Loan Shark Harassment and how to stop it - Part 2

[green72]

FINALLY!! After 2 weeks of changing to a new number, he sent a Bangla guy to my door!

He knocked & pressed doorbell alot of times. I managed to take a video. He actually VC the LS while he is here right infront of my door, LS asked him to check if there's any shoe! I panicked as i was alone at home. My neighbours door are open. I called my spouse who is working, he told me to call 999 st8 away but i told him im shivering. Cause i even heard è LS voice instructing him!

I looked through è peep hole until he moved away but about 10mins later he still pressed my doorbell! Means he is still lingering outside my house, i quickly called 999.

Police arrived about 15-20mins later. When they are talking to me only about 5mins? That bangla came back walking to my house! N there he got questioned! After police talked to him & took his statement, è police told me that guy is 1 of è victim too. That LS told him my house is "his admin house", to collect his loan money from me! No wonder he still linger around & waited! They let him off as nothing was missing/damage & they gave him a stern warning to cut all CTC with that LS reminding him if he listen & do all these again, he will go jail.

Police took my statement & advised to monitor. If anything did happen again, call 999 again. If received any threats, just monitor first.

Anyone experienced like me?? Like after this incident, what will they resort to next??

Not sure if that bangla will report to that LS or not that police is involved already. Sigh-

After all these years, same MO. Tsk, tsk, tsk.

For me, LS sent Lalamove guys to "collect" stuff from me while they VC with the LS in front of my door.

The LS actually have zero army of runners, only unsuspecting victims. They talk as if they are in control.

We'll show them that they are powerless.

I take pleasure learning each and every LS losing money though sadly it's a harrowing experience for victims.

Just continue with the advice given from this thread and SPF and u will be free.

 

[learningmylesson]

Bangla report police even better. If the police are involved, isn't it even more beneficial to you?

Remember, trying to appease the LS isn't key here, let the police help you. Don't accede, accommodate or accept anything the LS ask for or from you. Just fugging ghost them and keep calling police.

Do not fear them. They're humji *******s

If that bangla told LS that police came just now & his details are all taken, will they get more angry & resort to more harrass or will they somehow slow down? Sigh.

So far LS have yet to reach my new number. Meaning there's no way he can get through me directly..for now?

Wonder what is his next step after today.

 

[learningmylesson]

After all these years, same MO. Tsk, tsk, tsk.

For me, LS sent Lalamove guys to "collect" stuff from me while they VC with the LS in front of my door.

The LS actually have zero army of runners, only unsuspecting victims. They talk as if they are in control.

We'll show them that they are powerless.

I take pleasure learning each and every LS losing money though sadly it's a harrowing experience for victims.

Just continue with the advice given from this thread and SPF and u will be free.

May I know if Lalamove is their first harrass to u? Did u reported st8 away like me too? & what did they do next after è Lalamove?
Sorry for è qstns.

Very worrying now..incase LS engaged another person to watch over my house movements.

 

[Babablacksheeps]

FINALLY!! After 2 weeks of changing to a new number, he sent a Bangla guy to my door!

He knocked & pressed doorbell alot of times. I managed to take a video. He actually VC the LS while he is here right infront of my door, LS asked him to check if there's any shoe! I panicked as i was alone at home. My neighbours door are open. I called my spouse who is working, he told me to call 999 st8 away but i told him im shivering. Cause i even heard è LS voice instructing him!

I looked through è peep hole until he moved away but about 10mins later he still pressed my doorbell! Means he is still lingering outside my house, i quickly called 999.

Police arrived about 15-20mins later. When they are talking to me only about 5mins? That bangla came back walking to my house! N there he got questioned! After police talked to him & took his statement, è police told me that guy is 1 of è victim too. That LS told him my house is "his admin house", to collect his loan money from me! No wonder he still linger around & waited! They let him off as nothing was missing/damage & they gave him a stern warning to cut all CTC with that LS reminding him if he listen & do all these again, he will go jail.

Police took my statement & advised to monitor. If anything did happen again, call 999 again. If received any threats, just monitor first.

Anyone experienced like me?? Like after this incident, what will they resort to next??

Not sure if that bangla will report to that LS or not that police is involved already. Sigh-

This happens to me couple times of being the boss and LS will instruct to see shoes, see any elderly or kids too.

First 1-2 times, youll get used. Else will send people up. After 3x times or so, you'll get use

 

[learningmylesson]

This happens to me couple times of being the boss and LS will instruct to see shoes, see any elderly or kids too.

First 1-2 times, youll get used. Else will send people up. After 3x times or so, you'll get use

U mean they never stop sending people to your door until now? Even after u have reported to è police? 🫥

 

[green72]

May I know if Lalamove is their first harrass to u? Did u reported st8 away like me too? & what did they do next after è Lalamove?
Sorry for è qstns.

