still the decomposed body will need embalmment , clean cloth, etc ...to have the journey to Western Pureland.

 

[ramlee]

I opted for ash scattering when my time is up, no need columbarium...

And no need to 拜山uhh

Can the deceased be kept in SGH Block 8 till the funeral service company
pick the body on the appointed cremation date.

Got storage charge?

 

[jumpthepig]

Shocking indeed.

Nothing shocking..

In Buddhism, the physical body after death is considered an "empty vessel"... I don’t want my children to waste money on wake and funeral

 

[Lchlch]

Nothing shocking..

In Buddhism, the physical body after death is considered an "empty vessel"... I don’t want my children to waste money on wake and funeral

yes a simple no grand type of funeral cost at least $17k and if misc cost added, it come up around $30k.

 

[jumpthepig]

Think most probably decomposed at home.
By the time found already left skeleton.

Decomposed at home?
Can pass away in favourite chair, after nodding off while watching TV……jin lucky already.

 

[ramlee]

I don't think anyone told or trained Singaporeans to be cold. I attended funerals, many times over. This is the first I heard from edmwers saying they are going to skip the funeral and wake. That's coldest thing I heard from edmwers.

Die also die already, go and attend wake will come back alive meh?

 

[ramlee]

see this thread, i wonder wat is e meaning of life?
u come.. and u go and e world still spinning.

In between, serve pap

 

[Lchlch]

Die also die already, go and attend wake will come back alive meh?

this is to give last respect...

 

[coyote]

Die also die already, go and attend wake will come back alive meh?

Everytime I attending wake, I always feel sad for my friends, relatives or colleagues and will try to find out how the surviving family members coping...that's sad enough and I don't go to funerals of people too distant from me.

You can even say the wakes and funerals are for the family and friends...in remembrance of the deceased...

When it happened to my immediate family... My heart hurts and I comfort myself saying at least they are free from the suffering of sicknesses and pain... But do I wish to be with them longer? I really wished...

So, edmwers are heartless to their families and really nothing to leave behind when they passed? I think not. The same old saying goes, wait till it happens to you or your families, then you'll know.

 

[Lchlch]

Everytime I attending wake, I always feel sad for my friends, relatives or colleagues and will try to find out how the surviving family members coping...that's sad enough and I don't go to funerals of people too distant from me.

You can even say the wakes and funerals are for the family and friends...in remembrance of the deceased...

When it happened to my immediate family... My heart hurts and I comfort myself saying at least they are free from the suffering of sicknesses and pain... But do I wish to be with them longer? I really wished...

So, edmwers are heartless to their families and really nothing to leave behind when they passed? I think not. The same old saying goes, wait till it happens to you or your families, then you'll know.

yes bro, people will not know how the feeling is like until it hit them one day.
Till now, i am still griveing and still hurts , everyday keep on thinking...and the feeling is completely different.
I am suffering in pain, and not only that, i have to clear my house, throw stuff away where it used to be there happily ...now everything changed...and i am really feeling tired. At home is completely different.
The feeling is indescribable, nobody will understand unless one has gone thru the same.

 

[coyote]

yes bro, people will not know how the feeling is like until it hit them one day.
Till now, i am still griveing and still hurts , everyday keep on thinking...and the feeling is completely different.
I am suffering in pain, and not only that, i have to clear my house, throw stuff away where it used to be there happily ...now everything changed...and i am really feeling tired. At home is completely different.
The feeling is indescribable, nobody will understand unless one has gone thru the same.

Even Qing Ming festival felt totally different once it affected my immediate family. So.. good luck to all those heartless edmwers.

 

[kopiOkid]

this concept is good
but i recall recently got news nea need to move the ashes from the garden ppl unhappy

Land is extremely scarce in Singapore. Even disposed ashes in a garden will face the risk of being evicted or transferred after a while.
What security is there left?