Hi all, i took me a year to finally make the decision. And the one who helped me speed up the process is actually my partner.
I brought her to JP and had Rei ran through the tutorial for my partner to understand the specs in Super Ideal Cut.
The reason why i brought her to JP is that, she is a person who knows what she wants. And there are horror stories of her friends who didn't like their proposal rings (Husbands didn't know it of cos) So i want to make sure that i got it right.
I actually set aside cash for 0.5 diamond but in the end she wanted 0.3 - 0.4. When Rei did a blind test to fit a 0.5 diamond onto a temporary ring.
She wore it and said it's too big for her, she don't want it. That confirms my decision. Finally, she picked her own ring design and we left. I messaged Rei to have her note down my partner's choice of ring setting and headed back JP the next week to make deposit.
The diamond selection was quite tedious, between 0.43 VVS D, E, F.
I found the specs for these 3 diamonds very nice. But F looks the best to me. I felt very comfortable with the patterns i see in ASET scope. But i can't find Pinpoint and clouds as mentioned in GIA cert.
Anyway i just paid my deposit and waiting for collection.
My objective to bring her to JP was very clear. Because most partners don't know much about diamond specs.
They like to compare who has bigger diamond, more beautiful setting, etc. There are definitely people who have bigger carats then my partner. Some of her friends are quite curd when it comes to proposal rings.
I hope by looking through JP diamonds, she will be proud of her Super Ideal Cut even though its not a big one.
At least i don't have to face the pressure of her friends asking her or myself - why didn't i get a bigger one for her.
I can answer to those people I didn't get a bigger diamond but i got one that she likes.
Diamond + side diamond setting = 4k