My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[Reborn]

It is what it is. Many simps, in their desperation, enable this behavior. Women see that men are willing to debase themselves just to get a wife, so they start demanding for, and actually getting, such husbands.

that desperated to get married?

 

[Encouragesome1]

I always prefer to meet anyone in an air conditioned environment..

If u at harbin u want ac meh?

 

[PhantomOpera]

Hawker ctr. If she dun wan, then go for next gal. Never spend too much on first date, this is my advice as a woman.

My advice as a woman - no go hawker centre as a first date
Weather so hot and if she dresses and does makeup, the sweat will spoil the date.
I think somewhere got ac and not too ex will be better

 

[saltydog]

jnv ts gotch date

 

[dambio]

No chance alr

 

[TiedInsurer]

that desperated to get married?

Easily influenced and brainwashed by wife lor. She feed him all the poison chicken soup that she found online, and because he cannot think for himself, he actually go and agree with it.

 

[bochup84]

If women offer to split bill on first date ish what?

Female here.

If women offer to split bill and then let the man pays when he insists --> got give chance. intent is confirmed when she says something like "alright then, I will treat the next round." it is a classic set up for the next date

If women offer to split bill and then refuses the man's persistence to pay, like die die want to pay her share --> usually is because she doesn't want to see this man again and don't want to feel obliged to, hence she will insist to pay.

 

[Jaylim123]

Female here.

If women offer to split bill and then let the man pays when he insists --> got give chance. intent is confirmed when she says something like "alright then, I will treat the next round." it is a classic set up for the next date

If women offer to split bill and then refuses the man's persistence to pay, like die die want to pay her share --> usually is because she doesn't want to see this man again and don't want to feel obliged to, hence she will insist to pay.

What about women who let the guy pay and never say thank you?

 

[Kia7200]

Female here.

If women offer to split bill and then let the man pays when he insists --> got give chance. intent is confirmed when she says something like "alright then, I will treat the next round." it is a classic set up for the next date

If women offer to split bill and then refuses the man's persistence to pay, like die die want to pay her share --> usually is because she doesn't want to see this man again and don't want to feel obliged to, hence she will insist to pay.

Maybe that guy also dont want meet her again

She totally diff from the dating app pics, requested to go to a ex restaurant n ordered many expensive food then topic is abt me me me

U think that guy happy to pay or want to meet her again. Ask her pay her share and dont let her think all guys r robert.

 

[uncle_josh]

I brought a girl to raffles place for our first date. We had lunch at a chinese restaurant but I asked to split the bill instead of me paying everything. She said ok and she paynow me right on the spot.

After we finished eating I had to go to the toilet so she waited for me outside. 5 mins later after I came out I couldnt find her so I checked my phone and she said that she had to leave because of an emergency.

how should I continue from here? Do I still have chance for second date?

Looks like she often to this to her partner. Very Seasoned liao.

 

[1982-1994]

If women offer to split bill on first date ish what?

Maybe no more chance or testing on your generosity

 

[Lchlch]

I brought a girl to raffles place for our first date. We had lunch at a chinese restaurant but I asked to split the bill instead of me paying everything. She said ok and she paynow me right on the spot.

After we finished eating I had to go to the toilet so she waited for me outside. 5 mins later after I came out I couldnt find her so I checked my phone and she said that she had to leave because of an emergency.

how should I continue from here? Do I still have chance for second date?

Try call her n ask her out again.

 

[PhantomOpera]

Maybe that guy also dont want meet her again

She totally diff from the dating app pics, requested to go to a ex restaurant n ordered many expensive food then topic is abt me me me

U think that guy happy to pay or want to meet her again. Ask her pay her share and dont let her think all guys r robert.

For this type of women, agree to make her pay her share and don’t meet again

 

[bochup84]

What about women who let the guy pay and never say thank you?

Rude. Sister here will tell you never associate with rude people. It spills over to other areas in life. Bad energy.

 

[Jaylim123]

Rude

actually even if woman insist to pay and the guy dont allow, the woman can still paynow him after the date end mah. So nevertheless the woman can pay the guy even if he objects to it

 

[bochup84]

Maybe that guy also dont want meet her again

She totally diff from the dating app pics, requested to go to a ex restaurant n ordered many expensive food then topic is abt me me me

U think that guy happy to pay or want to meet her again. Ask her pay her share and dont let her think all guys r robert.

I don’t understand what you’re ranting on about. I was answering someone else’s qn about what it means if the woman offer to split the bill.

 

[bochup84]

actually even if woman insist to pay and the guy dont allow, the woman can still paynow him after the date end mah. So nevertheless the woman can pay the guy even if he objects to it

Yes. That’s a signal she die die don’t want to see him again.

btw there are times when people use app or telegram only so no hp to paynow.

 

[toolbox03]

If women offer to split bill on first date ish what?

Means kthxbye

 

[TiedInsurer]

actually even if woman insist to pay and the guy dont allow, the woman can still paynow him after the date end mah. So nevertheless the woman can pay the guy even if he objects to it

If she's using the "alright then, I will treat the next round." line, and actually means it, then stop harping on it bro lol. There is no need to be so calculative with someone who you may spend the rest of your life with.

It's only when she says it, then ghosts you after and there's never a next round, that you know what kind of garbage she really is. At that point just take the L. You can't force her to pay unfortunately.

 

[Monstruo^]

If she's using the "alright then, I will treat the next round." line, and actually means it, then stop harping on it bro lol. There is no need to be so calculative with someone who you may spend the rest of your life with.

It's only when she says it, then ghosts you after and there's never a next round, that you know what kind of garbage she really is. At that point just take the L. You can't force her to pay unfortunately.

Lmao. He is worrying and asking questions about all the things that NEVER happen to him and have nth to do with him. Don’t you think so?

Because in the first place he is already afraid to incur losses liao. He said it himself.