My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[Jaylim123]

@Jaylim123
Can answer these questions mah? I’m curious

Because $40 is twice the price of $10-20 and doing this repeatedly is a huge financial burden

 

[Encouragesome1]

Why u anything also can find fault one?

Wah piang

He gives me the iAmangrybird styled of typing every other day… like angry with everyone

 

[Monstruo^]

Why u anything also can find fault one?

Wah piang

I think he and TS can date each other. The vibe and thought process sibei match sia.

 

[Encouragesome1]

When will one become wizard ?

 

[Sumimasen]

Laugh till tear

 

[glarerder]

He likes to have the last say. Let him be bah.
But I think if the girl unhappy, she would have left after paying the bill.

She's obviously thinking of how to leave lah. Ts going toilet is the best opportunity.

 

[glarerder]

I think he and TS can date each other. The vibe and thought process sibei match sia.

@TiedInsurer , @CaptchaCheebeh when they can't talk sense, they claim its orientation issue.

 

[Encouragesome1]

Because $40 is twice the price of $10-20 and doing this repeatedly is a huge financial burden

Hmm didi dating is ex in sg . That’s why some people migrate to Thailand or Bali and start digital nomad life.

Everyone want decent wages cos our one room rent cos 650-1k
One caipng easily 4.50-7.50, one restaurant meal easily 2x-4x , how to be low cost in sg?

Frankly I think being friendless and single is most money saving mode la. Rontdate anyone, no outings everyday eat at home self cook cheapest.

 

[Nevereatrice]

Hmm didi dating is ex in sg . That’s why some people migrate to Thailand or Bali and start digital nomad life.

Everyone want decent wages cos our one room rent cos 650-1k
One caipng easily 4.50-7.50, one restaurant meal easily 2x-4x , how to be low cost in sg?

Frankly I think being friendless and single is most money saving mode la. Rontdate anyone, no outings everyday eat at home self cook cheapest.

 

[glarerder]

Why u anything also can find fault one?

Wah piang

Claiming that the girl also bears some responsibility also find fault? It takes 2 hands to clap. If a relationship has issue, it's not a matter of only one party. Currently it's about mismatch of expectation in dating. Both bears responsibility for this outcome.

 

[glarerder]

He likes to have the last say. Let him be bah.
But I think if the girl unhappy, she would have left after paying the bill.

And you totally disregarded the fact that she could have communicated about the meeting before it happens. It's like saying the girl bears no responsibility in this outcome happening.

 

[Monstruo^]

Because $40 is twice the price of $10-20 and doing this repeatedly is a huge financial burden

So if she went on second date with you, you will look for $10-$20 place to eat.

Then you will pretend to pay her share first, and you will observe if she will pay you back?

If she didn’t pay you back the $10-$20, what will you do?

 

[bochup84]

She's obviously thinking of how to leave lah. Ts going toilet is the best opportunity.

Eh I would think the best way to leave is to pay and say, hey nice meeting you bye! and part ways outside the restaurant. In fact, I find that she follow to the toilet abit funny.

 

[Scarlet Tea]

Smth u did or said must have creeped her out to leave without telling u. Somemore u asked her to pay her share that one auto red flag for her

 

[bochup84]

And you totally disregarded the fact that she could have communicated about the meeting before it happens. It's like saying the girl bears no responsibility in this outcome happening.

I dunno about you but I really never had people discussing who pay and how to pay before a meeting one.
And I dunno what 'responsibility' you want the girl to bear? She already responsible for her share and she has the right to leave when she wants to. It is not like she left early on a job and you need to call HR?

 

[Sumimasen]

Claiming that the girl also bears some responsibility also find fault? It takes 2 hands to clap. If a relationship has issue, it's not a matter of only one party. Currently it's about mismatch of expectation in dating. Both bears responsibility for this outcome.

How to havn't meet up talk about money? So cut throat and practical..

If me will Sian half forget about the meetup.

U dun think so much if a ger rly serious in looking for a spouse not going for free meal, she will pay if the guy suggest go dutch upon the meetup. Be it she finds the guy can continue or not will still pay up her share.

 

[Jaylim123]

Eh I would think the best way to leave is to pay and say, hey nice meeting you bye! and part ways outside the restaurant. In fact, I find that she follow to the toilet abit funny.

She probably no courage to say it in front of me physically

 

[glarerder]

How to havn't meet up talk about money? So cut throat and practical..

If me will Sian half forget about the meetup.

Talk about where to go, assess the food prices if she'd be ok to pay if they'd to go dutch. Etc..

 

[glarerder]

I dunno about you but I really never had people discussing who pay and how to pay before a meeting one.
And I dunno what 'responsibility' you want the girl to bear? She already responsible for her share and she has the right to leave when she wants to. It is not like she left early on a job and you need to call HR?

Talk about where to go, assess the food prices if she'd be ok to pay if they'd to go dutch. Etc..

 

[Monstruo^]

Eh I would think the best way to leave is to pay and say, hey nice meeting you bye! and part ways outside the restaurant. In fact, I find that she follow to the toilet abit funny.

I think their scenario is after they left the restaurant, TS said he wanna go toilet. So she was like okay. Then she left before he was done lor. Don’t think she followed him to the toilet lah haha. Maybe the route to the exit ish same way to the toilet also so she just went along. She was already giving face liao.

Yah if don’t wanna see that person again, best way is to part way after coming out of restaurant. Once one leg step out of the restaurant, jitao say: Hey was nice meeting you. I gotta go now. Bye!