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thank you both, right now I'm just waiting for the launch in May/June and see if I'll get lucky.

To the others in similar positions as myself, you will be glad to know the following information that I have sourced from a consultation with HDB yesterday.

1. For self-employed people, ie. sole proprietorships. You will need two things to qualify for the grant. First, the ACRA certificate of registration that you can buy from ACRA for a small amount of money. The certificate should demonstrate that you have been in business for at least a year, the prevailing twelve calendar months prior to selection of flat. Second, you will need the notice of assessment from IRAS to certify that you have been indeed receiving an income for the same period.

Hi, have you told them you are full time student during consultation? Unless there are changes recently, don't think you can get any grant.

1. Unless u are part time student, else you'll be under full time student category. Your sole proprietorship doesn't count as work for full time student. So if u ballet now you can't get any grant. Also note that mature area doesn't qualify for SHG at all.

2. Since you have job secured immediately after you graduate and grant will only be given if you have worked for 12 months(starts from the date you graduate, your sole proprietorship during study doesn't count). So after working for 1 year, you and your future wife will have exceeded the amount, still no grant.

You can refer to this page:
http://www.hdb.gov.sg/cs/infoweb/residential/buying-a-flat/new/first-timer-applicants

You will not be considered as employed if you are a full-time student taking up part-time work

Also you refer to this thread
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/h...ime-students-who-apply-bto-flats-4181734.html

1) Full time students (SIM/NUS/NTU/SMU) are not eligible for the AHG grant.


Good luck for your upcoming ballot. But maybe you want to consider not to include grant in your calculation.
 

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I got an idea but a rather stupid one. How about one of u work while the other does something else other than work for 1 year? Then when u both applied successfully, you can get quite a large grant. Of course, the grant maybe worth your 1 year annual salary. Is it worth for one of u to sacrifice 1 year for the grant? Only you can answer that question.
 

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Hi, have you told them you are full time student during consultation? Unless there are changes recently, don't think you can get any grant.

1. Unless u are part time student, else you'll be under full time student category. Your sole proprietorship doesn't count as work for full time student. So if u ballet now you can't get any grant. Also note that mature area doesn't qualify for SHG at all.

2. Since you have job secured immediately after you graduate and grant will only be given if you have worked for 12 months(starts from the date you graduate, your sole proprietorship during study doesn't count). So after working for 1 year, you and your future wife will have exceeded the amount, still no grant.

You can refer to this page:
http://www.hdb.gov.sg/cs/infoweb/residential/buying-a-flat/new/first-timer-applicants

You will not be considered as employed if you are a full-time student taking up part-time work

Also you refer to this thread
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/h...ime-students-who-apply-bto-flats-4181734.html

1) Full time students (SIM/NUS/NTU/SMU) are not eligible for the AHG grant.


Good luck for your upcoming ballot. But maybe you want to consider not to include grant in your calculation.


No grant TS will not buy ..

Singaporean like that one ...
 

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I got an idea but a rather stupid one. How about one of u work while the other does something else other than work for 1 year? Then when u both applied successfully, you can get quite a large grant. Of course, the grant maybe worth your 1 year annual salary. Is it worth for one of u to sacrifice 1 year for the grant? Only you can answer that question.

3500 x 13 months minium = S$45,500 take home

Employee CPF about 20% (i dunno)? + Employer CPF = ???

Total S$ 45,500 + Loss of CPF vs GRANT (How much huh?)

End of the day today student need to spoonfeed to do the maths ...cannot ownself calculate......
 

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TS, I have nothing against you. Perhaps my interpretation could be wrong here.

Grants are meant for families who cannot fend for themselves. Some fathers and mothers work OT, to bring in a substantial amount which lures unwanted criticism but we never know what is happening behind the scenes, such as their family's plight.

Perhaps is the way that you have word your inquiry. Not that you need to please everyone here. But it seems like what you mentioned, a young lad, with $7,000 monthly income, a stable job with 15% increment is trying to squeeze every dollar from the grants. And to add fuel to the fire, you mentioned that with your salary projection, you are considering EC at the moment.

