Divorced getting common?

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I'm surprised that my friend who happily married for 15 over years divorce recently. Got 3 kids and kids custody was awarded to the mother.

My friend was a PMET doing quite well, earning at least 10k pm. Lives in landed property bought using parent money without loan. Now divorce liao 50% went to wife.

The reason for the divorced was wife cheated on him
Need ask our incumbent got how many?
 

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Most marriages go stale after 3 years.
If the marriage can hang on, it is due to the kid most of the time.
 

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i think so too... i chaochao have 6 friends alr divorced

2 waited for kid to be 18, then divorced
3 not happy divorced
1 cheated, then divorced
 

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charboh cheat, men at fault. men cheat, still men's fault. bobian, got testosterone is like that one. only long lasting marriage is rich ask guy marriage to commoner charboh or equally high ses one. so charboh look for high ses guys is a clever move. only low ses guys cheat, esp when they have $$$ later in life.
Only way to long lasting marriage is rich and protect your wealth via various channels inaccessible even by court. Worst case is migrate rather than follow the court asset division which is very unfair imo. Not an advice. Just a comment seeing how court reward more after appeal to even a childless ex wife who cheated. She doesn't deserve a single cent. But since law has stated as such, best legal option is stay single.
 

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Women don't deserve **** in divorce. Want to be equal yet ask for assets when divorce.
 

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Stats oredy show 3 out of 10 couples divorced

Which ish common
 

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Only way to long lasting marriage is rich and protect your wealth via various channels inaccessible even by court. Worst case is migrate rather than follow the court asset division which is very unfair imo. Not an advice. Just a comment seeing how court reward more after appeal to even a childless ex wife who cheated. She doesn't deserve a single cent. But since law has stated as such, best legal option is stay single.
smartest way is to be rich but never show chu are rich. ppl show their true colours around ppl they think poorer than themselves.
 

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I'm surprised that my friend who happily married for 15 over years divorce recently. Got 3 kids and kids custody was awarded to the mother.

My friend was a PMET doing quite well, earning at least 10k pm. Lives in landed property bought using parent money without loan. Now divorce liao 50% went to wife.

The reason for the divorced was wife cheated on him
Cheated still need give her 50 percent..consider adultery and dun give her single cent liao
 

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1 in 3 SG marriages end up in divorce

Men are now smarter and skipping the whole process, saved on the alimony too
Makes sense. The best way to play a game that is rigged is not to play at all. Rather than give money to unfaithful ex, might as well contribute to ktv
 

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Makes sense. The best way to play a game that is rigged is not to play at all. Rather than give money to unfaithful ex, might as well contribute to ktv
but chu will live through a miserable life not knowing true love.
 

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There is no way that PAP dare to make any amendments to woman's charter.

Fact is 50% of voters are woman. Period.
this is one of the reasons civilizations decline. but we men cannot say anything unless you want to be labeled as misogynistic.
 

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There is no way that PAP dare to make any amendments to woman's charter.

Fact is 50% of voters are woman. Period.
Don't dare to make amendments? No. They won't hesitate to make amendments beneficial to their female voters and most would only serve to benefit women more! :o
 

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I see happy couples everyday

and those who are married, everyday or once in a while talk about their SO in work

while single guys finding difficult to get attached

others get attached easily and are happy with one another

I guess divorce is rare nowadays, sometimes I doubt government's statistic on divorce rate, which is made up without proof, when everyone is attached/married and happy

There are only sad singles and happy people who are attached/married, no in between

Divorce is as rare as finding a shiny shadow legendary Pokemon

Hope all get attached and married

Maybe some divorced but keep quiet abt it

I am starting to see more cases n hear say cases ard me
Like friend”s friends also few cases but sometimes because the pax involved is a bit weirdo kind
Maybe got the bbfa potential but somehow managed to marry wife 😁

Also seen cases where divorced liao n remarry but normally r guys that managed to marry someone else again
 

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Quite normal these days… anyway even if wife cheats, most of the time kids will go to the mother and alimony is also not affected by her cheating.
 

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but chu will live through a miserable life not knowing true love.
depends on mindset. the way we men love and the way women love very different. Unless you are top 5% aka Chad, mostly likely, her so called ‘love’ for you is transactional. Hard to believe but once you’ve seen this, you can’t unsee it.
 

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I know of case, the reason of divorce is the wife bth the hub not contributing to the hsehold but constantly leech on her for money. When divorce when mentioned earlier stg, the hub still got cheek to ask for equal share of asset when he didn't contribute. Such case, after divorce i wonder the arrangement how. Bcos they hub is declared bankrupt with loan shark chasing after him.
 

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Tot usually is shared custody then care & control (main person they stay with) to one person.

Divorce quite common. If a marriage is broken, no point continuing sometimes.
 
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