Non princess upbringing possible?

[BennyQ]

C) Eventually marry an elite, failing which she picks a regular beta from amongst her orbiters who will sacrifice everything for her.

Don't kid yourself. The only reason princess mentality is so prevalent, is because there are so many betas entering into unequal relationships with women, They spoil the market for everyone else. As long as men remain desperate for a wife and willing to give up dignity and material wealth just to get a wifey, women will continue to be princess. And any women who don't be one is shortchanging herself.

Omg u right! I forgot all about Supply and Demand.

 

[TehOPengSiuDai]

I ever saw this young girl, looks to be around P1/P2 demanding to her helper to carry her in the crowded train. The helper refused and she loudly exclaimed that her mummy told her she is the princess and helper must do what she says because she is the princess. Then she turned to look at her mummy, who was sitting down with her younger sister and said “mummy, that’s what you said right, I’m the princess?”

Mummy don’t dare to look at her and diam diam just look down on the floor. Princess girl kept pestering the mummy to affirm her position as Princess.

 

[jinsadndepress]

You’ll be surprised how many dinobus out there have princess syndrome. It’s the upbringing. If u treat them like princess since young, they will grow up like princess, regardless of whether her face is cui or she is dinobu. It’s all in their minds.

Ya , they can feel like they princess , but when no guy want to treat her like princess she will auto wake up huan .
Need sustain princess treatment to maintain princess syndrome

 

[Soracak]

How they know their privileges? By looking at other gals right? So if everyone change at same time, maybe possible? Kids want phone cos their friends have phones. Yet long ago phones were not even invented.

yeah social media. The bad social behavior tends to become viral faster than good ones. Some rcp in this forum also same thing. They look at other gals hook up rich dudes they also gian want to do the same. Unrealistic expectations. I say, hey look at those women who made it on their own esp now easier than ever with women cards played everywhere in corporations, nope, bo hiew me.

 

[BennyQ]

Ya , they can feel like they princess , but when no guy want to treat her like princess she will auto wake up huan .
Need sustain princess treatment to maintain princess syndrome

This is true and embarrassing for me as a guy but actually I was also pampered by everyone when I was little. And so when I got to school and work I felt super demoralised and helpless. Of cos as a man I have no alternative.

 

[TehOPengSiuDai]

Ya , they can feel like they princess , but when no guy want to treat her like princess she will auto wake up huan .
Need sustain princess treatment to maintain princess syndrome

They will continue to hold out for their Prince Charming until way past their expiry dates

 

[yokine3a]

I'm wondering if the princess attitude is a countermeasure tied to females nature. And if it can be replaced with an alternative attitude?

None of my siblings have princess attitude. If you met a girl has this, look at her dad or her mum or her family members, you will have the answer.

 

[fire]

There is this saying ”穷养儿，富养女”

 

[SayPorkGuy]

This is true and embarrassing for me as a guy but actually I was also pampered by everyone when I was little. And so when I got to school and work I felt super demoralised and helpless. Of cos as a man I have no alternative.

so nice. imma remember sec sch imma sick ask charboh beside me help take notes, she also reject me say she busy. the other guy sitting beside her ask same thing, she just ok no problem.

 

[BennyQ]

None of my siblings have princess attitude. If you met a girl has this, look at her dad or her mum or her family members, you will have the answer.

So far others have mentioned that besides parents, there is mainstream culture and supply/demand from simps.

 

[hachi]

Weird... Not many raise their sons like prince... Next time the princess cannot find prince? Then become what?

Those single Dino queen in workplace torturing around them.. Thinking she is the only person that is right except her bosses?

 

[jinsadndepress]

None of my siblings have princess attitude. If you met a girl has this, look at her dad or her mum or her family members, you will have the answer.

No offense , but your siblings chio ? When you first experience it sure will at least be a little affected one . Even though you can act like dont have , in your head will think it one .

 

[yokine3a]

So far others have mentioned that other than parents, there is mainstream culture and supply/demand from simps.

In reality, 95% are from parents.

 

[Emperor_Hippo]

Is it possible to bring up a daughter not as a princess but maybe more like a man?

Just wondering if it's nature or nurture.

you want to 穷养女儿 ah?

can, can. its ur family after all. ur birthing and rearing strtegies not up to us to say.

is all up to u

 

[yokine3a]

No offense , but your siblings chio ? When you first experience it sure will at least be a little affected one . Even though you can act like dont have , in your head will think it one .

No, we are all average looking ppl. No, never in my head think of simi princess mentality, I only get to learn this term from tv dramas.

 

[jinsadndepress]

No, we are all average looking ppl. No, never in my head think of simi princess mentality, I only get to learn this term from tv dramas.

Is possible you n your siblings have but dont know . Princess syndrome ish not 0 or 1 one , got many level in between . Most edmwer here talk about extreme . Most girl if decent looking will have mild case huan .
If you last time buibui and then become chiobu and experience the difference in the way people treat you you can 100 % tell one and feel that you yourself develop a bit of syndrome . But because of your buibui experience you wont be as bad as those grow up as chiobu huan .

 

[BennyQ]

In reality, 95% are from parents.

Fair enough. Then do parents still treat sons differently from daughters nowadays? If same upbringing for men and women, maybe that's why we now have princess and charsiew.

Omg that's a great movie title!
The Princess & The Charsiew
Akan Datang.

 

[lazyclimb]

stop treating her like helpless baby the moment she can stand up on her own, and make her be accountable for her words and actions.



if all else fail

 

[dambio]

C) Eventually marry an elite, failing which she picks a regular beta from amongst her orbiters who will sacrifice everything for her.

Don't kid yourself. The only reason princess mentality is so prevalent, is because there are so many betas entering into unequal relationships with women, They spoil the market for everyone else. As long as men remain desperate for a wife and willing to give up dignity just to get a wifey, women will continue to be princess. And any women who don't be one is shortchanging herself.

Very true of tis from another pov. N those woman who's know tis will manipulate n take advantage of tis

 

[randomph]

Can name her Mulan