My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[Monstruo^]

knn $24 is cheap until cannot still split

$24 example here ish for two pax somemore wor. So $12 per pax. Bro I’m doing some testing here with TS. Hahaha.

7/10 girl for $10 meal treat he cannot accept, cannot see open.

8/10 girl for $12 meal he ok.
Erm… Maybe 8/10 girl I should set $20. But I thought +1 rating for additional $10 he may heart pain mah.

 

[Big Chicken]

Poor people also have the right to date and find love.

Yes, but don't go in expecting to date 7/10 or Saika Kawakita lookalike.

They should just be content dating baby elephant with hypertension problem.

 

[Big Chicken]

So this means hor, the solution for your problem is, in future, you just swipe the 8/10 and above. Then you won't have this split bill or don't split bill problem, ok?

Easier to just loiter around KOI and wait for the dinobu to come out for their tea break.

 

[TiedInsurer]

Yes, but don't go in expecting to date 7/10 or Saika Kawakita lookalike.

They should just be content dating baby elephant with hypertension problem.

Did he say if the girl chio or not? Thread too long i dun wanna dig haha.

 

[tellyphone007]

You are the red flag. She better run as fast as she can.

 

[Monstruo^]

We don't know his situation. From how heavily he reacted to the $40 (iirc he said "$40 a lot leh?!"), might be possible that he is low income. In which case i won't fault him for harping that much on $40. Poor people also have the right to date and find love.

What i will fault him for, is going on a $40/pax date when $40 is "a lot" in his opinion. Who does that? lmao...

No need to defend him lah. Simi low income. If you follow his replies and story, he was the one who spent time with the girl to choose the place and menu beforehand, and he did the final decision on the place. If $40 welly expensive, why choose.

Don’t say $40, he did not even bear to part with $10 liao for that date.

 

[Big Chicken]

Did he say if the girl chio or not? Thread too long i dun wanna dig haha.

He said 7/10.

Want get in chiobu pants but want gian png about date bill.

 

[TiedInsurer]

1st Class Honours NUS Comp Science.

$40 expensive ..... please

Huh serious? I thought maybe he work blue collar job earning $10/hr or something. $40 would be like 4 hrs of hard work so no surprise if he dun wanna pay.

When he graduate? Recently fresh grad unemployment rate beri high. Was like 20% since 2023 last i saw.

 

[Monstruo^]

Did he say if the girl chio or not? Thread too long i dun wanna dig haha.

No need to dig also lah. The thread damn boliao and childish hahaha! Reeks of chao sng smell.

He said that girl ish 7/10, quite pretty, voice nice nice simi simi. Nice personality.

But when I asked him further, he said if they have a second date, the meal price will be $10-$20, and he will pretend to pay first. Apparently he ish not willing to fork out $10 for a 7/10 girl.

So what do you think?

 

[TiedInsurer]

No need to defend him lah. Simi low income. If you follow his replies and story, he was the one who spent time with the girl to choose the place and menu beforehand, and he did the final decision on the place. If $40 welly expensive, why choose.

Don’t say $40, he did not even bear to part with $10 liao for that date.

Tbf it's his first date haha. Ppl do a lot of stupid shiet when they have no experience. My first date i also tried to bring my date to a $100/pax restaurant. I would slap my old self now for that if i could.

 

[bochup84]

Easier to just loiter around KOI and wait for the dinobu to come out for their tea break.

We solve one problem at a time. He can start another thread.

 

[tellyphone007]

He said 7/10.

Want get in chiobu pants but want gian png about date bill.

He say you believe?

His standards so low... $40 also see no open.. U think his standard is high?

 

[XiaoChilli]

Hotel81 is very serious already

What abt rom lol

 

[XiaoChilli]

atas enough places with romantic ambience

Not sian ah lol

 

[TiedInsurer]

No need to dig also lah. The thread damn boliao and childish hahaha! Reeks of chao sng smell.

He said that girl ish 7/10, quite pretty, voice nice nice simi simi. Nice personality.

But when I asked him further, he said if they have a second date, the meal price will be $10-$20, and he will pretend to pay first. Apparently he ish not willing to fork out $10 for a 7/10 girl.

So what do you think?

Either very low income.
Or very miser.
Or have very strong feelings on enforcing equality (it's not the dollar value, but the principle)

 

[bochup84]

Huh serious? I thought maybe he work blue collar job earning $10/hr or something. $40 would be like 4 hrs of hard work so no surprise if he dun wanna pay.

When he graduate? Recently fresh grad unemployment rate beri high. Was like 20% since 2023 last i saw.

Actually the com sci major kinda explains everything.

 

[TiedInsurer]

If I keep waiting for her to jio me out idk when it will happen and whether will happen anot

Instead of waiting around, go hit the gym.
If you are reasonably good looking and have a nice bod, the girls will come on their own. Reminder that Titus Low earned about $50k/mth from his OF account. Women are thirsty too, though they often pretend that they aren't.

 

[Sumimasen]

So this means hor, the solution for your problem is, in future, you just swipe the 8/10 and above. Then you won't have this split bill or don't split bill problem, ok?

Cannot must be 10/10 then he gum wan to pay. But hor 10/10 won't swipe him wor.

He can slowly wait till he won&old...Simi wonyoung

 

[Monstruo^]

Tbf it's his first date haha. Ppl do a lot of stupid shiet when they have no experience. My first date i also tried to bring my date to a $100/pax restaurant. I would slap my old self now for that if i could.

There is nothing right or wrong about going to a $0 or a $10 or a $100 place for first date.

It is about your perspective and EQ and how you handle the situation and girl. No need to wear big hat if your head is tiny, but also dont make the whole damn thing until like wah if I paid for this meal I die die need to get this and that back in return the next round if not I will lose out and my life will be doomed knn like damn calculative and see no open.

 

[K202020K]

I brought a girl to raffles place for our first date. We had lunch at a chinese restaurant but I asked to split the bill instead of me paying everything. She said ok and she paynow me right on the spot.

After we finished eating I had to go to the toilet so she waited for me outside. 5 mins later after I came out I couldnt find her so I checked my phone and she said that she had to leave because of an emergency.

how should I continue from here? Do I still have chance for second date?

Bro ... you're a goner ... how can you be so calculative and miserly my friend? In life, no money no honey ... you don't know this law of the universe? Give generously and you will receive in abundance. Your parents didn't teach you well on gaining the good will of others?