Very worrying now..incase LS engaged another person to watch over my house movements.

Lalamove was their 1st and last. Yes, SPF came as fast as they can. Like u, I was so afraid and called only like after 10mins. Lalamove guys left b4 SPF arrived.
LS instructed the LLM guys to take pic of my door and used it to show me via WS to harass. More pics where taken of my kitchen window from ground floor. All as a tool to harass.
The next few weeks LS harass my office number and family numbers. Lesser as the weeks goes by.
For weeks SPF patrol my corridor/door. Though no more harassment, took me months to calm down to movements outside my house.

Stay calm, it will end. Just dial 999 if harassment happens outside ur unit.

 

[SIM37_]

If that bangla told LS that police came just now & his details are all taken, will they get more angry & resort to more harrass or will they somehow slow down? Sigh.

So far LS have yet to reach my new number. Meaning there's no way he can get through me directly..for now?

Wonder what is his next step after today.

They angry or tulan isn't your problem. Just ghost them. Never respond to them OK!

 

[learningmylesson]

Lalamove was their 1st and last. Yes, SPF came as fast as they can. Like u, I was so afraid and called only like after 10mins. Lalamove guys left b4 SPF arrived.
LS instructed the LLM guys to take pic of my door and used it to show me via WS to harass. More pics where taken of my kitchen window from ground floor. All as a tool to harass.
The next few weeks LS harass my office number and family numbers. Lesser as the weeks goes by.
For weeks SPF patrol my corridor/door. Though no more harassment, took me months to calm down to movements outside my house.

Stay calm, it will end. Just dial 999 if harassment happens outside ur unit.

May i know if you provided your family numbers to the LS or they managed to retrieve it all by themselves?

I didn't give any of my family numbers to them, only my spouse number but till now he didn't receive any WA/text/call from the LS.

Office phone i am not so worried as i am handling the phone, i can tackle that.

I think for now i can brace as per normal, only worried if they tracked my family members & go their houses instead.

 

[learningmylesson]

They angry or tulan isn't your problem. Just ghost them. Never respond to them OK!

Yup, will cont' to ghost him.

Just wonder what is his next steps for me to be prepared of.. Sigh~

 

[soyabeana]

Exciting drama over the weekend, i missed it out during the weekend.

But good job for getting SPF involved! You did a good job informing the police.

Understand it is the first time you encounter this, and you still did it in the end. So keep it up!

 

[learningmylesson]

Exciting drama over the weekend, i missed it out during the weekend.

But good job for getting SPF involved! You did a good job informing the police.

Understand it is the first time you encounter this, and you still did it in the end. So keep it up!

More of a scary weekend for me as this guy suddenly appeared.. After 2 WEEKS of silent!? And i am alone at home! Only good thing is my girls slept over my parents on Fri night + my neighbours door are both wide opened when he came. So coincident ?

Lucky me that guy still comes back when SPF is with me but lucky him too that SPF let him off!

I am monitoring my office phone starting from today, let's see if anything arise next..

Whats making me wonder is why he took 2 weeks when he knew my address.. I thought he don't have/lost it hence the "no show".

I read through this forum majority LS start harassments after 1-4 days of ghosting them? To add on, he have yet to ctc my spouse also until now + the fact that he didn't st8 away deploy runner to vandalize/damage my place area?

 

[soyabeana]

More of a scary weekend for me as this guy suddenly appeared.. After 2 WEEKS of silent!? And i am alone at home! Only good thing is my girls slept over my parents on Fri night + my neighbours door are both wide opened when he came. So coincident ?

Lucky me that guy still comes back when SPF is with me but lucky him too that SPF let him off!

I am monitoring my office phone starting from today, let's see if anything arise next..

Whats making me wonder is why he took 2 weeks when he knew my address.. I thought he don't/lost it hence the "no show".

I read through this forum majority LS start harassments after 1-4 days of ghosting them? To add on, he have yet to ctc my spouse also until now + the fact that he didn't st8 away deploy runner to vandalize/damage my place area?

very interesting hor, this might be the first case which I don't think any of the victims here experienced something similar like yours

Would be good if you can provide more info for this coming week.

If the bangala knows your address, means not all information were lost! I wonder what would be their next step

 

[learningmylesson]

very interesting hor, this might be the first case which I don't think any of the victims here experienced something similar like yours

Would be good if you can provide more info for this coming week.

If the bangala knows your address, means not all information were lost! I wonder what would be their next step

Very unusual = Very scary to expect

 

[green72]

May i know if you provided your family numbers to the LS or they managed to retrieve it all by themselves?