I think this was the tipping point.

There is no wrong in getting grants for Singaporeans. Let me be bold to even say that it is our birthright. To even justify that, there isn't any wrong to take things literal.

In every society, there are good, bad, poor, rich, helpless and resourceful individuals and families. The society at large is doing every best to help people who could not help themselves. Granted, there are people who wants to game the system.

Remember the news on parents driving Mercedes to community centres to take used text books which were meant for the not so fortunate? There is nothing wrong doing that. But I am sure you know how it feels :)

Go through the ballot first. Hope you get it at your first try. I will do my best to advise you once you get your number.

Peace.

TS, u also block uncle iPhone1s?
 

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Well, your family's wealth and income does not matter in assessment of the grant, but it will certainly help in your downpayment, be it whether if you are going for EC or HDB. If your parents can afford it comfortably (and still have cash to spare), why not get them to settle the downpayment for you and pay it back as you work? Just make sure you pay them back. Paying your parents beats paying the gov a loan with double interest.

If my above assumption is wrong (that your parents can't help you with the downpayment), then I strongly encourage you within these few years to keep whacking the BTO sales launch. Really - you can have all these grand plans for you and your GF's future but nothing (not even the grant) is set in stone until you get lucky after spending enough $10 on that dammed queue number.

Having said that, all the information various peeps have provided here is quite useless until July 2019 at least - if you are talking about getting a grant based on your monthly income (and not your business) because one of the requirement is either of you have to be continuously employed for a course of 12 months. (since you mentioned you will start work in July 2018).

Which then brings me to my next point. I am not sure if it is possible to get a grant based on income from a side business. You should be more informed as per your last post in this thread, although i think it is unlikely as I assume your income from that business is not:

1. Stable
2. Not high enough

Which then means you the issue of the grant only comes into the scenario when you have started working for 12 months and have a flat booked.

But lets look at the grants eligibility again. Since you mentioned your combined income will be $7000, you will not be eligible for AHG as income cap is $5,000.

Correspondingly, for the SHG, you will only qualify if you are looking at 2 to 4 room flats in non-mature areas. Therefore you have to take into consideration when apply for the sales launches.

Honestly i think there is a good chance that you will take a few years to hit the jackpot for the queue number and by then your income might already exceed the cap for the SHG which is $8,500 lol.

Basically, if your parents can afford, get their help for the downpayment Either that your're screwed like all other middle income Singaporeans. If no parents help, don't get the EC. You are just screwing yourself more.

Thank you, I've not considered our parents paying off the downpayment because we are already close to 30 and are better off learning how to be self-independent in our family planning. Moreover, we have already used almost half a million combined in our studies at undergraduate level and we firmly believe that its not morally upright to continue leeching off them. Even though their wealth will be ours one day through intestacy laws or by way of will, now is not that day yet.

But you are right, we are not planning to apply for any EC until at least 2020 and will continue trying for the lottery system (BTO system) till then. Granted that we need to be really lucky in order to succeed in our application, time is currently on our side as we will be able to think about other alternatives (resale or EC) after 2020.

Sidenote, our grant will be assessed based on my sole-proprietorship.


Hi, have you told them you are full time student during consultation? Unless there are changes recently, don't think you can get any grant.

1. Unless u are part time student, else you'll be under full time student category. Your sole proprietorship doesn't count as work for full time student. So if u ballet now you can't get any grant. Also note that mature area doesn't qualify for SHG at all.

2. Since you have job secured immediately after you graduate and grant will only be given if you have worked for 12 months(starts from the date you graduate, your sole proprietorship during study doesn't count). So after working for 1 year, you and your future wife will have exceeded the amount, still no grant.

You can refer to this page:
http://www.hdb.gov.sg/cs/infoweb/residential/buying-a-flat/new/first-timer-applicants

You will not be considered as employed if you are a full-time student taking up part-time work

Also you refer to this thread
http://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/h...ime-students-who-apply-bto-flats-4181734.html

1) Full time students (SIM/NUS/NTU/SMU) are not eligible for the AHG grant.


