My first date experience, how should I continue on?

[Monstruo^]

Reflects badly on her lor if it was her turn to treat

Okay. Since the girl you went on first date with is 7/10 to you, but you sound like you also can’t bear to part with a $10 meal.

Then what if a girl is 9/10 or even 10/10 to you, can you bear to part with a $10 meal?

 

[Big Chicken]

huh? I don't get the logic. Can't she be okay and still leave cos no sparks?

Obviously TS was such a turn off she couldn't wait to get out of there, maybe got chao sng smell.

 

[Jaylim123]

Okay. Since the girl you went on first date with is 7/10 to you, but you sound like you also can’t bear to part with a $10 meal.

Then what if a girl is 9/10 or even 10/10 to you, can you bear to part with a $10 meal?

Of course can lah, $50 also can. 10/10 is almost like wonyoung standard already

 

[Monstruo^]

Of course can lah, $50 also can. 10/10 is almost like wonyoung standard already

$50? Lollll

Then $120 per pax can?

 

[glarerder]

$50? Lollll

Then $120 per pax can?

With that amount get a date from maybe.sg lah she'd entertain you better than you use that money treat a girl just to jump through the hoops to impress her.

 

[bochup84]

Quite pretty, i would rate her about 7/10. Nice and pleasant voice, feel her personality not bad also.

I also have a feeling that she has a nice personality because there will be girls who would've made a fuss over splitting bill / given you a rude face / just walk off after paying the bill. The fact that she made a polite exit means she is not nasty.

But if she is quite pretty, and I am assuming you both met on a dating app, she will have no lack of dates who will want to impress her.

 

[Jaylim123]

$50? Lollll

Then $120 per pax can?

If she looks like wonyoung yes

 

[Big Chicken]

$50? Lollll

Then $120 per pax can?

He will probably ask to split it 90/10 with her forking out the 90.

 

[glarerder]

I also have a feeling that she has a nice personality because there will be girls who would've made a fuss over splitting bill / given you a rude face / just walk off after paying the bill. The fact that she made a polite exit means she is not nasty.

But if she is quite pretty, and I am assuming you both met on a dating app, she will have no lack of dates who will want to impress her.

She made a disappearing exit. That's not polite. Maybe polite on the message. Not even face to face. She must be quite unhappy don't even want to see ts after he tidied himself up in the toilet.

 

[Monstruo^]

@Jaylim123

If go Saizeriya on first date, the girl is 8/10, let’s say the bill comes up to $24 for both, so $12 per pax, like that need to split bills mah?

 

[Big Chicken]

She must be quite unhappy don't even want to see ts after he tidied himself up in the toilet.

So before his toilet break I assume TS looked like this?

 

[Jaylim123]

@Jaylim123

If go Saizeriya on first date, the girl is 8/10, let’s say the bill comes up to $24 for both, so $12 per pax, like that need to split bills mah?

No need lah

 

[bochup84]

@Jaylim123

If go Saizeriya on first date, the girl is 8/10, let’s say the bill comes up to $24 for both, so $12 per pax, like that need to split bills mah?

No need lah

So this means hor, the solution for your problem is, in future, you just swipe the 8/10 and above. Then you won't have this split bill or don't split bill problem, ok?

 

[Nevereatrice]

@Jaylim123

If go Saizeriya on first date, the girl is 8/10, let’s say the bill comes up to $24 for both, so $12 per pax, like that need to split bills mah?

knn $24 is cheap until cannot still split

 

[Monstruo^]

@Jaylim123

Okay so

7/10 girl: You not willing to part with $10 meal on first date.

8/10 girl: You ok to part with $12 meal on first date.

9-10/10 girl: You ok to part with $50 meal on first date. Even $120 also can you said.

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For the 8/10 girl, let’s say second date, meal is $25 per pax, she didn’t treat you back, how? Will you ask her to PayNow you?

 

[TiedInsurer]

You cannot tell what his logic is from all his replies meh?

Actually at first I also duno his logic, until I read his replies to different people and there is an emphasis from all his replies and I concluded:

He is looking for a chiobu that he no need to spend money on at all, and that person will go on more dates with him. Subsequent dates I think also go dutch all the way. In a relationship liao I duno. High possibility to dutch also. He is very hard on his money.

We don't know his situation. From how heavily he reacted to the $40 (iirc he said "$40 a lot leh?!"), might be possible that he is low income. In which case i won't fault him for harping that much on $40. Poor people also have the right to date and find love.

What i will fault him for, is going on a $40/pax date when $40 is "a lot" in his opinion. Who does that? lmao...

 

[jq75]

I brought a girl to raffles place for our first date. We had lunch at a chinese restaurant but I asked to split the bill instead of me paying everything. She said ok and she paynow me right on the spot.

After we finished eating I had to go to the toilet so she waited for me outside. 5 mins later after I came out I couldnt find her so I checked my phone and she said that she had to leave because of an emergency.

how should I continue from here? Do I still have chance for second date?

sorry, i left cos i didn't expect to pay on my first date

 

[Ubi-Warrior]

Obviously TS was such a turn off she couldn't wait to get out of there, maybe got chao sng smell.

Apparently.he went for a dump after the meal.

 

[Ubi-Warrior]

We don't know his situation. From how heavily he reacted to the $40 (iirc he said "$40 a lot leh?!"), might be possible that he is low income. In which case i won't fault him for harping that much on $40. Poor people also have the right to date and find love.

What i will fault him for, is going on a $40/pax date when $40 is "a lot" in his opinion. Who does that? lmao...

1st Class Honours NUS Comp Science.

$40 expensive ..... please

 

[zijie1990]

reminds me of this.