I didn't give any of my family numbers to them, only my spouse number but till now he didn't receive any WA/text/call from the LS.

Office phone i am not so worried as i am handling the phone, i can tackle that.

I think for now i can brace as per normal, only worried if they tracked my family members & go their houses instead.

I stupidly gave them as NOK contact. Unless you provide them, they are not skillfull to hack.

At most they look up ur SocMed accts.

 

[green72]

More of a scary weekend for me as this guy suddenly appeared.. After 2 WEEKS of silent!? And i am alone at home! Only good thing is my girls slept over my parents on Fri night + my neighbours door are both wide opened when he came. So coincident ?

Lucky me that guy still comes back when SPF is with me but lucky him too that SPF let him off!

I am monitoring my office phone starting from today, let's see if anything arise next..

Whats making me wonder is why he took 2 weeks when he knew my address.. I thought he don't/lost it hence the "no show".

I read through this forum majority LS start harassments after 1-4 days of ghosting them? To add on, he have yet to ctc my spouse also until now + the fact that he didn't st8 away deploy runner to vandalize/damage my place area?

Maybe he have very little to one victim?

Or none of the other victims willing to do the job.

Or best case, ALL his victim ghost him. Making hard to impossible for him to harass you.

 

[learningmylesson]

I stupidly gave them as NOK contact. Unless you provide them, they are not skillfull to hack.

At most they look up ur SocMed accts.

Relieved to hear as i didn't gave any of mine except for my spouse.

My SocMed accs i have deactivated before i even started to ghost him. I hope he couldn't dig further about me.. Haiz~

I can say now i am only worried if he somehow manage to ctc my family & harrass them instead.

 

[learningmylesson]

Maybe he have very little to one victim?

Or none of the other victims willing to do the job.

Or best case, ALL his victim ghost him. Making hard to impossible for him to harass you.

He sounded so fierce on his last WA text to me after he knew that i blocked his main number.
"i confirm do until u come back find me one leh" Still ringing in my head . . .

And he ever showed me a "painted door" which he got his runner to do to 1 of his victim for no payment. That was when 1 of his number was blocked by WA. So he so-called "explained" to me.

Haizz..."wonder weeks" coming ahead of me now.....

 

[soyabeana]

He sounded so fierce on his last WA text to me after he knew that i blocked his main number.
"i confirm do until u come back find me one leh" Still ringing in my head . . .

And he ever showed me a "painted door" which he got his runner to do to 1 of his victim for no payment. That was when 1 of his number was blocked by WA. So he so-called "explained" to me.

Haizz..."wonder weeks" coming ahead of me now.....

From the very first day you chose to ignore and ghost him, it was clear you gathered the strength to take that step. I imagine that was one of the most overwhelming experiences you’ve had so far.

Now, after two weeks of handling everything, including the courage to file a police report against the person who visited your unit, you’ve already made significant progress in overcoming this!

As you move forward with any lingering uncertainty or anxiety, remember the resilience you’ve shown over the past two weeks. Use that strength to face whatever comes next.

You’ve come so far already, so there’s no need to worry now. You've got this!

 

[learningmylesson]

From the very first day you chose to ignore and ghost him, it was clear you gathered the strength to take that step. I imagine that was one of the most overwhelming experiences you’ve had so far.

Now, after two weeks of handling everything, including the courage to file a police report against the person who visited your unit, you’ve already made significant progress in overcoming this!

As you move forward with any lingering uncertainty or anxiety, remember the resilience you’ve shown over the past two weeks. Use that strength to face whatever comes next.

You’ve come so far already, so there’s no need to worry now. You've got this!

Thank you..for your endless comfort words & advises despite us knowing each other. I truly appreciate it.

I will cont' to overcome whatever he is having in store for me until all these pass through..

Bottom line, it's my mistake..it's only right for me to face the music.

 

[green72]

He sounded so fierce on his last WA text to me after he knew that i blocked his main number.
"i confirm do until u come back find me one leh" Still ringing in my head . . .

And he ever showed me a "painted door" which he got his runner to do to 1 of his victim for no payment. That was when 1 of his number was blocked by WA. So he so-called "explained" to me.

Haizz..."wonder weeks" coming ahead of me now.....

No worries.

He sounds fierce becoz he has been practising saying it to too many victims that it sounds convincing. He have becomes so good at it that you feel it's for real. We may never know if after the threat, he laugh at you for being scared. Pls remember this is his specialized skillset. Nothing beyond that.

But don't worry, verbal threats only harm your feelings.

Invert those fears to anger and you will pull through the mental torment.

I'm convince u and family will be safe as this is Singapore, land of many SPF CCTV.