Good luck for your upcoming ballot. But maybe you want to consider not to include grant in your calculation.

You are absolutely right in the above quoted paragraph. We are not full-time students in the strictest sense of the term. We do not study at any of the 5/6 local universities and do not go to school full time per se but at the same time, our only "outside" school income is my sole-proprietorship.

At the consultation, I've made full and express disclosure and barring any failure on the part of the HDB officer whom we consulted with, my current case should be a good-to-go.

I wouldn't actually need the SHG because I'm only going for a four room flat in mature estates that should range between 400k-600k and with the full AHG grant coupled with only 5% necessary for initial downpayment, the grant will cover initial downpayment. Need only fork out the extra expenses at this stage.

TS, I have nothing against you. Perhaps my interpretation could be wrong here.

Grants are meant for families who cannot fend for themselves. Some fathers and mothers work OT, to bring in a substantial amount which lures unwanted criticism but we never know what is happening behind the scenes, such as their family's plight.

Perhaps is the way that you have word your inquiry. Not that you need to please everyone here. But it seems like what you mentioned, a young lad, with $7,000 monthly income, a stable job with 15% increment is trying to squeeze every dollar from the grants. And to add fuel to the fire, you mentioned that with your salary projection, you are considering EC at the moment.

I think this was the tipping point.

There is no wrong in getting grants for Singaporeans. Let me be bold to even say that it is our birthright. To even justify that, there isn't any wrong to take things literal.

In every society, there are good, bad, poor, rich, helpless and resourceful individuals and families. The society at large is doing every best to help people who could not help themselves. Granted, there are people who wants to game the system.

Remember the news on parents driving Mercedes to community centres to take used text books which were meant for the not so fortunate? There is nothing wrong doing that. But I am sure you know how it feels :)

Go through the ballot first. Hope you get it at your first try. I will do my best to advise you once you get your number.

Peace.

Dear iphone1s,

I agree with you, that grants must be for those who cannot fend for themselves. Taking a narrow interpretation on this, do I not fall within the category of those who cannot fend for themselves now?

I am, but a student with a sole-proprietorship who does not currently make sufficient income to even pay income tax. Whilst my future may be brighter than the lower-income Singaporeans, my current plight is definitely equal, if not worse than theirs. Isn't the whole point of this grants to assist people like me to start family building at an earlier stage of our lives?

If I were to wait till all my circumstances materialise, and save for the entire downpayment with my monthly take home pay of $3,500, I'll be about 35 years old by the time I can afford a BTO in a mature estate comfortably. Since the government wishes for young couples to start their families early, and provide them with such grants to own their first home, and me being their targeted audience, surely I must be able to exercise my birthright as a Singaporean to use these grants?

By the same logic that some here used to bash me on the idea of my EC, it is clear that I am unable to afford an EC based on our current financial circumstances. And this being the exact same financial circumstances that allows me to receive the government's grant, surely then, I should take them?

My family background should not play a part in assessing the morality in my taking up of the grants. My parents worked smart and hard for the achievements that they have today. I played no part in it. Being an independent person, burdened with father-mother education loans, morality ensues that I should and must be given the chance to take the grants.

To paint the picture plainly, I am going to start working as an employee in an organisation in a year's time or so. Although my prospects may be brighter than the bottom 20-30% of the population, please bear in mind that I am already 200-300k in debt by the time I start working. Moreover, as a first property, this liability will put me in a mountain heap of debt for the next 20-25 years. Granted, this could be paid off by CPF monies eventually, but are all these CPF monies not my hard earned money?

Please, enlighten me if I'm wrong.
 

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I see, you mentioned you are full time student so I just assumed you are in local uni. In this case if you are certain, good luck hope you can get a flat before your salary exceeds the amount!

I think if you are eligible, then take the grant lo nothing wrong.
If loans doesn't take your future earning and family wealth into consideration, why should grants? Who knows if the job is still there in 2018.

Grants are to help us to buy first home, it's not a charity. There's even grants for ec for people with up to 12k income.
 

