Childless Marriage

[Tsoukalos]

your baby is a mini-you

And you watch your mini-you slowly grow up, it's really
your kids will give you a new purpose and motivation for you to become a better person.

Well i am so glad i grow up behaving nothing like my dead father

 

[Leave No Men Behind]

3) no sucker to take care of you, provided you know how to raise a child well
Many ppl use their parents or grandparents
or in laws for this, they should just drop dead. Dun even give them a break after raising u.


---Nahz.... grand ppl love such. Next time your genx. U take care lor. U confirm happy. Confirm one

 

[Tsoukalos]

No longer an issue in modern society as most even have kids ish just throw to maids\in-laws nia mah.

So they should be quite happy speaking tagalog growing up

 

[croc1977]

is it true your family history got twins too?

yeah...my mom ....and my dad don't even know her wife she got a twin sis ...till my mom told us maybe gene and my whole family don't know other than face look like ...one is fat one is skinny

 

[LamborghiniGallardo]

My marriage is now in it's 28th year.

My children is the reason why I am still married.

Full of respect. Salute!!!!!

 

[Tsoukalos]

worry for the kid from birth until u die, exhausting both your financial and mental resources while you are alive. Kid grow up liao hardly want to spend time with you. All these, worth it meh?

Playing and watching other ppl kids like alright, ownself bring up one kid is a pain from start to end.

I feel sorry for my mum who still worry over my sis to get married when obviously she not marriage material.

 

[joytan811]

Its a burden to raise children who eventually live their lives as though they were borne themselves.

 

[keigo22]

you can give thousand and one excuse why having kids suck. But you can never run away from the fact that you choose to be selfish unless you got medical problem/whatever serious issue stopping you from having kids.

The pro and cons can be both way for different people for different situation. Just like the same reason why marry or not.

Then why continue living if you ask me. Need to state the pro and cons also.. haha

 

[Tsoukalos]

Now u 39. 10 yrs later 50. U hoseh liao lor. Can relax slightly. Better than fa walk here walk there aimlessly? ??? Is fact I stating

Why must be aimless? Get hobbies, pet, join social activities, do charity, have a religion etc

 

[shizuka_b]

U dnt like ur kids?

I love my kids more han anything in the world, and of course I am happy to sacrifice for them. But still....envy the YOLO-ers.

 

[croc1977]

I see all my fren who got 龙凤胎 the girl look like the boy but with long hair.
Is yours the same?

no leh...

my boy don't like to interact and like to talk to himself...but if you ask him read books or even write words on magic board like hexagon and other 'gon' he know...and he is 4 yrs plus only...

knn...during my time i don't even know those **** words ....and

plus he know time table liao......goodness i think i my pri sch then learn x 2....

he even know mrt station which station is next ....only north east and circle line...he know how to read potong pasir....even not chun...but he try to pingyi....like hanyi pingyi...he don't know what the pingyi word about ...but he will try to read with the alphabet around...

but problem he like to play with ownself....or talk...

need to go special sch ...i worried....



my gal diff...

she knows how to speak very well till can talk back to be ...

but ask her read words she don't knw....


sian....

 

[fortunecat]

If you are financially ok, guess having children is fine. But i feel sad for those who basically sacrifice and gave up everything in their lives in order to raise their children. They might feel it's worth it, but is it really?

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[Tsoukalos]

My marriage is now in it's 28th year.

My children is the reason why I am still married.

So means they e ones holding yr marriage together?

 

[asd78]

Why marry if you don't want children?

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[croc1977]

Now u 39. 10 yrs later 50. U hoseh liao lor. Can relax slightly. Better than fa walk here walk there aimlessly? ??? Is fact I stating

how to relax...with things so ex...and ft...even at work and at my children sch...how to relax

 

[asd78]

If you are financially ok, guess having children is fine. But i feel sad for those who basically sacrifice and gave up everything in their lives in order to raise their children. They might feel it's worth it, but is it really?

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Everyone got their priorities and values which they deem important. ...others can disagree but who gives a **** right....you do what u think is right as long as it doesn't hurt others...

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[AngeLx]

why every now and then also got such threads, its your personal choice to have or don't have. no right or wrong.

a bit stupid to have children just because you scare people ask you during CNY, they going to raise the kids for your kids is it?

 

[bigbadber]

The cons for having a kid (worse if there's more than one) is endless

Start a list,

It'll probably be 50 pages long

 

[croc1977]

Why marry if you don't want children?

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that's the answer i got from my mrs...cos i don't want to have kids yet...

financial not ready....i felt....

quarrel till nearly divorce...

family have to step in...


quarrel till my wife say ' you can give birth then say'...

u know how demonizing...


but slowly go holiday together and falling in love again....

viola!






and i really regret doing that...now suffer....


even mrs buy ps4 for me ...no time to play

 

[croc1977]

The cons for having a kid (worse if there's more than one) is endless

Start a list,

It'll probably be 50 pages long

SICK......worse....