Just came back to this thread after 2+ yrs of marriage (3+ yrs after proposal) and thinking of upgrading in a couple of years ...
But anyways, just sharing from real life experience for the 4 C's (in girls & their girl friends perspective)
The most impt to girls ranks like this:
1. Carat
2. Color
3. Cut (very close to no.2)
4. Clarity
Yes, everyone in the forum thinks Cut is the ultimate C but somehow its not when girls actually discuss it ...
And yes, they do put their hands together and look at the diamonds ... (and no, they don't tell you that either)
The only 2 that is visible to the naked eye during quick glances and comparison over lunch is, YES, Carat and Color ...
Just heard from a friend that complaining that her diamond was 'not as white' as her friends after they see that both of the diamonds are around 1carat big ... So next was to compare whiteness/pureness ...
Nobody can compare Cut cause its ambiguous to do it over naked eye and under 'glancing pass' type of scenario ... Anyone can say mine is the best cut and its hard to say its not over the ***** coffee table ...
U see this picture, its very obvious which is the excellent cut but it will ***** look similar under coffee table conditions ... And sadly, thats where usually, the diamond is seen by the girls ...
And you really can't tell an excellent cut to a Very good cut over those conditions unless you diamond is >2 carat (which is bigger so easier to see the beautiful reflections on an excellent cut) ...
But hell, if you have the means to get a 2 carat diamond, i don't see why would you not get an excellent grade since money isn't a big concern.
C,D,E,F color might look the same to guys ... BUT when the girls put the rings together and compare, it is quite visible that the F is much yellower than a C ... Or rather, not as 'white' and 'clean' or 'pure' ...
Its funny how they compare it (with girlfriends) and how they will always entertain the hubby and saying ya 'Cut' is important cause they wana seem sophisticated ... and not bimbo to just look at carat size ...
Well, my 2cents ... No scientific proof and not generalising ... Just had to poke around and observe over the past 2 years ... lol
For my next upgrade, i might end up trading a E color to get a C color by downgrading the cut from Excellent to Very good ...
Have fun! for the new guys getting your diamonds ... Cheers