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TS, planning is good. But go for your first ballot first.

Till you get the number and the unit you want, no matter how you plan, things will derail. By 2020, perhaps you might have other plans. Your plans may defer very much from the ones you have now.

It could be filled with disappointment, anxiety and anything just to get a unit.

So, be cool, go for your first ballot. Do PM me the outcome. If you really want to plan, plan for the worst scenario that you do not get a number or unit that you want. Plan for scenarios that you didn't get a good number, plan for scenarios which you got a number but your desired unit is taken up, or you are out of range, etc. NOT INCLUDING YOUR FINANCIAL STATUS. Financial talk comes way later.

Just FYI, the first HLE that you applied just tells HDB if you are financially alright with a job, or what you are doing. It does not carry much weightage.

The true HLE will come when you collect the keys. If 3-5 years down the road, I know you will never quit your job la, assuming la. But your boss close down the company, you were retrenched, these are realities and planning for the worst case scenario.

You go for your 2nd HLE assessment... you have a high chance that your mature estate HDB / EC will be repossessed. Or maybe you won't even have the chance to choose at all.

So, just go for your first ballot.
 

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Thank you, I've not considered our parents paying off the downpayment because we are already close to 30 and are better off learning how to be self-independent in our family planning. Moreover, we have already used almost half a million combined in our studies at undergraduate level and we firmly believe that its not morally upright to continue leeching off them. Even though their wealth will be ours one day through intestacy laws or by way of will, now is not that day yet.

But you are right, we are not planning to apply for any EC until at least 2020 and will continue trying for the lottery system (BTO system) till then. Granted that we need to be really lucky in order to succeed in our application, time is currently on our side as we will be able to think about other alternatives (resale or EC) after 2020.

Sidenote, our grant will be assessed based on my sole-proprietorship.




You are absolutely right in the above quoted paragraph. We are not full-time students in the strictest sense of the term. We do not study at any of the 5/6 local universities and do not go to school full time per se but at the same time, our only "outside" school income is my sole-proprietorship.

At the consultation, I've made full and express disclosure and barring any failure on the part of the HDB officer whom we consulted with, my current case should be a good-to-go.

I wouldn't actually need the SHG because I'm only going for a four room flat in mature estates that should range between 400k-600k and with the full AHG grant coupled with only 5% necessary for initial downpayment, the grant will cover initial downpayment. Need only fork out the extra expenses at this stage.



Dear iphone1s,

I agree with you, that grants must be for those who cannot fend for themselves. Taking a narrow interpretation on this, do I not fall within the category of those who cannot fend for themselves now?

I am, but a student with a sole-proprietorship who does not currently make sufficient income to even pay income tax. Whilst my future may be brighter than the lower-income Singaporeans, my current plight is definitely equal, if not worse than theirs. Isn't the whole point of this grants to assist people like me to start family building at an earlier stage of our lives?

If I were to wait till all my circumstances materialise, and save for the entire downpayment with my monthly take home pay of $3,500, I'll be about 35 years old by the time I can afford a BTO in a mature estate comfortably. Since the government wishes for young couples to start their families early, and provide them with such grants to own their first home, and me being their targeted audience, surely I must be able to exercise my birthright as a Singaporean to use these grants?

By the same logic that some here used to bash me on the idea of my EC, it is clear that I am unable to afford an EC based on our current financial circumstances. And this being the exact same financial circumstances that allows me to receive the government's grant, surely then, I should take them?

My family background should not play a part in assessing the morality in my taking up of the grants. My parents worked smart and hard for the achievements that they have today. I played no part in it. Being an independent person, burdened with father-mother education loans, morality ensues that I should and must be given the chance to take the grants.

To paint the picture plainly, I am going to start working as an employee in an organisation in a year's time or so. Although my prospects may be brighter than the bottom 20-30% of the population, please bear in mind that I am already 200-300k in debt by the time I start working. Moreover, as a first property, this liability will put me in a mountain heap of debt for the next 20-25 years. Granted, this could be paid off by CPF monies eventually, but are all these CPF monies not my hard earned money?

