My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[Mephist0pheLes]

1st Class Honours NUS Comp Science.

$40 expensive ..... please

wah serious?

i tot TS is some low wage worker

 

[Monstruo^]

Cannot must be 10/10 then he gum wan to pay. But hor 10/10 won't swipe him wor.

He can slowly wait till he won&old...Simi wonyoung

Even if 10/10 girl, he also buay kum guan to pay one. He said $50-$120 he ok right, when it really happens, and after the first date, every night before he sleeps, he is going to think about how he gonna get back the $120.

His threshold I guess ish only at first date. Subsequent dates he expects a return treat WITH equal pricing. Mai siao siao.

 

[glarerder]

Bro ... you're a goner ... how can you be so calculative and miserly my friend? In life, no money no honey ... you don't know this law of the universe? Give generously and you will receive in abundance. Your parents didn't teach you well on gaining the good will of others?

The bad boys don't subscribe to that rule. And they get girls frequently

 

[Sumimasen]

Bro ... you're a goner ... how can you be so calculative and miserly my friend? In life, no money no honey ... you don't know this law of the universe? Give generously and you will receive in abundance. Your parents didn't teach you well on gaining the good will of others?

No lah ish Nus fault teach until student so frugal

 

[toolbox03]

We don't know his situation. From how heavily he reacted to the $40 (iirc he said "$40 a lot leh?!"), might be possible that he is low income. In which case i won't fault him for harping that much on $40. Poor people also have the right to date and find love.

What i will fault him for, is going on a $40/pax date when $40 is "a lot" in his opinion. Who does that? lmao...

$40 too much just go jiak mcdonald mcsaver meal, still got drink and also consider restaurant

if not enough top up $1 for ice cream cone for each other to dip fries, who knows dip already got more sweet feeling for each other

 

[glarerder]

No lah ish Nus fault teach until student so frugal

Over there just join the vixen club can riao.

 

[PhantomOpera]

TS, don’t be disheartened. You sounded so inexperienced and hence, the many unkers, aunties, zeh zeh and kor kor here trying to help you.

If you have good vibes with your date, no harm ask her out again. If she agrees, you have a chance. This time, don’t choose such expensive place and offer to pay for the meal. Then see what comes after that lor. No need to be too bothered by thoughts like “what if she’s a gold digger” or “next time I must tank everything how”. Dating is about feeling, not accounting. So don’t jump ahead and worry about labels or worst-case scenarios. If it works, it works. If not, at least you tried.

 

[Glectrix]

I think if want to go Dutch beforehand give headsup.

 

[Chocoz]

Wake up your idea la TS

Save all the trouble, take your precious $2 bills and stuff 'em up where the sun doesn't shine!

 

[toolbox03]

$40/pax enough? ts got 1 for 1?

They got sell ee fu noodle for $20+, eat already wedding bells will ring very soon

 

[toolbox03]

1st Class Honours NUS Comp Science.

$40 expensive ..... please

Maybe FCH also fake news

 

[tuxguy]

No more update from TS? No guts to ask for second date?

 

[Monstruo^]

Maybe FCH also fake news

Another thread he said he listens to some 80s or 90s oldies. Seems like some 30-40s guy leh.

The FCH one I duno lah, never follow his threads. But got people say he ish the one who ish very proud of his NUS school and first class honour.

 

[ckt1978]

msg her again n check la.
how we know.
although chances low liao.

 

[Jaylim123]

Even if 10/10 girl, he also buay kum guan to pay one. He said $50-$120 he ok right, when it really happens, and after the first date, every night before he sleeps, he is going to think about how he gonna get back the $120.

His threshold I guess ish only at first date. Subsequent dates he expects a return treat WITH equal pricing. Mai siao siao.

If the girl looks like Jang Wonyoung, I dont mind paying

 

[Jaylim123]

No more update from TS? No guts to ask for second date?

I need to think and draft my message very carefully before sending

 

[quirkyhill]

Actually got people win ts
Here

'Shocked at how petty he was': Taiwanese YouTuber recounts date with Singaporean who wanted $1.50 back for teh peng​

https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/s...recounts-date-singaporean-who-wanted-150-back

 

[Monstruo^]

Actually got people win ts
Here

'Shocked at how petty he was': Taiwanese YouTuber recounts date with Singaporean who wanted $1.50 back for teh peng​

https://www.asiaone.com/lifestyle/s...recounts-date-singaporean-who-wanted-150-back

Oh this one last time I watched her channel a bit.

Eh why did you assume TS won’t ask for $1.50 back?

 

[Monstruo^]

I need to think and draft my message very carefully before sending

What you intend to write? You write sth first here and we edit. Lol

 

[quirkyhill]

Oh this one last time I watched her channel a bit.

Eh why did you assume TS won’t ask for $1.50 back?

till he does, this fella first place and ts second lol