Spartanz.
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again, i never say bald can't be attractive. to quote what i have mention above, i said in most context, having a full head of hair is in no doubt a better situation.
it quite a classic case of comparing apple to orange. a lean and mean bald guy will have no doubt look better then a out of shape bald guy. but we are comparing hair VS shaved here. so it will only be fair if you compare people with similar physical condition with and without hair. with that, an overweight person with full head of hair will almost always look better then someone overweight yet shaved in most context. again, you have enforce the point that a bald guy need to have the face, physique, dress sense, posture, good skin, positve attributes etc only to be attractive. i sure most people will be more forgiving towards the same person with full head of hair.
now imagine a person with full head of hair making the effort you mentionget the point?
i understand your point that why i trying to point out "getting rid of the worry" have nothing to do with what you are trying for your hairloss. whether it is treatment or shaving is just ways trying to improve your image. believe me, i tried the same approach as you before. i shaved for a number of times. that how i conclude a shaved look does affect how people preceive you. i even try not to comb my hair thinking people will judge me less on outer apperance. of course, it didn't work out"getting rid of your worry" come from within you know
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i around 30 now. friends start commenting my hairloss around 17years old. i pretty much been through what you have. avoiding friends, give excuse to avoid gathering and event. all those beijing101 and yunan jokes i have gone through tooit does hurt badly during those days. but now, i just join in the fun
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sadly not everyone grow out of it. i have friends having a sour relationship with their other half due to hairloss. less on hairloss but more on lack of self-confidence.
really ah? when u shaved u get lots of stares/criticisms?
i figured whether u r balding or u r bald ppl will still stare at u. but being balding means additional worry about wad hairstyle to use, avoiding windy places etc etc might as well get rid of the hair so u have 1 less thing to worry about
also do u avoid activities that might potentially harm yr hair like being out in the hot sun for too long/swimming etc??
get the point?
"getting rid of your worry" come from within you know
it does hurt badly during those days. but now, i just join in the fun
yes. people can be this sallow.
take it for what it worth. 