Please, enlighten me if I'm wrong.

At least now he is on earth ....

Dun quote what govt said and do not believe what they said.

it is like what you said EC can help you make alot of money thats why you wanted to try for an EC.

Govt said ... 1k can buy HDB liao so dun chong 4 room flat and start small. Why do you need a 4 room flat ? play catching huh ?

Somebody said - you dun need space to make babies. or something along that lines... so no need to go 4 room or 5 or ec .. a couple start with small first then get more along the lines ... 200-300k debts is peanuts basis you 15% projection ...

Anyway 300k is just only a conti car with 10 year COE (maybe can get you 300-350 horse power). Dun take it too hard.

Eat what you have, spend more and save more. downpayment is peanuts since you are BOSS of sole properity (sorry my england no good). Just incur big debts for purschase and you are save. manage your risk and you are good to go.

Sorry i dun take grant so i cannot comment on that
sorry i did not buy a HDB so i cannot comment on that
Sorry i never try lottery but only game on sure hit sure kill thing becoz i dun like to waste my time.

All the best.
 

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Thank you, I've not considered our parents paying off the downpayment because we are already close to 30 and are better off learning how to be self-independent in our family planning. Moreover, we have already used almost half a million combined in our studies at undergraduate level and we firmly believe that its not morally upright to continue leeching off them. Even though their wealth will be ours one day through intestacy laws or by way of will, now is not that day yet.

But you are right, we are not planning to apply for any EC until at least 2020 and will continue trying for the lottery system (BTO system) till then. Granted that we need to be really lucky in order to succeed in our application, time is currently on our side as we will be able to think about other alternatives (resale or EC) after 2020.

Sidenote, our grant will be assessed based on my sole-proprietorship.




You are absolutely right in the above quoted paragraph. We are not full-time students in the strictest sense of the term. We do not study at any of the 5/6 local universities and do not go to school full time per se but at the same time, our only "outside" school income is my sole-proprietorship.

At the consultation, I've made full and express disclosure and barring any failure on the part of the HDB officer whom we consulted with, my current case should be a good-to-go.

I wouldn't actually need the SHG because I'm only going for a four room flat in mature estates that should range between 400k-600k and with the full AHG grant coupled with only 5% necessary for initial downpayment, the grant will cover initial downpayment. Need only fork out the extra expenses at this stage.



Dear iphone1s,

I agree with you, that grants must be for those who cannot fend for themselves. Taking a narrow interpretation on this, do I not fall within the category of those who cannot fend for themselves now?

I am, but a student with a sole-proprietorship who does not currently make sufficient income to even pay income tax. Whilst my future may be brighter than the lower-income Singaporeans, my current plight is definitely equal, if not worse than theirs. Isn't the whole point of this grants to assist people like me to start family building at an earlier stage of our lives?

If I were to wait till all my circumstances materialise, and save for the entire downpayment with my monthly take home pay of $3,500, I'll be about 35 years old by the time I can afford a BTO in a mature estate comfortably. Since the government wishes for young couples to start their families early, and provide them with such grants to own their first home, and me being their targeted audience, surely I must be able to exercise my birthright as a Singaporean to use these grants?

By the same logic that some here used to bash me on the idea of my EC, it is clear that I am unable to afford an EC based on our current financial circumstances. And this being the exact same financial circumstances that allows me to receive the government's grant, surely then, I should take them?

My family background should not play a part in assessing the morality in my taking up of the grants. My parents worked smart and hard for the achievements that they have today. I played no part in it. Being an independent person, burdened with father-mother education loans, morality ensues that I should and must be given the chance to take the grants.

To paint the picture plainly, I am going to start working as an employee in an organisation in a year's time or so. Although my prospects may be brighter than the bottom 20-30% of the population, please bear in mind that I am already 200-300k in debt by the time I start working. Moreover, as a first property, this liability will put me in a mountain heap of debt for the next 20-25 years. Granted, this could be paid off by CPF monies eventually, but are all these CPF monies not my hard earned money?

Please, enlighten me if I'm wrong.

