My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[glarerder]

Eh I would think the best way to leave is to pay and say, hey nice meeting you bye! and part ways outside the restaurant. In fact, I find that she follow to the toilet abit funny.

When you feel uncomfortable to continue spending time with someone, you'd think of excuses to leave and waiting outside toilet for him presents her with the best opportunity. Just send a message and then cao. You don't even have to deal with the reply cos it's not face to face. That's why it's obvious she felt negative (e.g. unhappy) about this meetup.

 

[bochup84]

She probably no courage to say it in front of me physically

Now you piqued my curiosity about your date. Now share abit describe her abit can?

 

[firestyle]

My thought is 99 % won’t, u wait other ppl to like you then they might jio you. But if you overly geygao with everyone in your life right, maybe only yr mom will jio u

Even mummy bear will expect her grown up son to treat her from time to time.

 

[Monstruo^]

So if she went on second date with you, you will look for $10-$20 place to eat.

Then you will pretend to pay her share first, and you will observe if she will pay you back?

If she didn’t pay you back the $10-$20, what will you do?

@Jaylim123 How ah

 

[Sumimasen]

When you feel uncomfortable to continue spending time with someone, you'd think of excuses to leave and waiting outside toilet for him presents her with the best opportunity. Just send a message and then cao. You don't even have to deal with the reply cos it's not face to face. That's why it's obvious she felt negative (e.g. unhappy) about this meetup.

TS's fault made the ger feel uncomfortable wanna quickly zao

 

[bochup84]

When you feel uncomfortable to continue spending time with someone, you'd think of excuses to leave and waiting outside toilet for him presents her with the best opportunity. Just send a message and then cao. You don't even have to deal with the reply cos it's not face to face. That's why it's obvious she felt negative (e.g. unhappy) about this meetup.

Yes ... so, what's wrong with that?

 

[glarerder]

TS's fault made the ger feel uncomfortable wanna quickly zao

If she probe further about the meeting, maybe she wouldn't even have to meet ts in the first place. Don't put yourself totally on the guy to decide if you'd feel comfortable or not.

 

[glarerder]

Yes ... so, what's wrong with that?

Means you do agree she was unhappy...

 

[Monstruo^]

Now you piqued my curiosity about your date. Now share abit describe her abit can?

Best if she opens a thread here or on Reddit to tell us the full story.

 

[Otaku007]

First date u ask to split bill....
U know how sian girls bo
Must act gentleman leh

 

[bochup84]

Means you do agree she was unhappy...

huh? I don't get the logic. Can't she be okay and still leave cos no sparks?

 

[Jaylim123]

Now you piqued my curiosity about your date. Now share abit describe her abit can?

Quite pretty, i would rate her about 7/10. Nice and pleasant voice, feel her personality not bad also.

 

[Encouragesome1]

Even mummy bear will expect her grown up son to treat her from time to time.

Yea every parent got expectations for their kid , only some bigger some smaller expectations

 

[glarerder]

huh? I don't get the logic. Can't she be okay and still leave cos no sparks?

Yes she's not happy with the outcome so she left. Even without a proper face to face good bye.

 

[Jaylim123]

@Jaylim123 How ah

See whether she will auto paynow me back lor

 

[tmster]

So now I try my luck and jio her again lah, see whether she will accept anot.

Jaylim123

With the talent of Jay Chou and the humour of Steven Lim, getting girls should be as easy as 123.
You can do it.

 

[Monstruo^]

See whether she will auto paynow me back lor

If you paid $10-$20 meal first, but she didn’t auto pay you back leh, so what will you do if she didn’t?

 

[Jaylim123]

If you paid $10-$20 meal first, but she didn’t auto pay you back leh, so what will you do if she didn’t?

Reflects badly on her lor if it was her turn to treat

 

[Sumimasen]

Quite pretty, i would rate her about 7/10. Nice and pleasant voice, feel her personality not bad also.

Dun text her let her find someone else

 

[Big Chicken]

Jaylim123

With the talent of Jay Chou and the humour of Steven Lim, getting girls should be as easy as 123.
You can do it.

This guy also called Jay leh.