My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[TiedInsurer]

first date should always go to the guy house, can cook together, during this activity, can test to see if she know how to cook, if she volunteers to wash dishes later, she score more point

Think a lot of girls will get scared away haha. What if you attack her? Not even official yet. Move a bit too fast already.

 

[tmster]

But it means she giving me chance to continue texting her

No point asking here, all BBFAs.

Msg her again if you really like her, if no reply means she's not interested, just move on. Its that simple, don't overthink.

 

[Monstruo^]

first date should always go to the guy house, can cook together, during this activity, can test to see if she know how to cook, if she volunteers to wash dishes later, she score more point

To even suggest this, I have a feeling you are a guy. 1000%.

All along I thought chiu ish female.

 

[Hello_Kitty]

if u all so scared of being scammed by girl for free meal on first date, u all can go places which is free and no need to eat.

eg go botanic garden to watch free symphony, a walk at the beach, go cycling , go SPCA see dogs

 

[lchua6]

Lol what is this logic? Then if woman let guy pay, does it mean "i accepted free stuff from you because i acknowledge that i am your girlfriend now so let's make this official on all our socials."

No right?

If a guy likes a girl, he would want to impress her by at least offering to treat her.
If a guy doesn't like the girl, some will just cut loss and ask the girl to split bill.
That's the logic. What is so diff to understand?

It is just like saying "You have already wasted my time, don't waste my money. Let's split bill and go home"

 

[TiedInsurer]

No point asking here, all BBFAs.

Msg her again if you really like her, if no reply means she's not interested, just move on. Its that simple, don't overthink.

@Jaylim123 tmster speaks truth. Don't play mind games and don't attempt to guess what she is thinking. Just ask her point blank and get your answers. Back when i dating i also gong gong make a lot of assumptions which all turned out to be untrue.

You know after my first date with my current-wife, i ask her if she was okay to have a second date as well, on the following weekend. You know what she reply? She said "We'll see." KNN i thought game over. So i crossed her out mentally and went back to my anime and games. Then following Friday rolls around and she whatsapped me asking why i went completely silent and if she did anything wrong.

Moral of the story: Never attempt to guess what your date is thinking. You barely know her. You'll likely be wrong. So just open your golden mouth and ask.

 

[Monstruo^]

if u all so scared of being scammed by girl for free meal on first date, u all can go places which is free and no need to eat.

eg go botanic garden to watch free symphony, a walk at the beach, go cycling , go SPCA see dogs

Where’s the element of scam in this story ah?

On a second thought, I’d think the girl kena “scammed” by TS instead.

 

[TiedInsurer]

If a guy likes a girl, he would want to impress her by at least offering to treat her.
If a guy doesn't like the girl, some will just cut loss and ask the girl to split bill.
That's the logic. What is so diff to understand?

If a girl like a guy, she will be willing to let him spend on her because she acknowledged their relationship has moved on to official boy/girl lover status.
If a girl doesn't like a guy, but still wants him to spend on her, then she is a gold digger who is only after his money.
That's the logic. What is so diff to understand?

Above is sarcasm btw, for the EDMW who might interject while lacking context. I'm just pointing out how ridiculous Ichua6's logic is.

 

[Cryptology]

I used to date a girl much richer than me and I was dirt poor back then, only have less than $300 in bank. Yet on the first date I insisted to pay the bill fully, dare not let her know I was poor, scared lose face

 

[ZhouXingXing]

message her and see how she reply you..

if everything ok, ask her out again lor...

if above is not good, then you should know the answer liao

 

[Notbbfa]

There would be. Every first date is between acquaintances. A relationship doesn't usually get confirmed until several dates in. Until it gets confirmed, they are just acquaintances.

First dates aren’t just about time - they’re about intent signals.
Splitting the bill on a first date signals lower romantic investment, and for many women that removes any expectation to continue or follow up romantically.

 

[Heriophant]

first date should always go to the guy house, can cook together, during this activity, can test to see if she know how to cook, if she volunteers to wash dishes later, she score more point

Bro you're from which country?

 

[GhostZM]

Can you do another one for the toilet scene?
Maybe 2 scenes. One before he went in to the toilet, say 1.30pm. Another scene ish 1.35pm. Must put a clock outside the toilet. #JinCekArk

CheerS!!!

 

[Monstruo^]

Bro you're from which country?

Hopefully not from … aiya I cannot say. Heng ah almost type it

 

[lchua6]

When guy said split bill => 90% not interested in girl ,10% stupid
When guy said treat girl => 50% interested in girl, 50% gentleman
When girl accept to be treated => 50% interested in guy, 50% gold digger
When girl refuse to be treated => 50% not interested in guy, 50% woke
When girl said treat guy => 10% interested, 10% not interested, 10% stupid, 70% woke

Just for laugh... don't take the percentage too seriously...

 

[Monstruo^]

CheerS!!!

Hahahaha the graphics very nice leh. Ish there really a restaurant called 八仙 in SG?

 

[CaiPuDan]

i thought school holidays over aldy??

 

[Notbbfa]

IMO, not nice to offer for a split of bills on the first date, from men
Depends on your mindset, because it is likely first impression matters more for women

If women offer to split bill on first date ish what?

 

[GhostZM]

Hahahaha the graphics very nice leh. Ish there really a restaurant called 八仙 in SG?

Thanks..lol
Yes..it is located at 9 Raffles Place, level 63..


CheerS!!!

 

[huihong]

TS go which restaurant?