So????

Does the world owes u anything??? Coz u write and sounds like it....
 

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So????

Does the world owes u anything??? Coz u write and sounds like it....

He is saying if you read behind the lines, i assume is he is better than 20-30% of singaporeans and he wants his grant. because he wants to get married with the grant money equivalent so he can start a family.

He wants the grant because he is pink ic ( i also pink but no grant ?)

end of the day he see 3 room no standard and aims for 4 room ...
 
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I think you guys need to cut him some slack. Putting his overly hopeful EC dreams aside, I don't see anything wrong with him asking about grants to pay for his downpayment.

Put yourself in TS shoes. He and his partner are nearing their 30s and wish to settle down. This is something the government is promoting as well, but unfortunately due to their nature of studies / industries they've chosen they have to invest their time in the education first before commencing work. Nothing wrong with this what. Plus his GF / future wife is nearing her 30s, surely they want to have their own love nest so they can have kids?
 

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I think you guys need to cut him some slack. Putting his overly hopeful EC dreams aside, I don't see anything wrong with him asking about grants to pay for his downpayment.

Put yourself in TS shoes. He and his partner are nearing their 30s and wish to settle down. This is something the government is promoting as well, but unfortunately due to their nature of studies / industries they've chosen they have to invest their time in the education first before commencing work. Nothing wrong with this what. Plus his GF / future wife is nearing her 30s, surely they want to have their own love nest so they can have kids?

If i am in his shoes, i will be very humble. at his age, the income i have is already above what TS has n i will never ask grant because i have exceeding the ceiling then.

Unless i quit my job and be what many suggest a security guard for 1 year or so then i can get a grant for the so call "get rich with a flip scheme"

what is birth right entitlement is all bull

If you read in between my lines in all my post, I spell it already. Just go for the miserable grant and you are tied down. No terms and condition ? free money? With his 15% projection, why need to stoop so low ? Just go into the market as HEADHUNTED, make a name and then get more income. I am very sure he can own a private condo so.

Spiderman say with superpowers come with superb responsibility.
I say you got 2 hands so you can only take so much. those cannot take drop it. Why need to squeeze yourself for a miserable 30k or 40k grant when this is peanuts in years to come.

Compromise on your wedding as a wedding need not be 200k ?
Compromise on your 3/5l sports car and you save 200k easily and get yourself a 100k car ?

Dun make it sounds we are pressuring kids these days to wise up and eat biscults rather than daily restaurant. You name it i being through. It is not easy and i am not forcing my mindset on TS or anyone here. it is their life.

I repeat myself for 2 elections and more i have waited for Govt / HDB to increase the ceiling but each time they rise is kacang puteh ... so why wait ?

Time and body waits for no man. Be a man.

Dun be telling me ts and wife to be is this and that and we need to pity him ?
If he is a man, suck it up and move on. dun tell me stories. there are billions of stories out there. We dun owe you a living.

ministers said 1k can get hdb so i dare him to take it up see if you eat proper rice or eat bread daily or need to come find me... eh brother treat me lunch can ? or brother can i take a stick of your cigi ? mosquitoes everywhere ... I can be generous but dun treat us as payers for your mistakes.

4 room ? go ahead and buy no issue ... but why not 3 room ? minister say no need space to make babies.

Enough is said here i wish everybody good luck in your life.

I look at what i have i am very happy.

ARE YOU HAPPY ?
 
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If i am in his shoes, i will be very humble. at his age, the income i have is already above what TS has n i will never ask grant because i have exceeding the ceiling then.

Unless i quit my job and be what many suggest a security guard for 1 year or so then i can get a grant for the so call "get rich with a flip scheme"

what is birth right entitlement is all bull

If you read in between my lines in all my post, I spell it already. Just go for the miserable grant and you are tied down. No terms and condition ? free money? With his 15% projection, why need to stoop so low ? Just go into the market as HEADHUNTED, make a name and then get more income. I am very sure he can own a private condo so.

