Poor auntie
No funeral
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Think perhaps main reason no one is cause the family dysfunctional. If not, family and friends will visit one. Usually wedding and funeral then everyone will gather together. And catch up. If like that also no one, maybe should ask self what done to become so 凄凉.
Its reciprocal. Why people attend wedding and funeral. Also think nowadays many funerals are small because the family don't want it to be very big, never inform everyone. Only the immediate family and close friends. Thus control it within a certain numbers. If not, will have to reciprocate till hae-hae-chuan.
I cherish every single moment with my friends n family. I told them I will not hold a wake. Don be sad that one day they contact me n my family informs them that I already pass on...
My parents already said holding the simplest funeral for them. Don waste money. And my sister n I would not collect wreath.
Not true.
Give back when necessary.
But will collect money?
My 101 grandma who passed 3 years ago had spent at least 50k for 5 days wake + land burial + 100 days prayer at void deck + gong teck which cost 13k+
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Hubby auntie passed away never collected wreath. Even my parents of in law if pass away, we would not collect wreath even if friends, colleagues n relatives come. Being thoughtful to attend the wake buy does wan to cause burden as money is involved
Auntie passed away at assis..stayed about 1 month beside mount A hospital. Tat cost about 100k. 3 days funeral at Singapore casket @ lavander (first day late afternoon wake never set up, 2 nd day then family would attend the wake, 3 day cremated) . It cost 15k
Why ur grandma so grand but ur parents asking so simple?
Wreath is flowers and blanket.
Cash is white gold
Tat was my granny's wish n used her money. My late grand passed away 13 years ago had 7 days wake . With zichar served (5 dishes) to guests. Land burial + 100 days prayer ....total cost 50k+....I could tell U the person who make the most profits is the funeral company.
No one would ask for discount for funeral . Chinese is superstitious, asking discount is not good for the family. They said how much u also must pay.
How abt ur parents want how many days in future?
Meaning hubby auntie was quite well off?
buffybuffy
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You won’t know also. So why bother?Just engage a party to do some prayers to calm the soul of deceased then send for cremation
For me next time will be like that because nobody will care to come to my wake if there is one
So do u and hubby family give others condolences money?
So the soul will not wander around lost
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You sounds like a parlour guy.They are your parents... you don't want to do something for them? No feelings at all? If for yourself and no spouse no children... then... no siblings and no friends also?
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this concept is goodhttps://www.nea.gov.sg/media/news/n...gement-of-cremated-human-remains-in-singapore
is it this?
but i recall recently got news nea need to move the ashes from the garden ppl unhappy
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What's a parlour guy?
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