Non princess upbringing possible?

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Is it possible to bring up a daughter not as a princess but maybe more like a man?

Just wondering if it's nature or nurture.
Pretty sure it's nurture - have you seen a princess with poor parents who watch every penny spent? I haven't met one yet.
 

kreja

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ask the girl join NS, she will become non-princess
Not really. Guess what happens to average looking girls in a male dominated working environment? They get princess treatment anyways. Its not intentional, guys just not accustomed to deal with female subordinates.
 

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Just go kiasu parents forum where all the people there address their kids as prince or princesses.
How not to have princess syndrome?
 

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your kid next time become lesbian or gay ... is natural right ? according to these people.

and those lbgqta+ zcskfjakafjf people. same. all claim it is natural.

identify as a penguin or dog or tree or ambulance. all natural.


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Pretty sure it's nurture - have you seen a princess with poor parents who watch every penny spent? I haven't met one yet.
Sure will have influence by her peers one lah some more kdrama so popular these days
 

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Females act rike princesses ish the female's way of acting 'high value' to fool men into thinking they are high value.
And to send signal she ish set her expectation to be put on pedestal in any relationship.

At the end of the day a car dealer can insist his $100,000 toyota ish somehow a $250,000 porsche.
Even when ebryone can clearly see it ish a toyota.
It ish up to men to ownself evaluate and think if the woman or car ish overpriced.
And not be bullied into accepting a lie which he ownself can clearly see ish a lie.

And if the woman or car dealer ish dishonest and manipulative.
Thish shld set the tone of any relationship.
 

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Very possible , when young make sure feed her until buibui .
Bonus point if your gene cui her face also cui . Confirm plus chop no princess syndrome
Won't work. I've seen examples of this where the self entitlement and princess attitude was worst.
 

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Don't do everything for her like she is a Princess. Command her to do everything for you like you are a king.
 

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But I'm the charsiew version. Not married and no kids. Haha.
OK lah... Alot of lonely souls looking for love and alot of poorer than poor males looking for help... Match them...
 

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Wasn’t there a recent interview of a girl whose parents divorced, her dad returned to home country, then mother died so she had to bear the burden of raising her siblings?

She came across as very mature in her thoughts and actions.
There’s the princesses and the brokens.. no in betweens
 

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Is it possible to bring up a daughter not as a princess but maybe more like a man?

Just wondering if it's nature or nurture.
think the idea is show your daughters more of the world when they are young, so they won't be led astray by the pai kias in school/ not so easy to cheat. boys on the other hand, can be abit rougher with them.

but ya, doesn't mean we should raise girls to be entitled. think it's possible to do both.
 
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