Spiderman say with superpowers come with superb responsibility.
I say you got 2 hands so you can only take so much. those cannot take drop it. Why need to squeeze yourself for a miserable 30k or 40k grant when this is peanuts in years to come.

Compromise on your wedding as a wedding need not be 200k ?
Compromise on your 3/5l sports car and you save 200k easily and get yourself a 100k car ?

Dun make it sounds we are pressuring kids these days to wise up and eat biscults rather than daily restaurant. You name it i being through. It is not easy and i am not forcing my mindset on TS or anyone here. it is their life.

I repeat myself for 2 elections and more i have waited for Govt / HDB to increase the ceiling but each time they rise is kacang puteh ... so why wait ?

Time and body waits for no man. Be a man.

Dun be telling me ts and wife to be is this and that and we need to pity him ?
If he is a man, suck it up and move on. dun tell me stories. there are billions of stories out there. We dun owe you a living.

ministers said 1k can get hdb so i dare him to take it up see if you eat proper rice or eat bread daily or need to come find me... eh brother treat me lunch can ? or brother can i take a stick of your cigi ? mosquitoes everywhere ... I can be generous but dun treat us as payers for your mistakes.

4 room ? go ahead and buy no issue ... but why not 3 room ? minister say no need space to make babies.

Enough is said here i wish everybody good luck in your life.

I look at what i have i am very happy.

ARE YOU HAPPY ?
Why are u so worked up?
 
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Sorry boss england too strong ..

wahaha

Haha I think he still pissed off with TS overly confident dreams and projections about EC la.

Other than that I think its quite clear TS intention is to check if he would be eligible for grant because no grant = no downpayment = no flat for him cause he not working yet.

Honestly I also feel TS is painting too rosy a picture of his future. No one knows what's gonna happen and nothing is guaranteed nowadays.

TS, your partner also not young. Planning to have kids soon before your so becomes high risk pregnancy ? If yes, Scully jackpot come twins how? Kids will be another hole your $$$ will go to. If got kids might wanna have car ( also for elderly parents). Another hole in your pocket These are all very real issues you have to consider. Personally I don't see the draw of living in a condo. Don't over leverage yourself and commit yourself to too much debt that you cannot afford now.
 

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Haha I think he still pissed off with TS overly confident dreams and projections about EC la.

Other than that I think its quite clear TS intention is to check if he would be eligible for grant because no grant = no downpayment = no flat for him cause he not working yet.

Honestly I also feel TS is painting too rosy a picture of his future. No one knows what's gonna happen and nothing is guaranteed nowadays.

TS, your partner also not young. Planning to have kids soon before your so becomes high risk pregnancy ? If yes, Scully jackpot come twins how? Kids will be another hole your $$$ will go to. If got kids might wanna have car ( also for elderly parents). Another hole in your pocket These are all very real issues you have to consider. Personally I don't see the draw of living in a condo. Don't over leverage yourself and commit yourself to too much debt that you cannot afford now.

Just go for 3 room .. eat humble pie.

people see me carry bag, drag my dirty shoes ... no problem ...

See car complain sale lady no money buy
Sales lady see me dirty shoes - eh gucci shoe where can say no money buy...

I see left see right also cannot see it is guci. No logo some more.

What is life ? Purpose of life ?

Chase rainbow ? You got the dream ?

Good lah ... dun chase till owe alot of money and ask other for free lunch or kopi or cigi leh ... see fair share. go drink still you to pay ...

hope one dun falls into this category.

Like i said we human need basic things only ... the rest extra is bonus. No big head wear big cap. get a 3 room to start.

Grant ? what grant do you want ? Max grant ? stay near parents grant ? so die die both you and your parents cannot sell before your MOP leh. ARe u a selfish son ?

Huh ? no non mature estate and want stay HDB in suntec area ? huh ? no money want grant & still wana stay atas area there ? on what basis ? Big stick ? show people you can ? IF YOU CAN dun take grant ... if you cant, eat humble pie.

I am very chill but i need to talk sense into people these days.

They want everything but they themself dun piss and see themself whether if they are reasonable or not. Be a human and not a dream chaser xiao
 
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